how exactly do you know if someone is a gold digger?? I mean, don't you have total control over your bank account, control of where you choose to go and who you choose to go with?? I agree with many on their responses..just because women (and men) choose to come here instead of ummmm thug doesn't mean they're diggin' for your gold. Actually many (not all) people with money are quite cheap---lol---Alot of stereotyping...how can a person put a profile on here, post their high income level, then turn around and judge someone or assume they are after them for their $$. Unless it's clear what that person is after, of course i can see how you can come to that conclusion. Sometimes people assume too much and over analyze---just my 10 cents *smiles*
Well as to respond to your question: I
personally have worked very hard to get
to where i am in life at the moment.Now
i know money isnt everything,however in
my case i came from humble beggining and
let me tell ya this.I feel if I can aspire to the level at which i am currently at know,then there is no reason why anyone cant accomplish anything. I know there are all kinds of circumstances in our lives,but in all
fairness everthing including life is
about making the right choices,building
your own foundation from within and taking risks and chances.So i want someone who is has been there as i have
and are on the same level,and are preceding in an upperward direction.Thats is my view sands.1169...Mark
I don't fool myself. I signed up, merely from curiosity. I'm not a gold member, so you can see how serious I am about finding a millionaire--hah!!
I certainly don't believe, for a minute, that there are very many millionaires signed up here, if any.
I thought, however, that there may be those with a decemt level of professionalism,and taste for activities other than redneck pursuits.
People who make millions are probably busy doing that, instead of frittering away their time on a website like this, not to mention that they have access and connections to women/men who are in their same circles, as well as access to men/women in whatever levels of celebrity they choose to involve themselves.
Hey, are there any millionaires reading this?? I want to see your bank statements, your portfolio, and proof of any other holdings, here or overseas.
I'm chuckling, uncontrollably!
Have a blessed day/week/month, y'all.
I like the comments above and can see most people are here for the same reasons as me. The other sites I tried were not interesting for me, everyone obsessed about looks and body type. Im looking for brains and intelligence and as I work very hard, run my own business, own my own home, car, and am very independant I hoped that it might be easier to meet someone here who would understand the pressures of working, the balance, the drive, the ambition it takes. I like the finer things in life and am merely looking for someone who likes ad appreciates the same. However, not heard from anyone yet!
shall we throw in the popcorn while we all respond....Getting to know someone will only give you the anwser your looking for...and remember for every one finger you point three are pointing right back at you...:)
Geez, I hope no one ever makes an error by hitting the wrong key....anyone with "education" would be able to tell that she only hit a wrong key while typing....I'm sure no one else has ever done that....
I'm here because I supported my last man and figured what could it hurt to try this site. This time around, I want someone who, if they have to, can support themselves financially and are responsible. I'm willing to give the commitment to a relationship that is sincere, regardless if they have millions or don't. I just don't want someone to use me for my money or anything else.
I came here becasue a good friend of mine found success on this site, and met a man of her equal. No, I am not a gold digger. I make excellent money on my own. I have a home, vacation property, the whole ball of wax, except someone to share it with. It is hard to be a successful woman and meet men who are on your same plane. So here I am.
I'm glad to read everyone's take on this question... interesting. My friend actually told me about this site... I'd never heard of it. I'm not a gold digger and I've even had one gentleman offer to pay for a sitter and a round trip air ticket for me to go visit him. I thanked him and turned it down although I would love to go! I wanted to join this site because I've met some wierdos on others. My line of thinking is that people who do have money often don't trust others as much wondering IF they are gold diggers. I thought that maybe they'd take their time and get to know me before wanting to jump in the sack. I am hoping to meet an intelligent, hard working man who values the same in me. I have no million in the bank but I have MORE than that in my heart and I hope to give THAT to someone that I might meet.
I choose to look here as I belive in hanging out with sucessful happy people. While money doesn't solve all problems, those who have been able to "make it" for the most part are creative, forward thinking and have a zeal and zest for life that match my own personal views on life.
While I never made a pot of money of my own I have a lot to offer in terms of my own happiness with life and postive outlook.
LOL, I'm so glad someone asked that question! I was on another site, accidentally clicked onto this one... thought I'd check it out and found the men to be a LOT more attractive and not everyone posts their income on here, which is nice to see. Also, its good to have access to people around the world, although I'm finding that most men are looking for someone close to home. Anyhoo, have fun out there!
I think most people are here because generally they have expectations that people on this site are more likely to be intelligent and solvent. There are probably not that many millionares here but other sites iv heard of seem to have all sorts of strange characters.
Well, to be honest, I joined this site because I THOUGHT I'd be able to meet a gentleman who could hold a decent and intelligent conversation. And if we were to go out for dinner, maybe he could pay for it this time, instead of me and I'd leave the tip! But needless to say, in my first chat here, wouldn't you know it .. a "rich" gentleman wanted to talk raunchy sex. No "how are you", or "how's your evening", it was what size is your ... and what's your favorite position! Heck, if I wanted to talk trash I would have signed on to another site! So, you see, "People with higher incomes are (Not)typically brighter and (No)more sophisticated than the average Joe/Jane." What a joke! Whatever happened to "what's your sign"? It's surely a better icebreaker than "what's the size of your (putting it mildly) boobs".. LOL.