Okay, this is going to irk many of the traditionalists...but, it doesn't matter. It just doesn't matter. Rules are simply a replacement for conscious thought. Social conditioning (not your emotions, not biology, not evolution) tells women that they are WRONG for their physical desires. Most of the harsh judgements came from OTHER WOMEN. Feel free to reread the posts if you missed it. So, in order to satisfy this social conditioning (which is enforced by other women as a threat to her most valuable asset to a potential mate...her reputation), she comes up with RULES like no sex on a first date.
Okay, kiddies, what if she has sex on the second date? Does that make her any more or less valuable? What about the third? In either case, it is totally meaningless from the standpoint of objective reality. Completely meaningless.
Her health, you argue? Having sex with 10 partners on first dates poses no greater risk than 10 partners on second or third dates. Make sense...?
No long term potential? Well, I've had several multi-year relationships with women I slept with immediately (first night). Every woman is aware of the "It Just Happened" clause.
What a woman understands with me is I just don't care either way. I'm not going to pass judgement whether it happens today, tomorrow, or next week...as long as it's authentic, what she truly feels in her heart of hearts. If I get the impression that she is just following some outside rule/muddled intent (like only on the 3rd date or what would her friends think, etc), then I'm gone. To me those behaviors (outside rules) represent manipulation and game playing. If she has not reached the point where she can think for herself and make decisions based on what SHE feels is best for her, then she is to be recycled for further development. I have too many options to tolerate immaturity.
I had sex with a woman I met during a dinner. We've been togheter for three years. I don't hink that we can find some rules on this. It depends on the persons, on the situation, on a lot of things as somone has already told.
I usually let the things to go and I try to do this without thinking about it before..
I would say it depends. If there are great connection and chemistry and you two feel the same, it is not a deadly mistake. He will definitely call you back if it was amazingly good. However, if you do get his call, make sure to put break on by not jumping straight into the physical scene again. You have to get to know each other in order to develop a serious relationship. You still have chance to gain respect from your man if deep down you are a respectful and respectable person. (I need to follow my own advice :))
if i want a serious relationship with you know i would actually make you wait because i want you to get to know me inside and out now if i want a booty call i would just go to a club so booty callers dont hit me up you get me acting like a nun however you spell it lol no sex from me you get tested first then sex after you fall in love with me.