I'm sure this is a pretty old topic but I feel like saying something to it as well.
I grew up middle class. I was always taken care for. It has been something I grew accustom to.
I didn't qualify for scholarship handouts, I didn't qualify for grants however my father, the only breadwinner in my house, didn't have enough money to send me to college. Believe you me, I have many aspirations for a higher education, it just never happened.
Thanks to my father's work, we traveled a lot on family 'vaca' when he had to go do training for one company or another. I fell in love with it so when I graduated highschool I moved to Cali where I was dating a guy my age. That didn't work so I moved to VA where I grew up and dated a guy 11 years my senior. Well that was good until he quit his job (out of frustration with his ex wife) and lets just say his frustrations were then projected onto my own psyche. He wasn't a nice man. I bore his child and what a beautiful child he is too.
At this point, I'd like to live with a man who can focus on love for his family. That family being me, him and my son.. any pets.. and whatever other children he has or wants. I love kids. I don't want to have to stress over where our next meal is coming from or if the bills got paid so we keep our electricity on.
I am a very passionate and affectionate person. I like to focus on love and what we as a couple can do to strengthen that love. I want to be able to afford to take better care of myself. I want to be with a man who cares enough to shower me in kisses and compliments.. a man and a gent.
I'm not prejudice against where he comes from..
I'm here for the safe secure atmosphere it takes to give all my love.
I am from south africa,never had enough money to get a decent degree,although imanaged to get 8yrs of study in it,training and development and businesmanagement and industrial phycology,dont have funds to finish the mba,iworkd for goverment for more than 10years doing training andevelopment for them. Im currently without a job,and maybe thats why iwant a wealthy guy,the work i do curently is developing microsoftraining material and when its finishd in january and igethem sold iwont need a whealthy guy,ive alwaysuported poor guysince money isnt importanto me,however iwanto have kids and i want a whealthy husband that wil helpme raise one or two babys,im looking for an inteligent emotialy mature man that will never hurt or leave his wife. I hope i answerd all your questions,ask me ifyouwanto know more.im 39 an wanto startmy family soon. Iwant aman that knows how to love a woman.
HOW DO YOU THINK A RICH MAN WILL MAKE YOUR LIFE BETTER?
He won't make my life better; what he'll do is not make my life worse!
I want a man who is strong enough to be in a relationship with me. This is a man who, when he wants something, he gets it for himself. He doesn't sigh and say, gosh, we can't afford that, and puts his dreams on the shelf. It's sometimes called The Law of Attraction, sometimes called chutzpah, sometimes called wealth. Whatever you call it, it separates the men from the boys. I don't want a marraige where I spend all day making my dreams come true and they don't put any effort into theirs.
Alas, most men who have everything they want are already ensconsed in a relationship (if they wanted one of those). You have to catch him at the Magic Window. The Magic Window is to time your arrival into his life as being After Divorce Finalized and After First Practice Girlfreind. Second Girlfreind Post Divorce is the one a Relationship-Oriented male generally seals the deal with. Sometimes Third if they had a lot of pent up wild oats to sow.
So I'm hoping I catch a strong man during his Magic Window - he'll catch me in mine - and away we'll go off into the sunset.
I grew up in a small town in ARKANSAS and my mothers mothers mother have always been the one that worked their asses off to provide for the house hold and with each generation the man of the house would spare a few dollars,spare some of their time and then leave!! so i was taught to be independant and to not depend on men. But what i am looking for is a partner to grow with. i dont ask for much at all because i didnt come from much so i live a "normal" life but when my finances are down i want to be able to come to my partner and ask for help.
I am into power exchange. I met a few millionaires that way. My experiences with them are very good, we have been friends for over a decade. Perhaps the money has something to do with it, perhaps it does not. They are charming, kind, and just.
I like a man to be completely comfortable with ordering me around. People who run large businesses are used to tell others what to do. It is nothing special to them, they do not need me to feel powerful. I like that. And now here is an attractive, intelligent girl that will really do anything he asks for. Those men can handle that and it is extremely sexy. They do not need it to feel powerful, they just enjoy it.
Also, if such a man would lose his respect for anyone who obeys him, he would not get very far. I have never been treated better or more correctly than by those men. They do not expect a submissive woman to be stupid, overly dependent, weak, etc. They inspire me and get the best out of me. I guess there is something to be gained from being in charge of intelligent, successful people all the time :)
"What is your background? Where did you grow up? What do you do for a living?"
Ah, my background. I grew up in the Netherlands. I never lacked anything financially. My parents did not love me and did not take care of me. If that happens to you, it does not hurt to be in the Netherlands. I completed a great education and am now working as a professor. I can take care of myself.
"And most importantly - HOW DO YOU THINK A RICH MAN WILL MAKE YOUR LIFE BETTER?"
That's a good one. What I am doing here :) Well, I do not think a rich man as such will make my life any better. I am looking for a man who wants me as his partner and who can accept my service every once in a while. Someone very loving and tender, who understands enough of me to enjoy my love.
I am not looking for a millionaire,but I am looking for a man that I can admire. I am the kind that would love to know that my man knows better and I can leave important decisions to him.
Believe me I have been in too many relationships when I had to wear the pants. It never ends well. I generally makes sound decisions and my ex would get form a habit of relying on me. And At the end of the day, I want a man, not another child.
Just a site, don't care about money and thing most have no idea what to do with it , when they get it. doesn't = Happiness I believe.
just looking for comfortable, not Milionaire
and also think how do you really know what ppl say about themselves?
So in the end I can take it or leave it and have in the past.
I just registered on this site yesterday because I was home alone and bored. I guess I did it because I want,for once a man to take me out and spoil me. I Want a man who does more than stay at home watch the football or go out drinking and arrives home at 4am drunk with their immature friends. I want someone who is well traveled and still wants to travel and a poor drunken man can't do this.
I have always worked hard all my life I work long hours in a neuro hospital so it's hard to get out and find a decent man. I live in a small city south of England and believe me,you would not want to date a man in this area :)
I don't want to date a rich man because I want all his money but I want to date a man so we can experience a lot together without me having to pay for the both of us all the time. I do like to spoil as much as getting spoilt but I dont like to be taken advantage of so I would feel safer with a rich man :)
HOW DO YOU THINK A RICH MAN WILL MAKE YOUR LIFE BETTER?
of course he will, here are my points:
1/ i dont have to work so hard at work then be a maid do all house works after work. (as he has servants to do it)
2/ have more time for myself instead of begging my bastard boss let me work overtime for extra income.
3/ have more time to love him, take care of him, travel with him instead of work, work and work.
4/ proudly walk in GUCCI, HERMES, LV... n got something nice for myself which cost more than 2 months salary of my current job.
5/ in case he's a bastard flirting around, i'll file for divorce n get half of his wealth. (for a poor husband, after divorce i may get half of his debt)
6/ bought my mom her dream house
and soooooooo much more.......