Has anyone here met a millionaire for real?? Dating Wealthy Men / Women Forward to friends

  • View author's info Posted on Aug 19, 2013 at 06:02 PM


    I'm not looking for a relationship at this time.  I actually signed up because of the forum - people here seem much more sane and articulate than those in some of the other forums that I've reviewed. 

    I do have a question though.  If someone, man or woman, is affluent, why doesn't he or she insist on a pre-nuptial agreement?  I know that some people have them but it seems as though the majority, including celebrities, do not.  I have the distinct feeling (from articles and posts that I've read on other sites) that people are reluctant to bring up the subject because they believe that the other person may accuse them of "lacking trust". To me, if a person really loves you for yourself and not your money, they wouldn't be opposed to signing a pre-nup.  And no, I'm not one of those wealthy people so I'm not asking this from the point of view of somene who has assets.  I simply believe that a pre-nup is not only fair but a good way of getting that money issue and uncertainty (does he/she love me or my money) out of the way.   Am I in the minority?

  • View author's info Posted on Aug 15, 2013 at 12:10 PM


    Hate fakerss
  • View author's info Posted on Jul 31, 2013 at 07:48 PM


    I have ALWAYS gone for love.  As a hard worker, and attractive, I was a fool for boys/men who wanted my abundance.  As a young women, an mature lady advised me, and of course I did not listen, but I have tried to instil this in my incredibly beautiful and smart daughter from day one.
    "Don't look for money, but don't look where there is none." And "You can just as easily truly love a smart, rich boy as you can a cute, dumb, broke ass."  
    I am truly not ruthless, I have just worked hard, got ahead, and then fell for a 'conman'.  
    Not bitter still believe. 
    K x
  • View author's info Posted on Jun 07, 2013 at 01:21 PM


    im  sorry just realized quote someone elses.i am very new to this site.was kooking for help.e mailed few  got no response.help
  • View author's info Posted on Jun 07, 2013 at 01:19 PM


    why peggy sue pic silohuette a woman.but she stated dont want to marry spoiled girl.
  • View author's info Posted on May 15, 2013 at 08:55 PM


    i totally agree, i dont like the fake euro trash of the riviera... i like real solid people
  • View author's info Posted on Mar 18, 2013 at 08:55 AM


    Quoting mitballiol:

    I am quite firmly in the cash millionaire camp. A few things you should know:

    1) Being a millionaire doesn't mean you own a $2m yacht. You really ought to be worth at least $100m to have something like that. Expect a younger blue collar millionaire (e.g. Banker, lawyer, CXO) with a net worth of up to $5 million to be pretty normal but with nicer clothes, car, home, perhaps a smaller boat.

    2) Many millionaires don't like wasting money. Many of us worked hard to get where we are, and we still work hard. Money is not frivolous to us - it is earned. Warren Buffet drives a Lincoln Towncar. That's pretty low key. The guys I see blowing money on bottles of champagne in night clubs are usually poor. Wealthy guys spend more discretely and in higher quality venues.

    3) Sites like these are fantastic because you can find an intelligent, sensible and down to earth woman here. I don't want to marry some spoilt brat or party girl who has been drinking champagne since the age of 16. I'm a self made man. I was born into a middle class family and while I am a 1 percenter, I still have those rock solid middle class values. I want someone who is financially responsible, down to earth, able to connect with regular people, but also brilliantly smart and able to hold an intelligent conversation on topics ranging from politics to epistemology. I won't find someone like that from an elite matchmaker, nor at a beach party in the south of France.

    Good response, really enjoyed reading it.
  • View author's info Posted on Feb 14, 2013 at 04:42 PM


    WOW. Being wealth does not always mean money . I do not know much about this web site .But Forbes Magazine said it was the best site. That's how I found it . So who cares if a person has money .Just enjoy life. And there is and old. WHAT'S FOR YOU IS FOR YOU . Have a great day .
  • View author's info Posted on Feb 02, 2013 at 12:47 PM


    Quoting Renee2play:

    I think people forget the name of this site. It's millionaire matchmaker.
    It's better than average looking women to beauties looking for millionaires that can spoil them. It's
    been going on since the beginning of time. Guys with money like having beautiful girls around. If you are a millionaire on this site not looking for that sort of arrangement and don't want women dating you for your money or willing to be genereous then this isn't the right sit for you. There are plenty of other sites tht have nothing to do with income dating.
    Let's not kid ourselves. Hot girls, rich guys....... That's how it always has been and always will be. Doesn't mean there can't be real love....but yes that is the main attraction for both sexes. Then it progresses.

    This site has more than one name. Renee you're wrong, one name you mentioned is actually MillionaireMatch. The website name for me was classy-dating-site.

    One day after I had seen too much tackiness on another site.  I typed into my search bar- classy dating site and on the page there was an exact match for what I typed.  I came on this site and saw in the forum people typing "MM", it took me a while to catch on that the site I knew as "classy dating'site" went by another name, Millionairematch.  Of course this site (whatever it's called) has it's share of tackiness too but a lot of it is avoidable. For the record;I never consider a site for "income dating".

    Renee is a little naive as to what this site has but yes, it also includes "Hot girls and rich guys". From my experience it is more of the same on other sites, mostly scammers and men who are not proactive in getting to know anyone.
  • View author's info Posted on Feb 01, 2013 at 08:35 PM


    I am quite firmly in the cash millionaire camp. A few things you should know:

    1) Being a millionaire doesn't mean you own a $2m yacht. You really ought to be worth at least $100m to have something like that. Expect a younger blue collar millionaire (e.g. Banker, lawyer, CXO) with a net worth of up to $5 million to be pretty normal but with nicer clothes, car, home, perhaps a smaller boat.

    2) Many millionaires don't like wasting money. Many of us worked hard to get where we are, and we still work hard. Money is not frivolous to us - it is earned. Warren Buffet drives a Lincoln Towncar. That's pretty low key. The guys I see blowing money on bottles of champagne in night clubs are usually poor. Wealthy guys spend more discretely and in higher quality venues.

    3) Sites like these are fantastic because you can find an intelligent, sensible and down to earth woman here. I don't want to marry some spoilt brat or party girl who has been drinking champagne since the age of 16. I'm a self made man. I was born into a middle class family and while I am a 1 percenter, I still have those rock solid middle class values. I want someone who is financially responsible, down to earth, able to connect with regular people, but also brilliantly smart and able to hold an intelligent conversation on topics ranging from politics to epistemology. I won't find someone like that from an elite matchmaker, nor at a beach party in the south of France.
  • View author's info Posted on Jan 30, 2013 at 12:30 AM


    I'm not sure I qualify as a true millionaire, but I certainly make more than I need to live comfortably. Since joining, I think I've met more women through this site than I did in university! It's true that there are a lot of women on this site looking for sugar daddies, but I've met some wonderful women that seem quite genuine and looking for love irrespective of income. I'm on here because I want to find someone that I'm physicially attracted to as well as emotionally. I've found it easy to meet women in other ways, but not necessarily women that I'm physically attracted to. I have to say that the calibre of women on this site is definitely superior to what you tend to find at clubs, bars, other websites, etc.
    I find that I do need to keep my guard up a lot more when I meet people from this site, but it's not all that difficult to tease out the goldiggers from those looking for true love. So don't give up hope as there are some genuine people on this site (men and women).
  • View author's info Posted on Jan 14, 2013 at 11:27 AM


    so true .. but men hope a woman who married them just for love of it not my money. so why there look at sites. woman say same thing but dont have the money
  • View author's info Posted on Nov 07, 2012 at 09:23 AM


    Why does it matter if someone met an actual millionaire? Its not always what's in the bank account its what's in the heart. I met a millionaire , we had planned on getting married it didn't work out. I became used to the lifestyle, but I want a real person to. I'm here to find a man that can take care of me but is fun and wants a family to.
  • View author's info Posted on Sep 18, 2012 at 12:41 AM


    From my experience, even a normal dating site has a lot of millionaires. Met some already.
  • View author's info Posted on Sep 06, 2012 at 04:40 AM


    Quoting Renee2play:

    I think people forget the name of this site. It's millionaire matchmaker.
    It's better than average looking women to beauties looking for millionaires that can spoil them. It's
    been going on since the beginning of time. Guys with money like having beautiful girls around. If you are a millionaire on this site not looking for that sort of arrangement and don't want women dating you for your money or willing to be genereous then this isn't the right sit for you. There are plenty of other sites tht have nothing to do with income dating.
    Let's not kid ourselves. Hot girls, rich guys....... That's how it always has been and always will be. Doesn't mean there can't be real love....but yes that is the main attraction for both sexes. Then it progresses.

    This is a dating site not a sugar daddy site.
  • View author's info Posted on Sep 04, 2012 at 10:43 AM


    i dont care how much money someone has if we don't have anything in common then its not gonna work and that's that
  • View author's info Posted on Sep 03, 2012 at 05:08 PM


    A "millionaire status" has been a topic raised several times here on MM, in various forms. When I first joined I actually put a statement in my profile that I was nowhere near a millionaire in terms of income, cash and assets. For some reason I had assumed you must be or fully disclose that one was not and so I did. I got plenty of responses from women. Some stated they did have the millionaire status thing and some didn't. 

    I removed that full disclosure statement and it hash't made a bit of difference with the amount of messages I receive. Over the decades I have met very wealthy women but that was never a reason to choose her over the not so wealthy woman at all. I am here on MM because of the CLASS of women that I here. yes I believe I have met one or two wealthy woman. Anyone who as looked at profiles on match.com or plenty of fish knows that the caliber of women here are much, much better. My guess is that generally speaking this is because the women (and men?) are more confident and successful with their lives in general. This sort of attitudes transcends and allows their (our) inner beauty to shine bright and in turn their physical beauty.

  • View author's info Posted on Jul 07, 2012 at 02:42 AM


    yes, i have met some millionaires here. the reason why they are online may be because they are:
    too busy to find a date otherwise
    are older or less attractive
    few social skills to compete with other men face to face

    no offense, of course
  • View author's info Posted on Jun 05, 2012 at 10:20 AM


    Quoting racytay1020:

    I don't have a million dollars yet, but I work a lot and who knows, maybe I will. I already turned to online dating several months ago after I broke it off with a man that I dated for a couple of years, having found out he was still online looking for a "better deal".  :-)
    Now that I have free time to date, I thought it made sense to look online.  Everyone knows you fall in love with whoever you fall in love with regardless of income level...it's not like I'm going to accept someone treating me crappy just b/c he has a lot of money or is handsome or any other reason...It's just money, you can make your own and as far as I am concerned if it is a millionaire you seek, they are a dime a dozen.  All men a players until they are done being players and meet mrs right.  Millionaires are not different than any other man, the expectationt that they are going to be somehow evolved because they are great at what they do professionally is not realistic. 
    I have met at least one online (not here) that was a millionaire and aside from his bank account he had nothing to offer that any other man could not also offer.  I fell for his initial charm and we had a lot in common, but he is caught up in a fantasy world and hates women, unfortunately.  He has been played and used and that is too bad that he carries a huge chip on his shoulder and chooses to remain wounded over what amounts to his poor choices to continue to date women for years that were not willing to commit to him and who treated him with disrespect.  He finally met a nice one (me) and he treated me like he had a vendetta against women once he had me in his narcissistic web of admiration.  Yuck!  That one was too caught up in being a socialite and wanting the adoration of people who are insignificant in his life.   The absolute worst type of person to date is someone who is ungrateful for what they  have and that is many times worse if they have a lot of money and great career (that they earned) but don't get it that they were also tremendously blessed. I just cannot stand to be by the side of a man in need of a humbling...it's not fun to listen to the arrogance and it is very sad to be there when they are humbled by life...we are all susceptible to hardships of various kinds.
    At any rate, yes you can meet a man of any income level online and it makes sense for anyone who is busy to look online for someone near them to date.  It works sometimes.  One of my friends married a woman he met online at another site, he is a nice man with a lot to offer a woman.  His wife now works from home because he provides the stability for her to do that with his well-established career. He is not a millionaire, but he is taking care of her in the sense that she is able to pursue her business rather than merely work for a paycheck.
    I am online with the best intentions and so I think it is quite possible a man could be too, but as with anything else, enter with some skepticism.

    Great comment...
  • View author's info Posted on Jun 05, 2012 at 10:19 AM


    Quoting Renee2play:

    I think people forget the name of this site. It's millionaire matchmaker.
    It's better than average looking women to beauties looking for millionaires that can spoil them. It's
    been going on since the beginning of time. Guys with money like having beautiful girls around. If you are a millionaire on this site not looking for that sort of arrangement and don't want women dating you for your money or willing to be genereous then this isn't the right sit for you. There are plenty of other sites tht have nothing to do with income dating.
    Let's not kid ourselves. Hot girls, rich guys....... That's how it always has been and always will be. Doesn't mean there can't be real love....but yes that is the main attraction for both sexes. Then it progresses.




    Well Darling, this is a millionaire site and not how to "make" millions.

    Till last year I was a "self made" millionaire and I have all the stuff to prove it. Then sh..t happen and I lost it all, like one big fire or explosion (that can happen to anyone and did happen way to many). I had my millionaire life style, I was meeting the "right" people and I also learn that you have a lot of friends and gold diggers around when you have money. I also learn and saw that all the money don't buy - value, integrity, honesty, honor, pride, time or happiness etc. I am flat broke right now, move to my country of origin because the living expenses are very low and health service is for free.

    Why I am here then, you may ask . . I also learn that many people with money living boring life with friends that can't all be trusted. I am 63 years old that accomplished a lot since I escape at age 18 from Russian occupation. I can be a great asset to a woman that will appreciate my qualities and not my money. I am smart and can do a lot of things very well, from driving winning race car or run business, to be a good companion, I can dress well and can take me anywhere and she doesn't have to look ridiculous like some with theirs 30 years younger toyboy. I am free to travel, I speak various languages, I am good, loyal, honest and still happy guy.

    I am not for sale of for hire, and I will never date woman just for money! She has to be beautiful and CHEMISTRY between us is a MUST. My situation is very temporal as I have many ideas how to bounce back. I am not interested to find someone when I have all the money again, I am interested in some woman that can find me now and appreciate what I am. When that happen, at least I will know is the real thing.

    I may also ad, that this is my first dating site and I must say that I never have seen so many beautiful, classy women in one place. Really impressive to see older woman that have the time and means to look after her self.
    That's what I like, that's what I expect, that's why am here.

    I hope you got the message. At least that's my way to look at this site!


    BTW: I did look at your profile and I can see what is your objective (good for you). But keep in mind that some people are different. Cheers and Good Luck to U. ;)