If you are certified its because you are showing you are a secure guy/girl that has his/her head screwed on which is the purpose of the site, I certified myself purely to find someone similar nothing wrong with that and hey you can always delete the handbag shoppers, I have had some real crazy requests on here too however there are many women on this site that are established themselves, beautiful smart, less focused on stuff and more on the man etc, personally I like successful women they have an appreciation for the effort it takes to be successful and are a lot more stable.
If a women is not successful herself and she wants the best why not but she should at least bring good character to the table and provide an equal effort in regards to making a man feel wanted and appreciated its a two way street.
I once dated a girl that had nothing but drove 160 miles round trip with no AC in California to surprise me for 10 minutes with an apple pie she made for me, I was absolutely stunned I had the biggest smile on my face, then 10 mins later she said she had to go because she had to go to work, all that way for me and made a pie too, I will never forget that.
Wow! I am having doubts about signing up on this site. I was encouraged by a friend to join - not because of the name of the site but because she has a friend who found love with a good man and is now happily married. I am self-sufficient as I work hard and have for years. I can take care of myself, I am happy, strong and capable. I know first-hand the value of a happy, loving relationship and what it adds to life. I am single after 30 years and looking for a life partner down the road -- someone who looks forward to life ahead, who is able to take care of himself and, someday, be a strong and supportive partner with me. Taking care of me does not mean bankrolling my life. It means being there, listening, sharing, growing, experiencing adventures - big and small -- TOGETHER. The bank account, accomplishments he has experienced in life mean nothing if that is the only way he measures his success in life...honesty, hard work, reliability, compassion, initiative, loyalty, kindness and so many other traits are the measure of a man that mean most to me. This man would expect no less from his partner. Yes, I signed up on this site but it was in hope of meeting a good person first and foremost and someone who has a drive and still wants something out of life...not a slacker or someone who does not know how to treat a lady. Money does not automatically equal class. I can see by what I have read in some of the profiles that there is a wide range of stories. In the end we are all vulnerable. I just hope that people are honest and open about what they are looking for here.
YOUR POST WAS ACTUALLY PRETTY FUNNY! IN HOW YOU INTENTIONALLY CHANGED UR STATIS FOR THE PERSONAL ENJOYMENT OF READING - HOW MANY WAYS WILL A WOMAN LIE FOR THE MONEY!HECK, I MIGHT HAVE LIED MYSELF IF I THOUGHT YOU WERE MY TYPE! LOL!JUST LIKE YOURSELF, IT WOULD HAVE BEEN FOR MY PERSONAL ENJOYMENT, OF OUT WITTING THE LIARS!WHICH BY THE WAY, IS HARDER TO DO THEN MAKING MY OWN MILLION!
If you want women to chase you for your cash / get certified. The bimbos will come out of the woodwork. If you want some one to love you for you / dont, and see what happens. So you are a millionaire, great, me 2 , big deal... people will do anything for money, including marry it. You can marry more in a minute than you can make in a life time. Fortuneately I dont have to worry about that problem. No, I am not certified and dont plan on being. I dont have to work that hard, I can live comfortably on my income from my job, and interest from my investments. I love the fine things in life as we all do, and I try to enjoy everyday I have on this earth. I saw my Dad go way too soon, and I would give back a mill to have him around for another year. He left us all well off after a lifetime of hard work, we ( my brothers and I ) can enjoy the the fruits of all his labor, thanks to his generousity.
Find a young thing that loves you and your money. If that is what you want. Or find a girl who loves you for you. - Its that simple. Good Luck in the hunt - or are you now the hunted !!
What it is wrong looking for somebody who have financial security, witch a have and I would like to have man with same security and enjoy life together. This didn't mean I am gold digger. I just don't like to be financially dependent on somebody. I would like to meet man with some morals and fin. values as me.
I think you did the right thing to get verify your income. To me, you are telling the truth about your income and it’s a plus. Like some other member said, he/she can say anything he/she wants in his/her profile to catch the man/woman. So, a lot of women contacted you because of your income. You should find out she is really looking at yourself or your money. Then go from there.
The sad thing is many of rich men in 40th and 50th are looking for at least 10 years younger than him. This makes me think he is looking for to be nothing but "Sugar Daddy"
The other thing I noticed is those rich men is looking for women in high education and income, Hot & Very Good looking, and sexy body. It may be easy to find this type of women through his work ... what is your opinion?
Online dating is the number one place to cross a fake, immature, phony fraud. It's one place you can post anything you wish till the day of actually meeting face to face. The first impression is very important. Seeking wealth is not seeking for true love from the heart. Love comes with time. Some woman all they seek is a chance to find a sugar daddy who is willing to give all they have but that is just giving out weal-fair to make an impact statement. Yes, woman do tend to want to be pampered and seek the one guy who would bend over backwards to give them the stars and sun and moon. To me if a guy went off bought me a star sure I would be impressed but yet not as impressed as if a man took me out camping while looking deep in my eyes he turned and dedicated the falling star to me for I was his angel in life. Words are words till emotions and truth is able to be seen.
The one thing in life you cannot buy is love. True love from the heart takes time to develop.
This IS called millionairematch. What did u think was going to happen?? IM blown away that you are THAT shocked. And if ur not looking for goldiggers,why not join another dateing service whos title does not imply your wealth?????????? Come on now,dont be coy!!! I wish you the best of luck in your endeavors ,and a serious reality check!!!
From what you've, royalprince1, expereinced, you kinda answered your own question. Though, personally and the fact I don't like being generalized, I do not. Obviously, I'm not the only one who doesn't change their tune after learning about one's status. These women want (and looking beyond) more than that. Basically, some do, some don't.
Contessa2006, don't bash the man for his preference. He likes what he likes. If what he likes doesn't pan out, he will continue his search and may tweek his "requirements" in the future. He may even choose to stick with it and keep on this never-ending soapbox of hurt. Who knows, he may be holding onto that glimmer of hope: there is a younger woman out there who has all of the qualities he wants.
I think you should go at him directly, none of this passive aggressive mess against younger women. Elevate yourself to the deteriment of others....a tad bit immature. You never know, he may actually like what you have to offer. The choice is his, though. He will do whatever on his own, not by somebody else telling him to do so. He's a big boy.
Honestly, I resent your assumption. You don't know what a 25 year old has been through, so your point that they are inexpereinced is mute. Even though you may have years on her, she could be just as mature as any other older woman due to her experiences in shorter life.
I would say first of all, you might need to rethink your age requirements for the women you seek. A 50 yr old man, looking for young, inexperienced 25 to 38 yr olds seems.... well... egotistical and lacking substance, among other things.
Bottom line, yes... the majority of these 'young' women are looking for a sugar daddy, they're not looking at your character, personality, etc. Men need to look beyond their boyish fantasies and realize the obvious.
For me, what I've found is that very often there are guys on here claiming to be millionaires or well off and not that they have to be mega wealthy, but if they are on a site like this, they better be able to back it up and most of them are just wannabes. I recently went out with one guy who was a downright cheapskate. He bragged about how successful he is, blah blah blah, but we went out, I had one drink and an appetizer...I was starving afterward...I'm tiny, but I do eat...lol and...this was a Saturday night date at starting around 7 PM...should I have eaten beforehand? Then he took me to a show we got into for free because of a "friend of his" (we live in Vegas, its not unusual...;) but still...and then went to one of the nicer clubs for free, again because of a "friend of his" still no dinner...by this time, I just wanted even a cheeseburger or something...lol...okay, I'm not greedy...never have been, never will be, but in this case, I just felt like he was being downright cheap...sorry if I offend anyone, but this guy was pure BS and that's why I am more impressed if someone is "verified"...
You sure know how to shack a hornets nest... I've only seen two maybe three repies that barely touch base with the question your asking. I'm not going to degrade any of them. Nonetheless what I do very well is study people, and their words. (Side note) Even not using capitol letters in your comment, and misspelling words, can be an instant turn off.
Back to your question. Yes woman change when they now a man can provide everything they desire. it's as old as Adam and Eve, when Eve loathed for that shiney apple, and now you.
Men are like that too, but adding that you are certfied millionaire just rasied the bar on how difficult it will be to weed through this swap and find that one beautiful thing your looking for. I like to call it a blood Orchid.
You have a long road ahead of you Mr. Prince. These words may fall on deaf ears, but there maybe one listening that understands all this. My best wishes on finding her.