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Posted on Wed, Feb 17, 2010 03:27

lol ok let me wrap this up lol,why do ladys say give i up like they are not getting anything,man be giving it up to,either ways its not really cool tho,i myself would call you back cos you would have been real,you didnt lie,you saying you dont want to and you do is a lie on the first date,whats worse? ANBODY? LOL
follow your heart and be yourself baby

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Posted on Sun, Feb 14, 2010 06:01

If you are looking for a booty call and not a serious relationship, it is OK on the first date. There aren't many men that are going to want a woman that gives it up on the first date because he will always wonder how many others she had on their first date. Happy Valentine's Day.



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Posted on Fri, Feb 12, 2010 21:01

No matter what, if the sex was really good for him then yes he will call you back. Because he'd want to sleep with you again and again until he grows tired of you. But be aware that by giving it up too soon, you pretty much lost your leverage in being a serious girlfriend. That is if this is what you wanted in the first place..... Generally people (especially men) take more value in things which they had to work hard for. If you give it up without really getting to know each other first and building a relationship beyond physical attraction, then the relationship is just based on sex.



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Posted on Fri, Feb 12, 2010 20:20

Depends on what u want him calling for. If u dont mind booty calls then yes, if u were good, he may call back. If u are looking for more, then its like putting the cart before the horse. It's in a mans nature to conquer and once he does, so easily, there's no motivation to chase- or get to know the real you!



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Posted on Fri, Feb 12, 2010 17:28

Yep, I did that, one time, and it was my idea. We dated for a few years. I really cared for him, at the time. We're still friends after five years. Now he's venting to me about how much money he's had to give up to get out of a marriage with a crazy woman. He says he married her out of gratitude. I guess I didn't do anything for him to be grateful for. Even when he was married, he'd call me. He got another phone and hid it to call me. He's bi-polar, but he also lies and frankly, he's pretty damn good at it. I liked the fact that he treated me like a lady, took me nice places and was a gentleman when he was with me. Then he told me about this site that he was a member of and even stupid enough to give me his password, and asked that I didn't read his mail. Ha! Ha! For some reason, I feel sorry for him, and also he was one of the best in bed I've ever been with. I don't give it up anymore, but he still tries. I guess I'm the dummy. I don't want to give up the friendship. I think I was the only woman he had been with that refused gifts, of any kind. He wasn't used to that. I don't want to be bought. p



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Posted on Thu, Feb 11, 2010 13:42

i agree with it to right now i j ust got divorsed i fill i need to get some now iam just not letting it happend iam better thein that so no iam playing hard to get now and i will fill alot better now so not doing that my body vary pretty and i am to so god gave it to me so gota take care of it and tell know next person and iam dateing he will not get me untell down road if he fills i dont give in and leaves he not worth it all from brenda mae



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Posted on Sat, Dec 19, 2009 07:03

Totally agree! Why would you give it for free when you could get some ok money for it???? Basically you are an unpaid hooker if you give it up on first meeting. You will be the talk of the locker room next day. And he won't call you honey!



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Posted on Mon, Dec 14, 2009 23:44

Wow! I cannot do that! and you should not do that! That is not cool.
I agree with Ms.Barbarella2010!

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Posted on Tue, Dec 08, 2009 21:34

No way. You don't know him well enough to share your precious body with him, so you're potentially risking your healthy. Most men brand a woman as easy if she has sex on the first date, and believe that she probably acts gives herself away to every man she meets. Play hard to get, honey!



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Posted on Tue, Dec 08, 2009 17:04

Quoting bonita_92253:

If I have sex with a guy during our first date, would he call me back?



What about those special sites where men and women are looking only for one thing: sex
Will they call each other after one night?
My friend is too much in it.....Ugly, never know what you can get with a starngera even after first night



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Posted on Sat, Nov 28, 2009 12:34

I RESPECT YOUR COMMENT ON HERE CAUSE MOST MEN WONT CALL OR NOTHING ELES



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Posted on Sat, Nov 28, 2009 07:50

Better have, how u knew him dear, maybe he is impotent...



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Posted on Fri, Nov 27, 2009 13:33

Missevey wrote:
no way it would be so disrespectful to your body and if you dont have respect why would he have respect for you.

WHAT SHE MEANT WAS HER PINK OUTFIT LOL

I am sorry I just wanted to know how it feels to be a Jerk..



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Posted on Thu, Nov 26, 2009 06:46

It is a no, no for me!



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Posted on Wed, Nov 25, 2009 21:13

In rare instances I have known men who have had sex on their first date, and it lead to a serious relationship.
However, that is the exception and not the rule.
One of my female friend's ended up marrying the man she slept with on their first date.
I like to get to know someone before anything intimate takes place. I like to see if we have anything in common on the first date....Maybe my date is not my type.
Isn't that what a first date is supposed to be about? Hello
In today's world, one should be a little cautious don't you think?

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Posted on Sun, Nov 22, 2009 06:35

I Never do,So if I like her then I wait for the second date :-)



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Posted on Sun, Nov 15, 2009 17:38

Hmmmmm! good question..that one is loaded. just wrap it up..

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Posted on Sat, Nov 14, 2009 03:12

IF YOU JUST WANNA HAVE A FLING THEN YOU SHOULD HAVE SEX ONTHE 1ST DATE BUT IF YOU WANT LOVE THEN WAIT HE WILL RESPECT YOU IN THE LONG RUN. LADIES KNOW HOW TO WAIT.



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Posted on Tue, Nov 10, 2009 11:45

dam girl depends on tha caliber of tha man....but i kno its hard not to give in lust....but from mah personally experience...men will learn to respect u more when u make than earn it



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Posted on Sun, Nov 01, 2009 08:17

I would call you back thats for sure you are very goodlooking i think it would be there lost thats for sure



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