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Posted on Sat, Apr 07, 2007 05:28

Cynburghleah write:
TallBlonde50 write:
Good grief and Hell NO, I'm not trying to be your mother and I don't believe I have "dictated" anything to anyone. I am simply posting my opinion. As for your attempt at insults, I'm not phased either. The more you post, the more you become just like sween. You 2 are made for eachother!!!

TallBlonde50 write (March 29):
'...If you don't like hoe he responds, then just don't respond....'

Seems like an order to me Tall. Seems too that you truly havent paid attention or gotten the gist of my reasons for expressing myself to Sween the way that I do, or you havent read my prior postings or choose to dismiss them in order to permit yourself to be subjective based on your own ideals and/or experiences. You claim to be an intelligent person and I dont doubt that, but the abilities to consider facts objectively and also empathize before engaging in a debate is just one of several elements of rationality. Perhaps you need to work on this :) If youre unable or refuse to do so, once again please consider directing your views, opinions,judgments - whatever you want to call them - elsewhere, or as Ive already suggested mind your business and accept the fact that Ill address Sween in ANY way that I think is appropriate.

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First of all, that is NOT an order.....it is a SUGGESTION!!! If anyone is doing the dictating, I believe it would be YOU.
Secondly, I have read your posts......and sween's, and I do admit, he does tend to hit below the belt at times, but the phrase that comes to mind is "sticks and stones, etc.... The exchanges posted by you and sween, tho intelligently worded, on your part anyway, have become quite childish and repetitive, and it seems there will be no end to it. You both just volley back and forth and can't wait to see what the other has written. It seems like a contest to see who can "get the other's goat".



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Posted on Sat, Apr 07, 2007 05:04

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...I'll just move on and let sween and Cyn duke it out. They both seem to be getting a kick out of it and are perfect for each other!!! I already raised my kids and don't need any more!!!! UGH!!

Yes please do Tall...the last thing this site needs is a mother hen (peck peck, nag nag) who forms and expresses convictions based on empty perceptions.

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Cyn,,the lights in your house is on but nobodies at home. Down girl.



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Posted on Thu, Apr 05, 2007 20:43

Robin, that's why I removed my earlier post. Seems a certain person brings out the worst in me, and I refuse to lower myself. I already posted on sween's thread and I'll just move on and let sween and Cyn duke it out. They both seem to be getting a kick out of it and are perfect for each other!!! I already raised my kids and don't need any more!!!! UGH!!



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Posted on Thu, Apr 05, 2007 05:06

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Who are you trying to be Tall, my mother? Granted, she has enough sense to not dicate to others what she deems is fitting to a situation that doesnt concern her, and I find it absurd that you, a stranger, would do so to me. Evidently you didnt catch the gist of what I had to say: mind your business! Maybe some lessons in humanity and making an effort to truly notice and take to heart others thoughts would be more helpful for you than a dictionary. And how you 'feel' about me or my methods of expression doesnt phase me in the least.

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Cyn, dont attack these well respected fine ladies, its me that you hate, remember? You truly havent been the same after you've been declawed,lol.



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Posted on Wed, Apr 04, 2007 17:20

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Sharon, if you dont care about the quantity or quality of the posts I direct at Sween then why bother addressing them? It may surprise you that alot of the men who read my posts and the history behind them commend me for having enough initiative and tenacity to voice my opinion and stand my ground. Ive learnt that many men dont care for women who yield themselves to others bullsh*t, who are meek, passive, and unable or unwilling to express themselves as they would like out of fear of rejection or judgment. Theres a huge difference between being assertive and aggressive; Im assertive and appreciate those who are, and many seem to appreciate it in me. I agree that what people write is a reflection of themselves, but physical and vocal expression play a large part in conveying a message to others; leaving a reader to interpretation is not a very accurate method of forming an opinion of a writer, and people are not as one-dimensional as you perhaps think. Maybe your 'skimming' causes you to miss the numerous, what I and others consider, positive and pleasant posts Ive contributed to this site. But enough justifying myself because Im very content with who I am and what I do, and if youre not then thats your issue to deal with.

Re:I thought this was about the eight second rule???? Wow



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Posted on Wed, Apr 04, 2007 14:24

Have we passed 8 seconds yet?

ROFLMAO



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Posted on Wed, Apr 04, 2007 04:23

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Sween, you really do need that dictionary as you dont know the meaning of the word banter :)

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No wonder Lionheart dumped you on your azz,lol.



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Posted on Mon, Apr 02, 2007 15:23

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Of course youre free to read and write what and how you like Tall. For anyone to think otherwise would be wrong. My suggestion that you not read my posts or engage in another topic is due to the fact that your arbitraty command of what actions I should take regarding Sweens insolent, indignant and contemptuous comments to and about me, and his general lack of diplomacy and good intentions towards and failure to recognize it in others, was not asked for and is unappreciated. Not every woman he encounters will act submissive towards him and pander to his attempts at sarcasm. We dont all act like flighty and vacillating adolescents in the company of men who try to cause us discomfort. But Ive already expressed my thoughts on him and my reasons for acknowledging his comments, and whether or not you agree with them and my methods, what else is there to understand? Maybe you should ask yourself why you bother with someone who you admit can be tactless and irritating? Simply put, it is what it is, so why question and analyze? Yes, I talk the way I write, but for the most part how I interact with others depends on the person and situation. Most people function this way. Many on this site hope that others here are experienced, rational, intelligent adults, so I express myself in a way that reflects this with the goal of attracting the same. Im here to banter, have some fun and discuss serious topics too. Its rare that I have difficulty doing this with others but sometimes those dead from the neck up throw a wrench into the mix, and whos to say what the best way is of dealing with them? Im not here to have my principles of conduct questioned, so in a way that may be easier for you to understand and more to your liking - stop meddling, concern yourself with your own affairs and let me concern myself with mine.


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It appears that she's doing all the bantering,lol.



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Posted on Mon, Apr 02, 2007 06:10

Here again, this IS a forum where people read, then comment on what they have read. I am only posting my opinions, and believe me when I say, I need no dictionary to understand what you write. I do feel, however, that you love throwing your intelligence in other's faces. Don't get me wrong....intelligent banter is good, but I'd venture a guess that a vast majority might read your posts and think....HUH???
If you just stop and think about it, sween is only responding to your posts to ruffle your feathers, and he succeeds each and every time. This is what he does, judging from the posts I've read on other threads. He lives to piss people off and get a negative response and each time YOU respond, you only fuel the fire.



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Posted on Mon, Apr 02, 2007 04:21

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Cynburghleah write:
Of course youre free to read and write what and how you like Tall. For anyone to think otherwise would be wrong. My suggestion that you not read my posts or engage in another topic is due to the fact that your arbitraty command of what actions I should take regarding Sweens insolent, indignant and contemptuous comments to and about me, and his general lack of diplomacy and good intentions towards and failure to recognize it in others, was not asked for and is unappreciated. Not every woman he encounters will act submissive towards him and pander to his attempts at sarcasm. We dont all act like flighty and vacillating adolescents in the company of men who try to cause us discomfort. But Ive already expressed my thoughts on him and my reasons for acknowledging his comments, and whether or not you agree with them and my methods, what else is there to understand? Maybe you should ask yourself why you bother with someone who you admit can be tactless and irritating? Simply put, it is what it is, so why question and analyze? Yes, I talk the way I write, but for the most part how I interact with others depends on the person and situation. Most people function this way. Many on this site hope that others here are experienced, rational, intelligent adults, so I express myself in a way that reflects this with the goal of attracting the same. Im here to banter, have some fun and discuss serious topics too. Its rare that I have difficulty doing this with others but sometimes those dead from the neck up throw a wrench into the mix, and whos to say what the best way is of dealing with them? Im not here to have my principles of conduct questioned, so in a way that may be easier for you to understand and more to your liking - stop meddling, concern yourself with your own affairs and let me concern myself with mine. If that was too difficult for you - keep your nose out of my crap and in your own. Or maybe you need to ..UNBELIEVABLE



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Posted on Sun, Apr 01, 2007 16:04

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Hey Sharon.. Happy to hear you're doing well and still in your relationship. Been there, done that, with the bratty kid stuff. It truly is tough on a relationship, but hopefully, you can turn the little devil around!!

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Hey Tomi,
Thank you. He's really terrific, and always surprising me. Last evening I was at his place and desparately needed hand lotion. I was going to use some I saw on the table and he said, "No, wait, I have some better stuff." He pulls out this St. Ives that my daughter buys. He told me he had observed it at my house, so he bought it just for me! lol He has 2 daughters, so he is used to buying all the feminine paraphenalia. lol
He went away this morning, and tonight I'm leaving for 10 days. I'm going to miss him! We see each other daily, unless our kids' sport schedules conflict.
How have you been? You were away awhile. Had you met someone?



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Posted on Sun, Apr 01, 2007 15:55

Cynburghleah write:
sharp1 write:
Cyn...if you say so. Actually I skim your verbiage. It doesn't interest me, but it causes me to draw this conclusion, which Tallblonde seems to conclude also. So...? But hey...if you're having fun...that's all that matters!


Then perhaps you should read others posts at greater length prior to making observations about them so that at the very least you give the impression that your judgments are based on reason.

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Uh...skim reading is like speed reading...one is able to get the full gist of what they are reading...they just do it faster.

I don't really care what or how many insulting posts you write toward Sweeney. But surely you must realize that alot of people who never post read the forums and blogs. What you post is a direct reflection of yourself. I'd venture to say...the reflection you are painting...is not a good one. Your trying to catch a man, right?

You are a nice looking lady. I would think you would want to present yourself more positively and flatteringly.

On the other hand, one could say you are presenting yourself as you are. No secrets. I'm sure there are alot of men jumping at the chance to catch such an unpleasantly expressive and opinionated gal like yourself. Keep on truckin' honey!



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Posted on Sun, Apr 01, 2007 01:47

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Hey Sharon.. Happy to hear you're doing well and still in your relationship. Been there, done that, with the bratty kid stuff. It truly is tough on a relationship, but hopefully, you can turn the little devil around!!

Again Cyn, I am free to read any post and comment, if I wish, but I simply don't understand why you continue to stir the fire. With each of your posts, of course, sween is going to respond, whether it be tactless or just being irritating, but you just keep it going with your wordy responses. I have to ask.....do you actually talk to others the way you write?? I am an intelligent woman, but I have a feeling some might have to drag out the dictionary to understand YOUR verbiage. I hate to say it, but no wonder sween keeps responding to your postd. Maybe he's trying to master the English language and has to look up those big words you seem to love..... :)

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I bet Cyn spends most of her day looking up these big words to throw at me,lol.



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Posted on Sat, Mar 31, 2007 13:42

Hey Sharon.. Happy to hear you're doing well and still in your relationship. Been there, done that, with the bratty kid stuff. It truly is tough on a relationship, but hopefully, you can turn the little devil around!!

Again Cyn, I am free to read any post and comment, if I wish, but I simply don't understand why you continue to stir the fire. With each of your posts, of course, sween is going to respond, whether it be tactless or just being irritating, but you just keep it going with your wordy responses. I have to ask.....do you actually talk to others the way you write?? I am an intelligent woman, but I have a feeling some might have to drag out the dictionary to understand YOUR verbiage. I hate to say it, but no wonder sween keeps responding to your postd. Maybe he's trying to master the English language and has to look up those big words you seem to love..... :)



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Posted on Sat, Mar 31, 2007 10:55

sweendogr write:

Sharon is very clever and very sexy,,yes indeedy.

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hahaha! Sweeney...You make me laugh!



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Posted on Fri, Mar 30, 2007 13:45

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Sharon, have you not read, or have you simply ignored or forgotten, some of the garbage that Sween spews at and about others on these forums, including recently on this one? This surprises me as its occurred for some time and youve been on this site for awhile. You strike me as a clever person...perhaps Im wrong. But hey, thats your choice, and yours to wonder if I have an affinity for him. To clarify once again (how many times do people have to repeat themselves around here?), I have difficulty tolerating the behaviour he exhibits, thus my resistance and retaliation towards it which is NOT incited by any type of attraction towards him - did I not already state that the very thought makes me feel physically ill? In the past Ive diplomatically expressed my thoughts regarding his crudeness to no avail, so I now figure whats good for the gander is good for the goose, as he seems only to acknowledge and respond to utterances which are on his level (I must admit hes a pro at inane rhetoric and I could never master it quite the way he does). If you cant comprehend the reasons behind my motives, or if you dislike the manner and length at which I voice my opinions and feelings, then please move on to a topic which is more to your satisfaction. :)

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Sharon is very clever and very sexy,,yes indeedy.



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Posted on Fri, Mar 30, 2007 13:44

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I have to hand it to you Sween, youve discovered my dirty little secret...I find middle-aged, balding, overweight divorces who spend their time attempting to disparage others with their illiterate, false, slighting and racist remarks on an internet dating site irresistible! Unfortunately, men with the high standards, knack for expression and acute shrewdness that you possess dont exist elsewhere in the world (with the exception of Quebec, know what I mean?), so Ive resorted to scouring the American midwest for a decrier who causes me to experience the warm and affectionate feelings that you do with your daft and belittling sentiments. Sigh...come and get me big man! LOL Im referring, of course, to your latest discharge of plebeian verbiage in which youve proven once again that theres no such thing as unutterable nonsense. Clearly you spend too much time in a darkened room in front of your pc turning a whiter shade of pale...go outside once in a while and breathe, it may reverse some of the brain rotting from all that festering stagnation and cognitive dysfunction youve made yourself a victim of. If ever I require an effective alternative to unconsciousness-inducing medications Ill refer back to the incompetent babblings youve regurgitated all over this site.

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Gee, does this mean you want s.e.x with me too?



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Posted on Fri, Mar 30, 2007 07:55

Cyn...if you say so. Actually I skim your verbiage. It doesn't interest me, but it causes me to draw this conclusion, which Tallblonde seems to conclude also. So...? But hey...if you're having fun...that's all that matters!


HI Tallblonde! Nice to see you!

Mel...I'm dating someone for the past 3 months. It's going fairly good, although recently a minor glitch like a bratty son, but I think I can instill some good manner in him! lol



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Posted on Thu, Mar 29, 2007 18:27

Hi Sharp!

What's new with you?



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Posted on Thu, Mar 29, 2007 18:26

SweenDoggie, How are you doing? The last we spoke you were recovering from a motorcycle accident. I hope everything turned out fine. Still seeing the docs? Did you do physical therapy?

I used to ride dirt bikes and I remember the fun. I hope you are still out there riding your bike.



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