Might be true in some circumstances like smile and the world will smile back..i also agree that we also can attract what we might need at a certain moment anddisattract what we dont...but they also say opposites attract for a reason meaning sometimes opposites complete eachother while the same can get into a fuzz...so i would say its relative..as stated...an innocent lamb will definately attract a vicious wolfe etc...the human mind is very complex and there are many sensoric strings floating which either get picked up or picks up...waves..hence attraction is somewhat unexplanable to a precise point.
I dont agree, Ive been on a few dating cites and I never attract someone like me, I have a degree and am always looking for someone who is educated but I always attract the opposite, I am very positive and some of these men just tell me sad or negative stories no matter how I try to turn the conversation around Or I will try to chat about meaningful things and they just want to talk about " your cute " or "what are you doing tonight"
I don't think we attract who we are. We attract who we need. Our needs change after a while, as do the person we attract, so we grow apart. Thus, monogamy is not natural in this respect. But that is another story.