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Posted on Wed, Jun 09, 2010 05:58

ups! I mean HER..



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Posted on Wed, Jun 09, 2010 05:57

and if you are still with here, why is your profile on this site?



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Posted on Sat, Jun 05, 2010 17:34

I must be old fashioned.

 

If he gets it the first night, then he will believe she was to easy and will keep searching for more elsewhere.

 

Also women who typically do it on the first night are never presented to families as marraige material.

 

Men are hunters!...Read it carefully again...Keep them hunting for something more.



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Posted on Wed, May 05, 2010 23:13

If he has any class - of course he will - and I would hope you would not sleep with a guy you were still wondering if he will call you for date #2 !!



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Posted on Wed, May 05, 2010 10:11

I had sex with a woman I met during a dinner. We've been togheter for three years. I don't hink that we can find some rules on this. It depends on the persons, on the situation, on a lot of things as somone has already told.

I usually let the things to go and I try to do this without thinking about it before..

 

CIao!

 

Roberto



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Posted on Mon, May 03, 2010 02:53

Quoting sundancef2000:

A tale of two women.
I had 7 dates with Toni prior to having sex, and I am sure we both were very attracted to each other on the first date.

I had one date with Sandra and we were in bed within 2 hours.

Guess which one I married and had the most respect for.



i'm going to hope you had more respect for the girl you got to know better first.  sex too soon only leads to a quick ending.  



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Posted on Tue, Mar 30, 2010 08:11

Very good advice . I couldn't have said it better myself.



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Posted on Tue, Mar 30, 2010 08:08

You bet he would especially if you were a nice person. No harm on having fun on the first date.



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Posted on Sat, Mar 06, 2010 19:24

I would say it depends. If there are great connection and chemistry and you two feel the same, it is not a deadly mistake. He will definitely call you back if it was amazingly good. However, if you do get his call, make sure to put break on by not jumping straight into the physical scene again. You have to get to know each other in order to develop a serious relationship. You still have chance to gain respect from your man if deep down you are a respectful and respectable person. (I need to follow my own advice :))



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Posted on Fri, Mar 05, 2010 08:40

if i want a serious relationship with you know i would actually make you wait because i want you to get to know me inside and out now if i want a booty call i would just go to a club so booty callers dont hit me up you get me acting like a nun however you spell it lol no sex from me you get tested first then sex after you fall in love with me.

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Posted on Thu, Mar 04, 2010 23:17

It depends how good the outing was.



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Posted on Wed, Mar 03, 2010 16:53

If the two of you want sex purely for that reason - go ahead...noone is stopping you. Dont expect any respect. If you wish the guy to respect you for whom you are - that would be another story



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Posted on Mon, Feb 22, 2010 16:09

i woldnt think it would b a serious relationship if i have sex on the first night

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Posted on Wed, Feb 17, 2010 03:27

lol ok let me wrap this up lol,why do ladys say give i up like they are not getting anything,man be giving it up to,either ways its not really cool tho,i myself would call you back cos you would have been real,you didnt lie,you saying you dont want to and you do is a lie on the first date,whats worse? ANBODY? LOL
follow your heart and be yourself baby

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Posted on Sun, Feb 14, 2010 06:01

If you are looking for a booty call and not a serious relationship, it is OK on the first date. There aren't many men that are going to want a woman that gives it up on the first date because he will always wonder how many others she had on their first date. Happy Valentine's Day.



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Posted on Fri, Feb 12, 2010 21:01

No matter what, if the sex was really good for him then yes he will call you back. Because he'd want to sleep with you again and again until he grows tired of you. But be aware that by giving it up too soon, you pretty much lost your leverage in being a serious girlfriend. That is if this is what you wanted in the first place..... Generally people (especially men) take more value in things which they had to work hard for. If you give it up without really getting to know each other first and building a relationship beyond physical attraction, then the relationship is just based on sex.



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Posted on Fri, Feb 12, 2010 20:20

Depends on what u want him calling for. If u dont mind booty calls then yes, if u were good, he may call back. If u are looking for more, then its like putting the cart before the horse. It's in a mans nature to conquer and once he does, so easily, there's no motivation to chase- or get to know the real you!



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Posted on Fri, Feb 12, 2010 17:28

Yep, I did that, one time, and it was my idea. We dated for a few years. I really cared for him, at the time. We're still friends after five years. Now he's venting to me about how much money he's had to give up to get out of a marriage with a crazy woman. He says he married her out of gratitude. I guess I didn't do anything for him to be grateful for. Even when he was married, he'd call me. He got another phone and hid it to call me. He's bi-polar, but he also lies and frankly, he's pretty damn good at it. I liked the fact that he treated me like a lady, took me nice places and was a gentleman when he was with me. Then he told me about this site that he was a member of and even stupid enough to give me his password, and asked that I didn't read his mail. Ha! Ha! For some reason, I feel sorry for him, and also he was one of the best in bed I've ever been with. I don't give it up anymore, but he still tries. I guess I'm the dummy. I don't want to give up the friendship. I think I was the only woman he had been with that refused gifts, of any kind. He wasn't used to that. I don't want to be bought. p



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Posted on Thu, Feb 11, 2010 13:42

i agree with it to right now i j ust got divorsed i fill i need to get some now iam just not letting it happend iam better thein that so no iam playing hard to get now and i will fill alot better now so not doing that my body vary pretty and i am to so god gave it to me so gota take care of it and tell know next person and iam dateing he will not get me untell down road if he fills i dont give in and leaves he not worth it all from brenda mae



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Posted on Sat, Dec 19, 2009 07:03

Totally agree! Why would you give it for free when you could get some ok money for it???? Basically you are an unpaid hooker if you give it up on first meeting. You will be the talk of the locker room next day. And he won't call you honey!



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