Has anyone here met a millionaire for real?? Dating Wealthy Men / Women

  • View author's info posted on Sep 04, 2011 at 19:12


     

    Very interesting thread here!

    "Millionaire" is a relative term anyway.  A "million dollars" doesn't go as far as it used too!  If you add in real estate equity and other "fixed" assets that can't be disturbed.  

    I joined the site thinking that I might find a wonderful companion to build the rest of my life around. Don't really care what her financial or social situation is, as long as we really hit it off on all levels. I pay, she pays, we split the bill, it is all good when it is all good.  

    Let's get real.  I'm not looking for a supermodel, because in my experience that is not reality.  My partner would be attractive, pleasant, and has needs (don't we all), I have needs (not "wants" - a big difference).  We should work together to be happy and content.  

    MM attracted me due to the upscale quality of the women I hope to meet here.  Frankly, a guy wants to be respected and appreciated for what he does.  I am sure women want the same for what she does, and she wants to be secure in a relationship.  A bizzillion dollars makes no difference if the couple is miserable, distant, and unhappy. IMHO, but I could be wrong.  :-)

    So, should I be on this site?  I'm active and plan on doing a lot of things.  Went through a divorce that cut my net worth by a lot.  Oh well, move on.  No hard feelings.  Assets now in the 6 figures, and $200K (pretax) disposible retirement income for the rest of my life.  That should qualify, I'm thinking. So what is the definition of "millionarie?"

    Good luck with your search!

    Be patient and not too judgmental.  You will find the one.  Just a matter of time and perserverance.

    P.S.  It will be interesting to see the differing viewpoints to this post.  Maybe a millionaire, maybe not?

    Best regards,

    Mike

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

  • View author's info posted on Sep 01, 2011 at 02:56


    There are people here with net assets in excess of a million, myself included. I spend much time meeting my friends husbands, or men who are far too young (due to my sporting interests). Yes I am sure there are lazy people on here who are looking for a meal ticket, however there may also be people looking for an equal. Dating as you get older gets harder, and being fiscally secure can also on occasion isolate you. Wether this site is a good one or not, remains to be seen.
  • View author's info posted on Aug 14, 2011 at 05:42


    LoveStory2011, I stand by my position that if you want success, you have to make it for yourself.  It's not down to others, it's down to you.  It can be money, it can be time, whatever it is that you don't have enough of, you have to make it yourself if you want to acheive a level of success that will satisfy you. If others give you what you need, you will never have the sense of satisfaction that comes from your own efforts being rewarded.  It's that particular satisfaction that underlies the root of all success.

    I will also add that everyone's photos here are just stunning, including yours. Were I interested in marrying a lady, I would be very much spoilt for choice! My picture doesn't show in the thumbnail because otherwise I get a lot of women asking me to marry them. Ever since I took my picture down, ladies stopped asking me to marry them. But here I am! I shall consider posting my pic in my replies and comments; thank you for the suggestion.

     

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  • View author's info posted on Aug 11, 2011 at 05:03


    “HappyUSGal” - I shouldn't answer to anonyms who don't show their face, but here in the conversation other people are also involved. You comment are shallow and narrow minded. And very nervous and angry as well. Perhaps you are very unhappy in your life or this is just a part of your character to bark behind the fence.
  • View author's info posted on Aug 10, 2011 at 19:11


    Quoting New2ThisScene:

    "Wont a millionaire already have women lined up waiting to marry him?"

    If that's your belief, you probably joined this site to stand in that line.

    Personally, I have a difficult time meeting quality women anywhere. They all either want George Clooney or someone with his money. I don't normally broadcast what I'm worth because it's difficult to tell what a woman's motives are.


    I agree, what is the difference between going on a website, vs. trolling a bar or meeting someone at a party? A man is not (should not) be pulling out his w2 when approaching a woman he finds attractive. Those are items to be discussed when the time is right. I have spoken with a couple of men on here who are not "millionaires" but have very good jobs and their ex's beat them to the punch on other sites! This is a tool, just like a woman's make-up or hair colorist. If and when used properly, it may just get the job done, however there are times when you have to improvise and find something else that will provide the same end result.
  • View author's info posted on Aug 10, 2011 at 11:15


    Exotic Beauty:  Successful people work long hours which isn't condusive to meeting a significant other later in life. Similarly, many successful people owe their success to clean living. These older guys are on the golf course, having Christmas dinner with their kids' families, buffing the polish on the Jag before taking her out for a spin in the Cotswolds. Ministry of Sound is chock-a-block full of delightful young people, but not many of those lasses and laddies are going to want to sit out their youth on a country estate.

    Lovestory:  Maybe your creative idea isn't one they feel is fiscally viable. If you don't beleive in it enough to invest your own money into it, then neither will he. If your ideas don't make any money, or your short of cash, that should be telling you that your business model is wrong and needs revision.

  • View author's info posted on Aug 08, 2011 at 04:44


    Life is about sharing. If a man treats me sincerely, with love, takes a good care of me, respects me, generous; then I don’t care about many other flaws of him. But if a man starts a conversation like for example: “My purse – is my purse. Work harder to make such money as mine. I am not that willing to share”... I say: “Then darling, work hard to be so handsome , well-shaped , well-mannered, well-educated...and so on ...., because I am not going to share with you my best qualities either in this situation.”
    If he makes his shopping in Harrods and she shops in Primark; he uses a last model of a good car and she goes by bus or scoter – how can it work?
    I am creative person. I need my partner to invest in my ideas. What should I do with poor guy or with one who doesn’t want to share ?
  • View author's info posted on Aug 07, 2011 at 12:01


    I would hope that being a millionaire is not all that you are specifically looking for anyway. I am specifically looking for stability. Men who are successful seem to have more stability in life in general and I like that. I want to be treated like a lady and respected.
    Successful men work hard and usually work long hours...I can understand why they would need to turn to online dating to find someone special. So don't give up...I bet there are truly men on here that are successful.
  • View author's info posted on Jul 24, 2011 at 12:25


    i thought your fear was u falling in love with no job having,house man,love making brother with no income?? like me..lol but i do work?? age ,ht,wt
  • View author's info posted on Jul 18, 2011 at 14:13


    Good Qualiaty woman waits for a rich man to tell her anything but he's ready for "money talk" & he wants to find beauty so man must be more simple. We didn't meet anyone here because men have too much fear & they start conversation with "u must work". Girl offers u beauty & sweetness & what do u offer?
  • View author's info posted on Jul 18, 2011 at 13:30


    I am sure there are real millionaires here, there and everywhere else- but I doubt that there are many truly wealthy people here.  The people who have reached the 8 and 9 digit realm probably use personal matchmaking services most of the time because they are easier and less risky than searching online.

    Not that it matters, of course.  The only real goal most of us have in regards to money is to have enough and not to worry about it.  

    Someday, my goal is to achieve a state of financial Nirvana where I never have to think a single thought about money ever again.

  • View author's info posted on Jul 18, 2011 at 10:13


    Well, not yet. But what's all this fuzz about meeting millionaires?.
    Why can't we all be so real in this life?.
    Millionaire or not, if you got a life, rest of mind, then you're a millionaire in your shoes... right?...
    IF I'M WRONG, SOMEONE QUOTE ME.
    What if we talk billionaires, what will millionaires say?...
    Absolutely nothing...

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  • View author's info posted on Jul 17, 2011 at 15:39


    dont bother me, all this i want them just because of me and not who i am, please what difference does it make - surely a good time is just that a good time, why make things more complicated, after all its only money and there is plenty more of it.. available,, dont believe me.. ask the universe .. works on the same principle of the picture below.. see if u can figure it out.. then u wont even worry about making money.. just how much..

  • View author's info posted on Jul 15, 2011 at 05:03


    yep each and every day when i look into my mirror whch is all the time, no need to convince myself anymore - theres now difference these days its just digits on a screen if u choose to count them = the reall deal is how you made it, hmmm you see one time when .. oh well save that story for another time.. eh 

  • View author's info posted on Jul 11, 2011 at 19:09


    "Wont a millionaire already have women lined up waiting to marry him?"

    If that's your belief, you probably joined this site to stand in that line.

    Personally, I have a difficult time meeting quality women anywhere. They all either want George Clooney or someone with his money. I don't normally broadcast what I'm worth because it's difficult to tell what a woman's motives are.
  • View author's info posted on Jul 11, 2011 at 17:10


    Quoting exoticbeauty01:

    for some reason i think they all are fake here.Or why would a millionaire search a women trough a Dating site.Wont a millionaire already have women lined up waiting to marry him??Just curious,why this way



    "Wont a millionaire already have women lined up waiting to marry him?"

    If that's your belief, you probably joined this site to stand in that line.

    Personally, I have a difficult time meeting quality women anywhere. They all either want George Clooney or someone with his money. I don't normally broadcast what I'm worth because it's difficult to tell what a woman's motives are.
  • View author's info posted on Jul 11, 2011 at 10:55


    It isn't easy to meet women in real life.  Most of us don't go to bars and clubs to meet people.  I have hired 3 matchmakers but I was disappointed in the matches.  They match you with clients who are looking for a man.  They just weren't that attractive, too independent to need a man, or just didn't have much sex appeal.  This site offers more possibilities.

  • View author's info posted on Jul 10, 2011 at 11:15


    I am a male Millionnaire. The truth of the matter is it is very difficult to meet people for me. I am always working and I have to be very careful with the people I meet as well. Another big factor is I want someone who wants to be with me for me and not for my money which is why I also find it difficult to meet the right people as well.

     

  • View author's info posted on Jun 22, 2011 at 12:19


    that is completely right
  • View author's info posted on Jun 21, 2011 at 13:46


    Quoting lancealotslidein:

    Oh yes, we do exist. You must be completely qualified and sincere in every way for us to reveal anything to you. Shallowness is running wild everywhere in shallow minds though sometime beautiful bodies. We didn't get here by falling for flakes who will use us up like a tissue.



    Wow, what a great answer. I agree 100% that people shouldn't be taken 'advantage' of and yes, being sincere, honest about intentions is the first step for a long-lasting, worthwhile relationship.
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