Are men intimidated by wealthy women? Message Board Forward to friends

  • View author's info Posted on Jun 29, 2011 at 06:23 AM

    Money wouldnt intimidate me. Just dont flaunt it.
  • View author's info Posted on Jun 21, 2011 at 10:04 AM

    Well if they're not golddiggers and the money isn't important to them, I guess they wouldn't have a problem signing a prenupt - that is if I ever get married again.....

    Thanks for all your replies and just so you know, I do have my scam o meter set,lol.

  • View author's info Posted on Jun 15, 2011 at 10:11 AM

    pues a mi una chica con mas dinero me intimida
  • View author's info Posted on Apr 27, 2011 at 02:41 PM

    no intimidation.
  • View author's info Posted on Apr 02, 2011 at 11:08 AM

    The solution is simple- make it clear in initial points of contact that your financial advisor has "locked up" most of your Net Worth and has you on a budget.

    Having worked 30 plus years in the securities industry I have seen some interesting corporate/personal structures that prevent someone from being able to make claim against your assets. You should put such structures in place now rather later and stick to keeping your assets separate.

    I have found that I am somehow much less attractive when the fact that my Net Worth is impaired.

    It is ugly- but the real world.

  • View author's info Posted on Mar 30, 2011 at 08:26 AM

    I'm not intimidated by a weathy woman or a beautiful woman.  I think if you feel confident in youself it doesn't matter about the other person's weathy, beauty, etc.  I find we all have our problems, insecurities, and foibles no matter what we have to offer.  None of us are perfect.  I figure wealthy or beautiful women are no different than other people once we look inside.

  • View author's info Posted on Mar 23, 2011 at 01:35 PM

    Just because a guy seeks out a woman with more money than him does not make him a "scammer" necessarily, just as much as a woman that makes less that would look for a man that makes more.

    I think that relationships like that are less common because society tries to push so much male dominance, and that it is a man's duty to be the one in charge.

    I don't believe that all societal norms are necessarily true, and turning those around could be a great thing for both people!
  • View author's info Posted on Mar 23, 2011 at 11:40 AM

    here's a line I have used....and it never EVER fails.
    When it comes time for the bill or check; and YOU know it's easier for you to pay, and it is no big deal...pick it up and say, succintly, innocently but to the point-
    "I'll get this and if you don't let me, well then when it comes time for the sex, then I'll have to insist on abstinence."

    I have had a sheepish grin and the check handed to me immediately. I have had their hand pulled away ASAP. I have had a huge LMAO; but I still paid. I have had an embarrased pause with nothing to say. I have had a "it's all yours." "whatever you say." "whatever makes you happy." "not a problem."
    And all of the like---but not once have I ever had a man insist on paying after that. And using the right tone and inflection of voice it seems to come off without any intimidation factors. it just seems to take the male ego on money right off the table.
  • View author's info Posted on Mar 21, 2011 at 01:00 PM

    Complicated subject, there is so much to it, it would take me all day to write the proper reply. I'll be brief, some care, some don't, it's all about their ego and your attitude.

    But I know there are alot of guys who would love to find a woman that has alot of money,, so be careful !
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