I was feeling a bit disappointed as this happened to me too but the more I read, the more I am discovering it is quite common.
What am I puzzled about is why do adults (whom you would have expected to have reached certain degree of maturity) disguise their real intentions? There are websites dedicated to that type of "relationships" (Maybe they do the same everywhere?)
On the other hand, I have received emails from very lovely gentlemen who sound truthful in their intentions too.
All the best!
Good question, I was wondering the same thing.... However, it is good to know that although some havent found love they met some interesting, decent people. That always makes for a better world. What more can you truly ask for... even though it's always nice to get more than you ask for ;)
God finding love is so hard...I just want a true love...is so depressing to see how most men are lying just in order to have intimate relations...what about serious girls searching for real love? No chance for us?
Steyr1895, how do you propose to get to know someone if you don't put time into it.
Finding "Mr. or Mrs. Right 4U" takes time, so, you do sacrafice a little time to find the
right person, but thats just part of the search. If you know how to find a mate without putting time in, please let me know.
Can't say for sure about this site as I'm too new to it. But I can tell you what I've deduced from two other dating sites I've used. You filter through the usual layers of interests, preferences, personalities, etc., and find someone you think has potential, then email, phone, visit them, etc. Then after you put 3 or 4 months into it, you begin to realize they aren't the person they claimed to be after all. The short of it is that in my experience, many woman (and I'm sure men do the same thing) misrepresent themselves. They're not ax murderers, they just dress themselves up emotionally and behaviorally to be something they are not-- and it finally shows through. And you just wasted 3 months. I don't even mind the money wasted; it's the time you can't replace!
Not yet. What I am finding is that the membership demographics in this area (Hampton Roads, VA) are not all that strong. And seriously, with busy lives, maintaining a long distance relationship is hard enough, but starting one from scratch?
Should be interesting to see how this discussion continues. I just joined, but still on the free part because I am just not sure if this is a real possibility with meeting quality men.
If here were some happy couples, why not to publish their testimonies here?
But this place is a joke. Do not take it serious. Millionaire with 150 000$ per year?!!! Come on! How many years he haas to work hard to save a million??
No such thing, I just met a man say he is single, so interested in me, that came all the way here, and often come to say hi! I guess in hope I change my mind or my friend he fancy would give in... I manage to make him talk and told me his wife live with him at home, but for the past 8 months are seperated, doing their own things, and she is at home, not clear... Even he is nice person, I think his goal is to have fun outside marriage, we just friend because I not that desperate that I let any one play double games with me... When he realized I won't go out with a married man and have an affaire etc. He turn toward my boss, now he fancy her she is been single for 20 years... Pretty lady etc... I don't care if they date, what I know he used me to see her, and she does the same, both always asking about the other... Many say they are so interested etc... We speak then silence when they suppose to go next step... Strange... I'm not sure where all this goes... I saw one I know and his on my face book, his picture is on here, I notice someone using his picture, because he is model and he used one of the adds he is on has an extra photo... Then it pretend he found love with one on here, but she work with him on this add on supplement vitamins... So be carefull all, take your time...
Hmmm...I can say I am very fortunate that thus far I've had very positive experiences...And to answer the question. I did find Love, it just wasn't from the eternal perspective I would have preferred...We were in different places at different times in our lives :(
Yeah, a couple of times over the years... Tall Lynn, short Lynn, Judy... love them all dearly... still do... it just didn't work out.
Jutta, Linda... love them dearly, they are great friends...
@Fit - use your boobs as bait and you're only gonna catch a bigger boob!
@Orlando - Really? I would have thought you would have met several great women on here...
Not even a date!!
The last 3 who emailed me.
1. Asked me to meet him in Vegas and share a hotel room with him, on our first meeting. And this was before we had even spoken on the phone.
2. Asked me to drop my life and meet him for a 2 week vacation.. Again, we had not spoken on the phone.
3. Emailed me telling me not to be put off by the distance, he hoped that wouldn't scare me away. Spoke to him on the phone, I live in a remote area...HE complained about the distance!
Not a match..
Be careful... Most of the men on here are just fishing for a woman who has low self esteem and is an easy target for instant intimacy...
Look out for red flags and pay attention to them... If you're looking for love.
If you're just looking for a good time, you'll have your choice of men as that's what 99.9% of them are interested in...