I grew up in a small town in ARKANSAS and my mothers mothers mother have always been the one that worked their asses off to provide for the house hold and with each generation the man of the house would spare a few dollars,spare some of their time and then leave!! so i was taught to be independant and to not depend on men. But what i am looking for is a partner to grow with. i dont ask for much at all because i didnt come from much so i live a "normal" life but when my finances are down i want to be able to come to my partner and ask for help.
I am into power exchange. I met a few millionaires that way. My experiences with them are very good, we have been friends for over a decade. Perhaps the money has something to do with it, perhaps it does not. They are charming, kind, and just.
I like a man to be completely comfortable with ordering me around. People who run large businesses are used to tell others what to do. It is nothing special to them, they do not need me to feel powerful. I like that. And now here is an attractive, intelligent girl that will really do anything he asks for. Those men can handle that and it is extremely sexy. They do not need it to feel powerful, they just enjoy it.
Also, if such a man would lose his respect for anyone who obeys him, he would not get very far. I have never been treated better or more correctly than by those men. They do not expect a submissive woman to be stupid, overly dependent, weak, etc. They inspire me and get the best out of me. I guess there is something to be gained from being in charge of intelligent, successful people all the time :)
"What is your background? Where did you grow up? What do you do for a living?"
Ah, my background. I grew up in the Netherlands. I never lacked anything financially. My parents did not love me and did not take care of me. If that happens to you, it does not hurt to be in the Netherlands. I completed a great education and am now working as a professor. I can take care of myself.
"And most importantly - HOW DO YOU THINK A RICH MAN WILL MAKE YOUR LIFE BETTER?"
That's a good one. What I am doing here :) Well, I do not think a rich man as such will make my life any better. I am looking for a man who wants me as his partner and who can accept my service every once in a while. Someone very loving and tender, who understands enough of me to enjoy my love.
To be honest most of the men ive dated are struggling themselves or want to live off me and I am a 9 hr a day manager for mcdonalds make salary bi weekly and I dont want to support anyone.I believe relationships are give and take but when a Woman needs help with bills,or once in a while spend on a luxury or two the man should without hesitation offer to help.I havent found one yet that fits that profile.
I am not looking for a millionaire,but I am looking for a man that I can admire. I am the kind that would love to know that my man knows better and I can leave important decisions to him.
Believe me I have been in too many relationships when I had to wear the pants. It never ends well. I generally makes sound decisions and my ex would get form a habit of relying on me. And At the end of the day, I want a man, not another child.
Just a site, don't care about money and thing most have no idea what to do with it , when they get it. doesn't = Happiness I believe.
just looking for comfortable, not Milionaire
and also think how do you really know what ppl say about themselves?
So in the end I can take it or leave it and have in the past.
hahahahahah...it has just me laugh my head off...well, better this way then laugh till I have peed ;P I can still constrict my sphincters (the sphincter muscle of the urinary bladder; made up of a thickened muscular layer of bladder around the urethral opening)hahahahaha by the way, I live and work in London, but was born and grew up( mostly in Brazil, a bit in France and still growing up, lol xxx
I just registered on this site yesterday because I was home alone and bored. I guess I did it because I want,for once a man to take me out and spoil me. I Want a man who does more than stay at home watch the football or go out drinking and arrives home at 4am drunk with their immature friends. I want someone who is well traveled and still wants to travel and a poor drunken man can't do this.
I have always worked hard all my life I work long hours in a neuro hospital so it's hard to get out and find a decent man. I live in a small city south of England and believe me,you would not want to date a man in this area :)
I don't want to date a rich man because I want all his money but I want to date a man so we can experience a lot together without me having to pay for the both of us all the time. I do like to spoil as much as getting spoilt but I dont like to be taken advantage of so I would feel safer with a rich man :)
HOW DO YOU THINK A RICH MAN WILL MAKE YOUR LIFE BETTER?
of course he will, here are my points:
1/ i dont have to work so hard at work then be a maid do all house works after work. (as he has servants to do it)
2/ have more time for myself instead of begging my bastard boss let me work overtime for extra income.
3/ have more time to love him, take care of him, travel with him instead of work, work and work.
4/ proudly walk in GUCCI, HERMES, LV... n got something nice for myself which cost more than 2 months salary of my current job.
5/ in case he's a bastard flirting around, i'll file for divorce n get half of his wealth. (for a poor husband, after divorce i may get half of his debt)
6/ bought my mom her dream house
and soooooooo much more.......