Why would a millionaire join an online dating site? Dating Wealthy Men / Women

  • View author's info Author posted on Feb 17, 2011 20:04


    Hi, I'm new to the site, and ther than actually meeting a great guy on here, the biggest reason I joined was to ask this question, because I not only am I skeptical, I'm actually a little bit embarrased joining.

    If you are a real millionaire, why would you join this top millionaire dating sites ?? I would think that it would be mostly gold diggers joining here, and I would think that you wouldn't want to date those types of people. I know if I was a millionaire, I probably wouldn't want to be meeting people that were specifically looking for a millionaire, as the name of this site implies.

    It also seems to me that if you're a millionaire you have your choice of women/men to choose from? So why come to an online dating site?

    The above is my perception of this of course, so I am genuinley curious, and appreciate honest responses.

    And no, I'm not a gold-digger, that's why I never joined when I first heard about this site, but my curiosity eventually got the best of me, and I just had to find out!
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  • View author's info posted on Mar 04, 2016 08:17


     

    Why millionaires join this website.

     

    1) A million doesn't go very far.   If you never want to work again, and are 50 or younger, you need at least 2 million.  Three million if you are 30.  That lets you live a six figure lifestyle, while still growing your investment portfolio.

     

    2)  Women are just as shallow as men.   They refuse to date men for a variety of reasons, height, power, job, etc.   that have nothing to do with money.

     

    3)  If you are a millionaire but have a major negative - say you are a garbage man (They make about $100,000 - without a college degree - a year, so they can EASILY become a millionaire by the age of 40 if they are good with saving/invesments) you are very likely to not have issues meeting women.

     

    4)  If you tell women you are a millionaire, they either don't believe you, don't care, or are the worst kind of gold diggers.  But if you simply join this website, then you can find women looking for a guy that handles money and you can avoid the worst kidn of gold diggers fairly easily (Look at what the women want - if they ask for $10 million, they are a gold digger - even if they already have 10 million themselves.)

     

    Here is a list of good reasons for a millionaire to be on this website:  (Note - I use He here, but similar issues apply to women.)

    a)  He is short, fat and/or bald.

    b) He is outright ugly.

    c)  He has a crappy job - garbageman is a prime example.

    d)  He is cheap.  How do you think he became a millionaire?

    e)  He has health issues - Kidney Disease, MS, crippled, bi-polar, recovering drug addict/alcohollic, Chron's disease, an STD, Cerebrel Palsy, etc.

    f)  He works 15 hours a day, sleeps for 6, leaving 3 hours to spend with you. 

     

    A lot of us have two or more of these.  I for example am short (but do have my hair and am no longer overweight  - hooray for dieting).   

     

    If you really want to date a millionaire, I suggest you look over this list and pick which ones are deal breakers.

    Then put in your profile how you don't care about the rest.  As in, you might say "I don't care if you have health issues, as long as they aren't STDs."  Or "I love dating short men.",  or "I think men that work 15 hour days are sexy".

     

    An MBA would call this "Strategic marketting targetting an underserved clientele

     

  • View author's info posted on Mar 06, 2015 04:52


    It would be nice to meet someone who is on the same financial strata as myself.  Very simple answer.

  • View author's info posted on Oct 07, 2014 05:20


    You know i am beginning to ask myself why did i join this site. Seems like i am attracting only the ones either fly by night or with a pick and shovel in their hands. I am beginning to beleive that finding a real woman on here is like nailing jell-o to a tree.

  • View author's info posted on Sep 14, 2014 16:01


    Maybie people like me who are milionaire have no time to look anywhere else and looking for same?

  • View author's info posted on Aug 20, 2014 18:18


    hi there fellow millionaire hunter solely for the joy of finding a monied soulmate in these best millionaire dating sites ....it seems to me that the fun of being a millionaire which comes with connotations of successful, decent,motivated,ambitious and the rest allows for the effective efficient use of time.the time element being very important--hence the phrase--time is money.AND SO MY DEAR i AM FORCED TO LEAVE YOU WITH A MORE INDEPTH ANALySIS ---ARE YOU TRULY BEING HONEST WHEN YOU INVESTIGATED YOUR REASONS FOR ATTEMPTING TO WEED OUT THE UNMOTIVATED,UNSUCCESSFUL,LESS DECENT??bEST OF lUCK.....tampacat....PS cONNOTATIONS ARE A FUNNY "FIRST IMPRESSION"---BEWARE AND BE SAFE!!

  • View author's info posted on Jul 03, 2014 02:17


    Actually, i was searching information about dating websites for an article. I am very curious about what would happen here , is it like other dating websites.

     

    This website has a business idea. The subscription fee is higher than other website. They will earn from gold-digger. If you are not the one, you will not upgrade.

     

    I am not a millionaire, so i dont know if they will join this site or not. But the target groups would be: rich older people look for hot young people and/or rich for rich ( 0,1 % lol)

  • View author's info posted on Jun 14, 2014 14:06


    The is the perfect site for you, with or without money.

  • View author's info posted on Apr 12, 2014 11:43


     very true.  Im just looking for a passionate self suficient woman.  But im not a millionaire so probably not the best site for me.  But ill check it out for the next month

  • View author's info posted on Apr 10, 2014 11:28


    For me its not about the money. It's about connecting with someone who you can be friends with and maybe love one day. A lot of dating sites are very tacky and full of guys who wouldn't be as level headed as me so i randomly chose this site, I never knew it had millionaires on it until I was halfway through registration lol. Though I'd say there are a lot of gold diggers here too..

  • View author's info posted on Apr 09, 2014 22:50


    Online is efficient.  A wide net, filters, photos, etc.

  • View author's info posted on Apr 06, 2014 19:53


    I didn´t came to this site looking for a millionaire. My former boyfriends or husband always had financial difficulties and I got tired of maintaining them. I have a pretty decent income, and I don´t need a sugar daddy. I love my job, I just thought that I could meet someone with whom I could share friendship, love or whatever comes along. 

  • View author's info posted on May 15, 2013 16:29


    Great Post! I liked your answer....
  • View author's info posted on Apr 12, 2013 13:37


    Wow, you've made an excellent point.  That makes so much sense.
  • View author's info posted on Mar 28, 2013 19:47


    That is a very good question. Though I am no better for joining this site, but I figured I came across this millionaire match for a reason! I think that some millionaires reasoning for joining this site, is that they know that others do not have it as nice. I am not wealthy, and things are very difficult sometimes. I dream of becoming weathly one day, and I think that some millionaires on here are genuine and generous enough to help someone start off.

    I have seen ads on here by men that want to support a woman! Personally, I would not marry someone if I didn't love them. But if someone that only wanted friendship, and actually wanted to help my family and I out, by all means I would agree. I do believe that some millionaires on here honestly want to help others out, and I think it's wonderful. Hopefully, one of them can somehow find me. My family has known nothing but hard work, so to actually relax for a while would be amazing. That ^ is I hope why millionaires join this website.
  • View author's info posted on Mar 26, 2013 23:00


    Wow, I LOVE LOVE LOVE this question!! Don't we all want to know? And the truth is in all of the great answers. I have found that the men here are overall more grounded, looking for more quality, and have my respect for working so hard and coming so far in their own lives. It feels great to have matches in drive and desire to be "equally yolked". Even as I DO feel a desire to be cherished by a true man, I feel that desire to respect and admire a man for his wins and successes in life. I would like to be supportive, even though I am an extremely successful professional. I believe this site has many traditional, masculine energy men who are movers and shakers, and not metrosexual "fem" men. Ok, nuff said girls. :)
  • View author's info posted on Mar 21, 2013 21:45


    Quoting Back2Gypsy:

    Hi, I'm new to the site, and ther than actually meeting a great guy on here, the biggest reason I joined was to ask this question, because I not only am I skeptical, I'm actually a little bit embarrased joining.

    If you are a real millionaire, why would you join this dating site?? I would think that it would be mostly gold diggers joining here, and I would think that you wouldn't want to date those types of people. I know if I was a millionaire, I probably wouldn't want to be meeting people that were specifically looking for a millionaire, as the name of this site implies.

    It also seems to me that if you're a millionaire you have your choice of women/men to choose from? So why come to an online dating site?

    The above is my perception of this of course, so I am genuinley curious, and appreciate honest responses.

    And no, I'm not a gold-digger, that's why I never joined when I first heard about this site, but my curiosity eventually got the best of me, and I just had to find out!

    So many women dream of dating a rich, intelligent and successful guy.  Problem is, put them on a date with one of them, and 99% of them get completely intimidated.  If the woman does not have a very strong sense of self, and self esteem, she will feel overwhelmed and crave to date some lowlife whom she feels above.  I'm speaking from experience here.  So, when you say 'if you're a millionaire you'd have your choice of people', the answer is no; too many people are intimidated.  Not to mention that the path to success often means working an immense number of hours per week.  Many entrepreneurs would laugh at the idea of going out to a social event to meet people.  When??  After working an insane week and barely sleeping, they just want to rest on the weekend.
    Also, when out in public, usually you will not even know if someone is a millionaire.  I would bet that almost every relatively attractive woman has, at some point in her life, been approached by a very rich and successful guy (in public, at a party, etc.), and pushed him aside thinking he was just another average Joe.

    Eric
  • View author's info posted on Mar 04, 2013 17:50


    I completely had that same question in mind! 
    I too am not a gold digger.  I actually signed up just for a month too see if there are any down to earth men of substance.  I am curious if with money comes class and respect.  We'll see how it goes.
  • View author's info posted on Mar 03, 2013 23:37


    I JOINED THIS SITE   BECAUSE I THINK THAT LIKES LOOK FOR LIKES...JUST AS SOME ONE LOOKING FOR A CAR WOULD LOOK FOR CAR DEALERS,,,,FORD FOR FORD...ETC......
  • View author's info posted on Jan 06, 2013 13:46


    Just because someone has money, doesnt mean that they go out and meet people. In fact, why would I pick a ransom bar, restaurant, or club to go to and be subject to chance? Here I can at least shift the odds in my favor by searching for specifics.  I have tried personal dating services, talk about a waste of time. I have also tried other online dating website, and while they were ok, there are 10 men for every woman. I think the odds here are much better. 

    If shes a gold digger, it wont be hard to figure out. And maybe thats what some guys want?
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