Hello Michael, Valid questions, kudzu to you. I look for a man of quality. someone compassionate not ordering me around, respectful as I believe respect over the years is as important as communication, we often forget how we take someone for granted. A man that enjoy life and the simplicity of it. not just a lover but a companion...... I find irresistible when a man is well dressed, and is intellectual.
I am on this site because there is a better chance of meeting someone who has or is pursuing an advanced degree.
Given that my dream has always been to pursue a PhD, I feel that it would be beneficial to know others of the same... intellectual desires. And because many (though not all) men feel uncomfortable with a woman earning substantially more than him, it seemed reasonable to look for a man whose projected income is between 50 and 100k less than my own projected income. I do apologize if that seems... shallow... but money is often a prime driver of relationship issues, and and one I'd prefer to avoid.
Intelligence is the most irresistable quality in a man, to me. When someone randomly offers related and detailed facts... ah, such a heart throb!
I chose MM because I would like a good caliber of man, one that is chivalrous, compassionate, loving and romantic. I¿m looking for a man that allows me to be me. Someone that I can laugh with grow young together with¿after all true love makes you feels younger. A man that understands that they cannot change other people that they can only change themselves and that they accept people, honor, encourage and support them not only in words but in deeds; a man that is not afraid to cry.
I have tried the cheap sites! Met men with no values, lack of confidence and the conversation was empty, and they wanted to sleep with me now! Plus i had to buy my own coffee! talk about dissilusioned!! So thought there had to be some decent men, professional with intelligence, good conversation and perhaps some chivalry thrown in. I can look after myself but what girl doesnt love a man to treat her like a woman? with respect, i have just joined this site, so hopefully i am going up with the callibre of people i will perhaps meet.
Very simple, this is another option. Curiously this was my first time to try a dating site. After this I've tried other sites but the quality of the comments ared definately here. There is the possibility to find someone with education and well manered here.
Nevertheless there are also comments that does not produce my empathy. But there is the possibility that some comments brighten your attention and curiosity. Also there is the chance to learn about different profiles, there are interesting lifes, purposes and thoughts. Reading profiles here can be a lesson or a reason of motivation to improve a new thing in your life. In deed I've been marveled of how a good education and money develope a person faster than only good education.
The reason to be here is to part of the job to find the soul mate but also to start friendship with people who share the same interests and people from whom I learn a lot ;) I really enjoy learning ;)
This website was new to me. I took a look around & decided to give it a try.
I never assume I will find Mr Fabulous online (or in real life for that matter) Nor do I take it personal when men I find interesting dont return my interest. I just try¿& have fun. What will B.....will B.¿ :)¿ I love meeting people & making friends.
I have been on a couple different dating sites and had success. Meeting people I wouldnt normally meet in my everyday life, making friends, finding romance in unlikely places....My last BF was from Australia.¿ Even though he wasnt "The One", it was still a great experience. :)
What makes a man attractive to me? It varies... But, overall I look for open minded & adventurous types. Optimistic & sincere with a great sense of humor....¿
Well Michael as corny as it sounds, what is irresistible to a woman is the same thing that is irresistible to a man. Someone confident with a good sense of humour....that's it.
Doesn't have to be the most handsome man in the room, or the best dresser.
We women enjoy and want to be around men that make us feel good....it's that simple.
Can't always tell from a wink either Michael. So one reads, and hopes half of what is written is true, then we click that wink! smile.
Good Luck to You.
Honestly I've been on so many other websites i decided to give this one a try. I'm not seeking refuge.
I'm looking for someone who has a soul and isn't afraid to show it. i'm looking for a best friend who isn't afraid to laugh til they fart or snort. I want someone i don't have to beg to let me into their life.
I have been rogue my entire life and i'm tired of approaching men. I won't do it anymore.
Irresistably attractive? Gosh where do i begin? Other than looks, kindness. Respect in other peoples beliefs. Someone who is past arguing or cheating. SELF RESTRAINT! A man with a strong mind who isn't held captive to carnal wants and wishes. A man that if he doesn't have what he wants, he's on his way to get it. You know i just described myself. Damn
My co-worker recommended this site to me and I agree with fifficus, I hoped to find someone with substance. But I haven't had any luck so far,¿I'm wondering if I should bother to renew my membership:-(
As far as your other questions:
I'm looking for compatibility
If I fit his criteria (no sense in sending a response if he's specific in¿what he's looking for)
Not sure how to answer the last question, I've found different things irresistable, it depends on the person.
I've never been on any dating site but looked at a few and decided there was probably a higher chance of finding someone who is educated and can have an intelligent conversation than on most other sites.
I am not materialistic, neither am I stupid to think that everyone on here is rich. If you really had that much money would you seriously brag about it and get used by male or female golddiggers? I would think that most who have money and seek that someone special would keep it quiet to be liked (and loved) for who they are and not what they have but ... I may be wrong.
Personally I don't care if anyone is rich or not as long as I can maintain my life style. Because of my work it is also very important to me that the person I may meet is also self employed or extremely flexible in their living arrangements if there is to be a chance of a real relationship. ¿ ¿
1. i m in MM site cause i want a rich man!
i m sooo sick paying for guys.
2. im am looking for Mr.Perfect
3. cause they sent me first
4. honestly... ass. my eyes just watch men asses when they walk in front of me.some can be sooooooo cute, some not.
I have always had the ?you can?t buy me, I can take care of my self attitude? and I still do. However I can?t seem to find a man lately that I?m attracted to who has his own money. Ever since I started dating I never get the full package I always get either or meaning I?m not attracted to him but he can buy me an island or I?m attracted to him but he can?t buy me a cup of coffee. I can?t be with someone I?m not attracted to some people maybe able to do so but I can?t. The whole time I?m with you I?ll feel as though I?m using you and although we all use each other in some form or another my morals would not allow me to do so.
I?m looking for a man who can hold his own?strong personality, attractive (to me), good sense of humor and honest.
I?m old fashioned so I won?t send you an email unless you send me one first. Although strong opinionated women came to be a great fashion in the 1990s I still feel that the man should lead the chase. However if I find something in your profile that peaks my interest I WILL send you notice.
I?m telling your right now that the most irresistible quality I find in any man is cockiness. Someone who believes he can get whatever and whomever he wants because he deserves it is orgasmic to me. However that can also be his down fall with me; you must possess it but know where to draw the line with it.
Men please take care of yourself just because you have money doesn?t mean you can look however you want to. Women have been trading beauty for wealth for centuries and the same way you can be picky with whomever you would ?wife? as a status symbol it?s the same way we can be picky when it comes to health. Put down the Stake and pick up a Dumbbell once in a while or take a walk around the block instead of driving everywhere. Let?s get real after we?ve been waiting for love for so long you?re not going to just role over and die of high blood pressure or heart attack. Because when it all comes down to it you may be able to give us security but if you?re dead that?s all we?re going to have. And I can?t speak for any woman but myself---when you love me great NOTHING can replace that.