I don't think it's that they are gold-diggers, I think it is that they trust you as you have been certified by the site. It's the same as having one's profession, age, or education certified. It's reassurance. I once went on a date with psychopath who claimed he was film producers. However, since I'm in the film industry, it didn't impress me much and within 15 minutes of talking about the industry it became clear that this person was a fraud and probably just wanted to get me into the sack. The same goes for guys with no money at all. No woman, who works hard and enjoys such things as travelling, wants to end up with a scammer who turns out to have less money than she does. She ends up paying for the trip instead of him. I've seen it first-hand. So, I believe that it is a good idea to get certified, then use your own good judgement. Scammers reveal themselves very quickly.
some men figure if they say how much money they have they can actually buy any girl they want use them and drop them for another model or someone else who is all made up there are some of us ladies out there that would like to have enough money to live comfortable my mom taught me its not what you have but how you treat a person money cant buy you love it has to come from in a persons heart true love shouldnt be based on how much money you have but how much love you can give a person
I have seen what greed does to people and how it can affect relationships. My family was destroyed by greed after my grandparents past away and still has a very harsh affect on my relationship with several members of my family. Money and materialistic goods cannot make a person happy, they can only show status.
"I would rather be the happiest person in the world with no money than have all the money in the world and no happiness."
i spoke with a girl on monday this week and she told me she can not go out with me.. I asked why?... she said to me that i can not provide for her needs.....
I told her she should stop going towards men with that impression that she needs money, but she was so desperate and wanted that money... I dont blame her she is a full time college student and she has a grand mother she had too take care of but she never care about her own stakes not to know that its going to affect her love life if she continues to seek for rich men....
what i am saying is that sometimes women has a reason for their needs of riches.. but should it be so ovious and should it be that way... isn't there a way to this...
but i know that we dont have to go extra miles just becus of money but its an essecial factor of life...
Not sure why you are asking this question...you are old enough to know the answer and I bet smart enough just the same.
I know of ONLY of a few VERY successful marriages/relationships where two people really are in love and would never trade their mate for any another. My parents are perfect examples of what true love is. Dad made big time money, mom invested it wisely and totally watched what she spent, the biggest bargain shopper of the 20th century she was....they lived a very very good life and had a marriage that everyone envied. Though my father had a income way above the rest, he could not believe once my mom passed away exactly how wealthy he had become and all because he allowed my mom to budget his earnings while he managed his own business. Reality is, he would have traded all his wealth to give mom life again but life is the one thing that cannot be purchased for any amount of money. My dad died a very wealthy man but missing his life partner each day before he passed away.
I say being verified is good because it shows you are the REAL DEAL (many out here are just pure BS) but it's a big ol spot light for money hungry gals.
If women are willing to KILL for insurance money what does that say about how money can cause GREED?
GREED......It's been around since time immemorial....he who had the best cave and is the best hunter and provider gets the gal.
SHALLOWNESS.... men rather date a pretty young thin woman regardless of her character as long as she makes him look good. In reality when youth stands next to older men...it just makes him look older and make people think he paid for her company. Usually that is the case.
Depends what you are looking for I guess.
You must know, those who are capable of being the best PROVIDERS can easily get the GREEDIEST GALS.
Men want sex with a hot young woman so they can afford to pay for it. It's an ego boost for the man. Do you want TRUE LOVE or an ego boost?
Women want $$$$$$$$ ...aka a good provider, regardless of who much the man disgusts them, they get what they want with their looks and eventually move on.
Take Trump for example....he trades his companions in on a regualr basis and in return the women get a very good settlement.
Many insecure wealthy men trade up...why? because they can, they can afford a new ego boost and need one especially when over 40. Trust me...Trump does not get the gal because of his looks and Hefner he is a cool cat n all but come on Hef was born in 1926...a grandpa with cash. I will say this...my dad did admire Hef..dad was a real joker kind of guy...he said Hef is the only guy that did not have to die to go to heaven. :D
Greedy bimbos trade just the same...why? because she can....hot young chicks and hot mature chicks too do not want an old man or unattractive man... they want youth and or good looks such as they are so once they got some of the wealthy man's cash, it's time to trade out for the young hottie with the six pack abs.
Wealthy men need to ask themselves...
1.) Would this chick date me if I my income was that of middle class America?
2.) Would I date this chick if she was nice looking but not a Barbie Doll?
The answer will determine who and what you are.
There is a price attached to everything in life.....even companionship....just ask any hooker.
Sorry to sound so harsh. But the truth is the truth. I seen enough wealthy men use the wrong head and then do nothing but bitch about getting burned once they are dumped and lost a ton of cash. Worse yet...if they have children in common, women often use the children as bargaining power. Another fine example of kids paying for their parents mistakes. So very sad :(
There are a lot of liars out there....someone who went through any kind of a verification process is a safer bet than one who has not. Seriously, all other items relatively equal,a man (or woman) with money tip the scale to their favor.
And then there are those with a ton of money, but, with the unfortunate lack of social skill to the point that it doesn't matter how much money they have....that sace is NOT tipping favorably....then the unfortunate sap should spend a little bit of all that asset s/he has accumulated and get someone to train him/her in the subtler sensibilities of social intercourse...
Just my humble opinion....what do I know? I am making this stuff up as I go...