Lets talk about what men Really want Message Board

  • View author's info posted on May 04, 2011 14:07

    So man wants a friend? Where is he?
    Time ago I heard for a year from one man "you so smart and genuine" than suddenly he went for 19yo hooter's waitress. so why to lie if always wanted only a doll? Being trust-worthy and warm isn't enough from a girl! Seems like A good cook, a good maid and the best mother seat alone...
  • View author's info posted on Nov 29, 2010 15:55

    devo. By the look of your photos, it seems you have already made your mind up as to what men want.
  • View author's info posted on Nov 02, 2010 19:29

    Mr. Airbusdriver your a nice guy.

  • View author's info posted on Oct 27, 2010 10:30

    Men want love, respect, adoration, attention, positive reinforcement, sharing, and caring. Boys want you to take care of them, and then whine that you aren't doing a good enough job of it.

    You'll know a man from a boy by how much they have achieved and done for themselves. If they something to show for life after 40+ years, they're more likely to be a man.
  • View author's info posted on Oct 20, 2010 21:43

    hello devo2000,

    Well your situation sucks and it seems that you are in the same situation most of us find ourselves after many years of devotion and trying to have a marriage or relationship. let me give you my short story. I am a successful guy who busted my ass for the welfare and benefit of my family, thought I was doing everything right, working hard, taking care of the kids etc etc etc, anyway find out my wife has an affair with the neighbor , nice huh ? maybe because i wasnt home enough, not enough attention, who knows. in the end it doesnt matter. It is what it is, people change, thats the thing in the modern world. To me, it seems there is no value in for better or worse, it seems its easier to just leave and see whats on the other side, which is not always greener as your ex is finding out how ironic huh? To answer your question, Its hard because we are all built different. As a man, my needs are simple #1 I dont like drama, if there is a problem , fix it, or at least do the steps to fix it. #2 relax, its all good, the man, whoever that is, cant eat us, hahah just a little humor.#3 life is full of ups and downs, ride it, highs and lows, but stay in the coaster or youll find yourself back in line. Thats just a bit of philosophical tidbit. I'm sure he made mistakes as well as you did, just as I did. You can continue to do the what if's, as I did or just move on. There are some great people out there, I havent found one yet and I guess you havent either. but trust me there is. Thers an old joke, it basically goes like this: this guy asks god to grant him a wish, tell me what women want or build me a highway from california to hawaii so I can vacation whenever I want. God replies " do you want A 4 LANE OR A 2 LANE !!! BTW that applies to men too !! once again just alittle humor, its awesome. so heres my other shot at this, I didnt see your profile before, as I dont really look that much, but I work out of orlando and Im there quite a bit. If I would be as bold as to communicate with you, would you like too. I will go on your profile and send you a message, if thats ok, if you got back together with your husband or are dating, good for you.
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