From Russia with what? Long Distance Relationship

  • View author's info Posted on Jun 09, 2006 at 02:52 PM


    puskin_uk write:
    This topic makes interesting reading :)

    Guys, IF you really want to have a FSU lady as a wife, do a lot of research, ( check to see how long her profile has been posted) and be realistic about age differences.

    Be honest with her, and visit her country first.. you are MOST unlikely to get a VISA for her unless you can show serious correspondence and meetings.

    Most women of the Former Soviet Union are very well educated, and family ( the home) are very important to them.

    You can only be scammed if you aren't sensible.

    Choose the right dating sites.. one's that vet the ladies ...

    When you write a letter, you'll know if it is designed for mass use, she'll not answer your questions.

    Be brave and organise your own trip together.. most apartments will let you pay on arrival.

    ..and try the food, the former Soviet Republics reflect the varied cuisines of the many states - you won't be disappointed..

    Russians/ Ukrainians / Belarussians don't need visas to go to Turkey, Egypt, etc. ( they buy them at the airport on arrival) but they DO ned them to travel to EU countries/US/Canada .. bear this in mind for meetings in the summer..

    US/ EU/ Canadian citizens and Russians/ Belarussians also can travel to Ukraine without visas. Kiev is beautiful.

    If you want to travel regularly to Russia, get a business visa.. then you can hop on a plane and "surprise" your lady !

    There's bad apples in every orchard.. but I'm pleased to say I've met the kindest people on my travels in FSU countries..

    Do some research.. You've VERY unlikely to be scammed.. unless you are unrealistic about the woman.

    Here endeth the reading..

    Both of you can Enjoy !


    This fellow wins award for most reasonable and intelligent post addressing this thread!
    Some people may have personally had a bad experience with an FSU.
    People do things for their own reasons, which may be as simple as love.
  • View author's info Posted on Jun 09, 2006 at 04:18 AM


    Thanks For The Lovely Message Bambi, Good Luck to you too!
  • View author's info Posted on Jun 08, 2006 at 01:02 PM


    Don't do that! Russian want only for one reason in the US States..to USE YOU!
    I'm a lawyer in NYC, I know a lot of clients who was married to Russian women and can pay now alimony and child support. 99% for sure she didn't care about you, she'll use you! And after 2 yrs you'll think about me. BE WARNED!
  • View author's info Posted on Jun 08, 2006 at 06:01 AM


    Lol! This has been Interesting Reading, I guess we all have to do our homework here, As they do too, Imagine the Lady in question is for real, You gets a ticket for her to visit, Who
    s to say the guy the other side she is going to meet is for real?

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  • View author's info Posted on Jun 06, 2006 at 03:05 PM


    I can't comment on Russian ladies but I would like to reply to ottawaguy35 regarding why a young lady would want to date an older man. I have always, always fancied older men - maybe not 60 but I have certainly found 45 yr old men and sometimes older attractive. Maybe it's the not having a 'daddy syndrome' I can't say why, but I like maturity - something I wouldn't find in a guy my own age. So please don't say all young ladies are scamming - because I can guarantee you, I am certainly not.
  • View author's info Posted on May 23, 2006 at 11:38 PM


    What's wrong with you man?I have no respect what so ever to a men who is going to Russia,Ukraine etc. looking for a women.What's wrong with you people!Ouh...You just cannot imagine what you are getting yourself in to.But in the same time I just thinking may be you are deserve it.
    I believe that golden rule should apply-
    if you cannot attract great women here you wouldn't be able and attract her there-simple is that.
    But if you are interested in sex-tourism than it's place to be )



    I DONT THINK SOMEONE SHOULD REFER THE OTHER ONE LIKE THAT!...NO OFFENSE, ANABEL, BUT IN THIS CASE, YOU SHOULD STAY IN UK, LOOKING FOR LOCAL BRIT GENTLEMAN..... AND I HATE TO SAY THAT, BUT IF YOU HAVE NO RESPECT FOR OTHERS, YOU DO NOT DESERVE RESPECT FOR YOURSELF, SWEET LADY...THAT IS THE SECOND GOLDEN RULE YOUR MOM SHOULD TO TEACH YOU.

    BEST WISHES FROM RUSSIA

    ROX
  • View author's info Posted on May 22, 2006 at 07:07 PM


    To Tallblonde50.
    You are absolutly right!!!
    To fitnfla. Sorry ,but...
    What's wrong with you man?I have no respect what so ever to a men who is going to Russia,Ukraine etc. looking for a women.What's wrong with you people!Ouh...You just cannot imagine what you are getting yourself in to.But in the same time I just thinking may be you are deserve it.
    I believe that golden rule should apply-
    if you cannot attract great women here you wouldn't be able and attract her there-simple is that.
    But if you are interested in sex-tourism than it's place to be )
  • View author's info Posted on May 22, 2006 at 09:56 AM


    This topic makes interesting reading :)

    Guys, IF you really want to have a FSU lady as a wife, do a lot of research, ( check to see how long her profile has been posted) and be realistic about age differences.

    Be honest with her, and visit her country first.. you are MOST unlikely to get a VISA for her unless you can show serious correspondence and meetings.

    Most women of the Former Soviet Union are very well educated, and family ( the home) are very important to them.

    You can only be scammed if you aren't sensible.

    Choose the right dating sites.. one's that vet the ladies ...

    When you write a letter, you'll know if it is designed for mass use, she'll not answer your questions.

    Be brave and organise your own trip together.. most apartments will let you pay on arrival.

    ..and try the food, the former Soviet Republics reflect the varied cuisines of the many states - you won't be disappointed..

    Russians/ Ukrainians / Belarussians don't need visas to go to Turkey, Egypt, etc. ( they buy them at the airport on arrival) but they DO ned them to travel to EU countries/US/Canada .. bear this in mind for meetings in the summer..

    US/ EU/ Canadian citizens and Russians/ Belarussians also can travel to Ukraine without visas. Kiev is beautiful.

    If you want to travel regularly to Russia, get a business visa.. then you can hop on a plane and "surprise" your lady !

    There's bad apples in every orchard.. but I'm pleased to say I've met the kindest people on my travels in FSU countries..

    Do some research.. You've VERY unlikely to be scammed.. unless you are unrealistic about the woman.

    Here endeth the reading..

    Both of you can Enjoy !

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  • View author's info Posted on May 12, 2006 at 09:21 AM


    finally I have to admitt that there are some horrible scam stories.. I just got a letter from my firend.. it makes my hair curl!... Any protection against scam... if they are going to fool you around... only International investigation could help....the most disgusting thing is not because they get your money.. but because they use word LOVE to unlock you!.... that is scaring... shouldnt be like that.. best of luck for all of you!!!!.... be always careful but dont miss your chance!
  • View author's info Posted on May 06, 2006 at 06:30 PM


    ...with love.... Why do you think nationality is so important? Why do you think that all women in Russia are so great actresses that poor american men cannot understand a woman is playing a role? Same situation can be anywhere, any country! I came from Russia to marry my american man and he was the best event on my life. He adored me and never got any regrets or doubts. No wonder if a 20-25 yo girl will leave you in 3-4 yrs if you are 50-60. I think if you want to marry a 20 yo girl being 40-50-60 and believing into her deep and real love - its just crazy! So dont be silly and stop looking for 20 yo movie stars!
    Look for a woman of your age, send emails, talk online, sent her pictures and ask her to send lots of pictures, DONT send money but send flowers or small gifts, plan your trip in russia, see her and never agree to meet in Moscow if she lives in Siberia, dont be lazy and go to her place, see her family, talk to her and you will be glad you did the right choice or just say bye to her...
    TO FITNFLA - dont believe she will ever get visa to USA without your help! You have to make a long trip and its not easy to get visa. If she can GET USA VISA she doesnt need your money at all... She is not a real honest woman I think! If you need help feel free to sk me any time.
  • View author's info Posted on May 05, 2006 at 04:52 PM


    I have met a great russian lady here in Winston Salem NC, she works at the library, has a graduate degree and the skin and body of a woman half of her age. She is smart, considerate, and fun.
  • View author's info Posted on May 05, 2006 at 09:14 AM


    biflover write:
    From Russia with love, NOT! try money!
    80% of ads are scams, the photo is not the person you think, or if it is she is married to a drunk or drug addict who has no job who pushes or beats her into the scam, they think Americans men are stupid.Amazingly its become so bad that its hurting export trade, nobody trust Russians anymore, its so bad the authorities are cracking down and throwing these women in jail for a long time, but their men go free! If you are in communication with a Russian woman and have her address send her a small gift of flowers or chocolets, it,ll come back address unknown, cancile the order and report the bitch, its a small price to pay than getting scammed big time. If she acts and talks like a virgin she is proberbly a whore, if she tells you she is very poor and tells you she has to use a internet cafe she is lieing most poor have internet,most photos they send are proffesional photos that they buy, not of her, just some model,most are some old babushkas, if she is a skinny teen with dark rings around the eyes with a face of a drawn out 40yo like their olimpian gym team she is proberbly the real thing.
    Its to bad how Russian women can screw up the lives and other opportunities of other Russian women, so sad.


    Fie, Bif....That is the same I would say all men are pigs!...and all want only one thing!!!...because someone sometime fooled me... how have you became such an expert in russians?...I guess you were interested in 25 years old from Russian sites,huh?... that is a pity you cant see all those John Deers working on our lands...lolol

    Yes Andy, they live and work here... in the embassy and joint ventures....Of course sometime they will go back to their country... because they love it as I guess...

    End of the thread!.. that is not interesting any more and becomes to stink! Try a new one THE DANGERS AND ADVENTURES OF NET COMMUNICATIONS.... when you start to think too much about russians.. they come and catch you!
  • View author's info Posted on May 04, 2006 at 07:31 PM


    From Russia with love, NOT! try money!
    80% of ads are scams, the photo is not the person you think, or if it is she is married to a drunk or drug addict who has no job who pushes or beats her into the scam, they think Americans men are stupid.Amazingly its become so bad that its hurting export trade, nobody trust Russians anymore, its so bad the authorities are cracking down and throwing these women in jail for a long time, but their men go free! If you are in communication with a Russian woman and have her address send her a small gift of flowers or chocolets, it,ll come back address unknown, cancile the order and report the bitch, its a small price to pay than getting scammed big time. If she acts and talks like a virgin she is proberbly a whore, if she tells you she is very poor and tells you she has to use a internet cafe she is lieing most poor have internet,most photos they send are proffesional photos that they buy, not of her, just some model,most are some old babushkas, if she is a skinny teen with dark rings around the eyes with a face of a drawn out 40yo like their olimpian gym team she is proberbly the real thing.
    Its to bad how Russian women can screw up the lives and other opportunities of other Russian women, so sad.
  • View author's info Posted on May 03, 2006 at 10:57 PM


    Dana21 write:
    I sick of this topic. Why you are always talking about Russian ladies? They are beautiful, smart and well educated. Many of them speak English. How many of you speak Russian or other language? Not many. It doesn't matter what country you will go, there are always girls who are looking for many. No questions about it. There is a little advise for all of you: Before to judge someone, first look at your self.
    Best regards.


    Thanks, Dana, for your comment..Good luck on this site!
  • View author's info Posted on May 02, 2006 at 07:11 AM


    Girl from all over they World would love a chance to come to North America,not only Russian.I have freinds from Russian who want nothing to do with American men,and they are 27 to 30 andd belleive me they look better than most 20 years old American girls.
  • View author's info Posted on Apr 30, 2006 at 11:54 PM


    what do you think of filipinas guys?
  • View author's info Posted on Apr 30, 2006 at 11:50 AM


    Yes, but do they live there?



    ...chasing girls?

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  • View author's info Posted on Apr 23, 2006 at 07:02 AM


    Angyson write:

    But other than Lee Harvey Oswald, North Americans are not moving to Russia.


    Oh, Andy, Americans are everywhere... I was in bowling club yesterday... they were there playing next path, then we went to the restaraunt and next table were taken by Americans too!!!!....and they are everywhere wandering around the streets..Maybe it is only you sitting under your rock??
  • View author's info Posted on Apr 23, 2006 at 01:57 AM


    Angyson write:
    My Russian acquaintance, a dentist, said she is travel ling to Moscow to get her visa to come see me. She needs my full name, address and telephone number.
    The Russian babushkas I saw on television do not age well, no matter how beautiful they are. Any suggestions on what to do?

    There is an excellent German skin care line that is successful for antiaging (shipping & handling not included)
  • View author's info Posted on Apr 19, 2006 at 05:25 AM


    LEE_ENGLAND write:
    I've always been very suspicious of emails from russian girls. They are all fake. Slightly unrelated but in Poland the girls are very good looking and friendly too. I liked it there so much I even brought a house in Poznan.



    hahahaha.. are you sure they are all fake?... I am going to have a dinner with one gentelman from UK in Prague to discuss the possibilities of travelling over the Europe this summer... What if that Brit is fake too?...Poor me... Better not to go!
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