Im sure you see them everyday, because they are everywhere and you will meet one, I suggest meeting more than one to give yourself options. Nothing wrong with having friends because you dont want to be with someone just because she's black and fine as hell, you might meet a women that is black, fine, smart, and actually like you and not just your skin color if you feel me.
You can find a great black woman anywhere you can find any other woman. As an interracial couple you must be comfortable with yourself, and your partner. I live in Texas, and there will always be people that will look....so what, let them look. As long as you and your partner are having a great time with one another, don't worry about everyone else. Life's too short to worry about people who care about what you do with your love life. Good luck!
I am of mixed orgin. I am French,Spanish and Black. I am approached regularly by white men. I think if you are comfortable
with yourself and up front and honest with the women, you may find they are just as attracted to you. Give them a chance some need time to adjust to the idea.