1.) I am tired of the young ones chasing cougars and thinking I will support them or teach them a few tricks. I just can't deal with a guy who's car is still on his parents insurance and instructing him in the sac. I will however say the younger the more eager to please. Plus the six pack abs, youthful skin and full head of hair do not hurt the eyes like wrinkles and receding hair lines do. But if looks were what it took to achieve happiness I never would have divorced my husband.
2.) Guys near to my age are divorced from young gals that took them for a ride...now they are broke...NOT my problem
Money is NOT everything and those who have money are not all that. I hope to find a mate who is as good with money as I am and is headed in the same direction as I am.
We need not be financial equals but I have a substantial contribution in physical assets as well as intellectual assets and so should he. I'll share if he is worthy and I expect him to do the same. I am actually more interested in making, saving, investing money together to enhance our life style while together way more so than spending money foolishly just because we can. Remember...we never get richer...we just live better.
Though money, sex and physical attraction go a long way, it is not long enough. Staying with someone 30 years and asking them if they had the chance to do it differently, knowing they would say NO means the world to me.
Attraction is the cause to knock on the door. Answering the door is MUTUAL attraction. Visiting again is the beginning of chemistry and being able to live and live a happy life even with the other persons faws (we all have them) and personality quirks, lets us know that MUTAL CHEMISTRY has been achieved.
So...that's why I am here...to find out if my equal exists, if we will ever find each other and if we will know we finally found our perfect match.
If everyone is true to their words about why they are on this website, then I have to admit that all of you who are saying money is not really the issue surprised me.
Money is an issue for me. I want to be able to relax, laugh, and enjoy life with someone instead of always wondering how many hours do I have to put in so that I can pay my bills without it turning into how few hours I have left to spend quality time with someone. Money gives you that luxury. How can anyone in this day and age be relaxed enough to show who they really are when you don't have a clear mind due to the distraction of expenses.
I joined this site because on other dating sites the men that come to talk to me are 40-50 yrs old men who are totally irresponsable (can't keep a job or an apartment) and I don't need that. I was raised to be independant and to be proud of what I have, no matter how inexpensive it is, because I worked hard for it. I'm not the kind of woman that care about money or that will be mad at you because you got me a 5$ gift for my birthday, as long as I like what it is even if it's just you taking time off to be with me. I hope that men on this site are more responsable than the ones I met on other sites..
I joined this site because it looked to be a safe place to make friends and maybe find someone who would like to be with me(and not 1 or 2 or 3 others after making a serious move). I am in no way, shape, or form a golddigger. Money can't buy love or happiness. At least not the lasting kind. I am too strong willed and independant to lower myself to be in a relationship for anything but love. I have taken care of myself all my life and can continue to do so. And I am not so shallow to allow myself to deceive people for my own personal gains.
i came on this site to find a nice beautiful women that likes to show her man the finer things in life i work hard... & if ya take a chance on me i promise i play just as hard... or soft if ya like lol
THE REAL REASON I JOINED THIS SITE IS BECAUSE I HAVE BEEN WIDOWED IN MY FIRST MARRIAGE OF WHICH I HAVE 2 TEENAGERS, AND DIVORCED FROM MILLIONAIRE AND AN ALCOHOLIC. I FIND THAT EDUCATION BEING AS EXPENSIVE AS IT IS THAT IT IS THE MILLIONAIRES THAT I HAVE FOUND PROVIDE THE MOST INTERESTING EXPERIENCES AND CONVERSATIONAL STIMULUS. MOST OTHER MEN ARE FRANKLY UNIMAGINATIVE.
The reason I joined this site, I would like to share my life with a special man. I figured he could be in here on this site, just as well as any other dating site. I am on lots of dating sites. Im aware that with people's busy lives we need to allow ourselves to be accessible as much as possible.