Alaska girl, the ratio of men to ladies is 10 to 1 there - find a traditionally men's hobby that appeals to you and join a local club - you're bound to be one of the few ladies in the club and you'll have your pick of gents in no time.
I've met 2 men on this site. Both nice enough, but for various reasons, neither was a good fit for me.
I'm also on another dating site, and the difference seems to be that MM men are much more arrogant, have a sense of entitlement, and can't handle rejection well.
I am actually going on one in the next few weeks... we will see if this is not a scam.... I do not think it is but I caught a few when I first started... Amazing how they all have a similar script to follow.... I don't see how they find the time...I wonder if they are all in relationships... Anyway... You haven't went on one at all? Wish you luck!! He may be right around the corner...