Eight Second Rule?? Dating Wealthy Men / Women

  • View author's info Posted on Aug 29, 2006 at 10:52 PM


    sweendogr write:
    katiegrlK2B write:
    ItalianF8 write:
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    How do women decide who'll get lucky on the first date? Learn a few jokes. Surprisingly, sense of humor ranked as the number one determinant in getting lucky within the first few dates (38%).

    If I'm out with a man, I'm on a fact-finding mission. I want to know if he's someone I could have fun with, go places with, meet for coffee, take to my friend's places as my date, make a homecooked meal with. I'm not there to see if he has qualities that will urge me to have sex with him. I may find he HAS those qualities once we get together, but that's not my main objective. And I've dated drop dead gorgeous men, & some of them were totally sexually attractive to me, but I didn't sleep with them all.
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    Your first date is a fact finding mission? What a boring date that would be, you never answered my question, surely you have had intuition or an attraction within seconds of meeting him,,maybe not if looks is what your start your evaluation with,lol

    I wasn't responding to you. I was answering Italian. And I don't sit there during a date with a freaking clipboard and a pen!

    When I go on a date with a man, I make it a kickass fun one. Not a man's definition of fun:
    Fun = sex
    ... but MY definition of fun: great conversation, cheeks-aching humour, tons of flirting and my undivided attention.

    About the eight second theory; never experienced it. I've seen a million beautiful men in my life that I've thought the moment I saw him, "Wow, what would he look like half naked?" But I've never thought, "OMG! I would have sex with him right on this cash counter before eight seconds are up! To hell with the groceries!"
  • View author's info Posted on Aug 28, 2006 at 01:53 PM


    blondeindian write:
    sweendogr write:
    blondeindian write:
    sweendogr write:
    There's a survey out that is polling women asking them if they know within 8 seconds of meeting or viewing a man that they would sleep with him or not. Is this true?

    if he was hot like you, absolutly,lol...

    You mean it wouldnt take you a new york minute? wink.

    How about a Calli second...wink,kiss..

    You got it babydol, all my attention,wink.
  • View author's info Posted on Aug 28, 2006 at 01:53 PM


    katiegrlK2B write:
    ItalianF8 write:
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    How do women decide who'll get lucky on the first date? Learn a few jokes. Surprisingly, sense of humor ranked as the number one determinant in getting lucky within the first few dates (38%). Financial success ranked second (26%). And, physical came in third position (20%). A variety of other answers from "scent of a person, cleanliness and good breath" came in at 16%.


    LOL
    Men never think of a really important reason why a woman might sleep with him after a date! Because she believes he might be interested enough in her to return! Duh! lol

    If I'm out with a man, I'm on a fact-finding mission. I want to know if he's someone I could have fun with, go places with, meet for coffee, take to my friend's places as my date, make a homecooked meal with. I'm not there to see if he has qualities that will urge me to have sex with him. I may find he HAS those qualities once we get together, but that's not my main objective. And I've dated drop dead gorgeous men, & some of them were totally sexually attractive to me, but I didn't sleep with them all.

    One night stands are not what I set out to achieve on a date. That's a man thing. I look for a man I can share my best qualities with, like my creativity, sense of humour, passion & love of pleasure & beauty, for however long it lasts. But I need a connection that's more than just 1st date shagging.

    If any man out there's interested, then lets get together! Summer's almost over! If you play your cards right, and at least PRETEND like you want a relationship, who knows? You might get lucky! LOL
    ;)

    Your first date is a fact finding mission? What a boring date that would be, you never answered my question, surely you have had intuition or an attraction within seconds of meeting him,,maybe not if looks is what your start your evaluation with,lol.
  • View author's info Posted on Aug 27, 2006 at 11:41 PM


    ItalianF8 write:
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    How do women decide who'll get lucky on the first date? Learn a few jokes. Surprisingly, sense of humor ranked as the number one determinant in getting lucky within the first few dates (38%). Financial success ranked second (26%). And, physical came in third position (20%). A variety of other answers from "scent of a person, cleanliness and good breath" came in at 16%.


    LOL
    Men never think of a really important reason why a woman might sleep with him after a date! Because she believes he might be interested enough in her to return! Duh! lol

    If I'm out with a man, I'm on a fact-finding mission. I want to know if he's someone I could have fun with, go places with, meet for coffee, take to my friend's places as my date, make a homecooked meal with. I'm not there to see if he has qualities that will urge me to have sex with him. I may find he HAS those qualities once we get together, but that's not my main objective. And I've dated drop dead gorgeous men, & some of them were totally sexually attractive to me, but I didn't sleep with them all.

    One night stands are not what I set out to achieve on a date. That's a man thing. I look for a man I can share my best qualities with, like my creativity, sense of humour, passion & love of pleasure & beauty, for however long it lasts. But I need a connection that's more than just 1st date shagging.

    If any man out there's interested, then lets get together! Summer's almost over! If you play your cards right, and at least PRETEND like you want a relationship, who knows? You might get lucky! LOL
    ;)
  • View author's info Posted on Aug 27, 2006 at 09:15 PM


    sweendogr write:
    blondeindian write:
    sweendogr write:
    There's a survey out that is polling women asking them if they know within 8 seconds of meeting or viewing a man that they would sleep with him or not. Is this true?

    if he was hot like you, absolutly,lol...

    You mean it wouldnt take you a new york minute? wink.

    How about a Calli second...wink,kiss..
  • View author's info Posted on Aug 24, 2006 at 09:39 PM


    very curious - I did some research - aside from my own empirical data ;-)
    I found nothing about the "8 second rule" or anything close to it. Maybe it exist but tought to find.

    I did find this - pay attention guys...

    A full 28% say they are willing to "sleep with a man on the first date" and 41% say they are willing to go all the way the second time around. The remaining 30% say they would wait at least "a couple of months" before they slept with a man.

    How do women decide who'll get lucky on the first date? Learn a few jokes. Surprisingly, sense of humor ranked as the number one determinant in getting lucky within the first few dates (38%). Financial success ranked second (26%). And, physical came in third position (20%). A variety of other answers from "scent of a person, cleanliness and good breath" came in at 16%.
  • View author's info Posted on Aug 24, 2006 at 12:15 PM


    Sweendogr: For myself, I can see through their eyes into their heart, knowing it they are a rare and decent person, and will be my best friend within those first few seconds! ;-)
  • View author's info Posted on Aug 20, 2006 at 11:37 AM


    blondeindian write:
    sweendogr write:
    There's a survey out that is polling women asking them if they know within 8 seconds of meeting or viewing a man that they would sleep with him or not. Is this true?

    if he was hot like you, absolutly,lol...

    You mean it wouldnt take you a new york minute? wink.
  • View author's info Posted on Aug 20, 2006 at 11:37 AM


    blondeindian write:
    sweendogr write:
    There's a survey out that is polling women asking them if they know within 8 seconds of meeting or viewing a man that they would sleep with him or not. Is this true?

    if he was hot like you, absolutly,lol...

    You mean it wouldnt take you a new york minute? wink.
  • View author's info Posted on Aug 18, 2006 at 11:08 AM


    Hey, i got a stop watch that chimes, next time i go on a date i'll set and when it goes off i'll ask , Hit or Miss , Ms.
    But then 5%of couples who've madelove roll over and go to sleep and of the other 95% one gets up and goes home
  • View author's info Posted on Aug 18, 2006 at 10:52 AM


    sweendogr write:
    There's a survey out that is polling women asking them if they know within 8 seconds of meeting or viewing a man that they would sleep with him or not. Is this true?

    if he was hot like you, absolutly,lol...
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