From Russia with what? Long Distance Relationship

  • View author's info posted on Feb 07, 2013 05:12


    Quoting fitnfla:

    how does one protect themselves from a scam. i hav a lady from russia who wants to come visit me. she wants me to pay for here vis and travel ticket. how do i know its for real and wont get scammed. what can i do to protect myself.

    WHy won't you go see her in Russia? In the worst case scenario you'll enjoy a new culture and new friends.
  • View author's info posted on Feb 07, 2013 05:11


    Quoting biflover:

    I get about 6 proposals a week from Russian girls, they are all beautiful, they say they get my email from an agency (that does not have my permission), but hears a few points to know,
    they all have the same story.
    they are all poor live with their mom, have no phone, use internet cafe.
    (they think all americans are stupid) and doint know they buy photos of models and pass themselves off as the one in the photo.
    ask her for one in a bikini and they say they dont have one because they are very modest.
    (truth) they forgot to buy a photo of the model in bikini. so they dont have a naked photo with a head shot of the same model so they can prove its them.
    they never answere any questions you ask, (act dumb)
    when they ask for money for visa and money to travel to moscow, you find they dont have a bank account, they want you to send cash though western union.
    they dont have a street address.
    their email comes through about six other email providers never direct.
    many email proposals come from within the US pretending to be from russia.
    scammings are so bad, it hurts russian trade, western union is only acepting small amounts now, nobody is buying nothing from russia, now the KBG are throwing these "people" in jail for 20 years, I say people because most are old bubushcas and men, or wives forced to do this by the drunk husband, give them a chance and they will clean you out.

    Are you an idiot? If you believe all Russian women  are scammers why  would you keep looking and asking for their  NUDE/bikini pictures? Who do you think YOU are?
  • View author's info posted on Feb 05, 2013 11:03


    Just listen to yr heart. If u believe her and want to be with her, why not?
  • View author's info posted on Jan 14, 2013 12:28


    I also say send her a ticket but first talk to me!
  • View author's info posted on Jan 01, 2013 21:36


    Would she agree to meet half-way? lets say in Germany? Or would you like to travel to Russia instead? This is the surest way you won't end up scammed. Good luck.
  • View author's info posted on Dec 29, 2012 14:29


    Try to establish open and sincere relations.In this case all will be real.if not-do not fly.
  • View author's info posted on Oct 03, 2012 08:29


    And what happens if you don't like her and she is here for a month..?:) There are nice ladies from european community who are already in USA, so you might not need to travel that far. :)
    Internet is like an ocean, and it's up to you what you "catch"..:)) You have to be able to read and understand what are real motivations behind those requests of "receiving money for tickets", etc..:))
    Anyway, I wish you good luck in your adventure!
  • View author's info posted on Sep 14, 2012 14:41


    A person who can´t  take decisions himself in his private life and asks for the opinion of public is already a mistake of the nature. I would not be surprised if the girl dropped him after being established in his country. And this is not because she is from the East, West, China or Africa or USA. This is because the guy is a jerk.
  • View author's info posted on Sep 08, 2012 17:23


    RE: Bentley1983
     

    Thanks dear! That' s so true. There are lots of Russian or Ukrainian or ... women here in US. Bringing a foreigner is a risky and very difficult business.  Good luck!

  • View author's info posted on Aug 23, 2012 19:01


    very ture, my main reason is to find that MAN, not doing drugs and heavy drinker. Tired of those...
  • View author's info posted on Jun 29, 2012 18:17


    I would say it is somewhat risky to pay someone to come here. I also come from an Eastern European country and like all people around the world we have good and bad ones. There are still a lot of Russian women whose dream is to come to the U.S. and marry a man who can support her and her family, but there are others who just want to start a new life in a new place with less corruption and more freedom. I say you follow your gutt, talk to her on the phone first if possible.... But I will give you one advice for sure that many women do not want to admit - Eastern Europeans like to be spoiled and see that money is spent for them AND their family. But, that is not necessarily a bad thing, we give a lot in return - love, passion, and fun! I hope this helps. Good luck!
  • View author's info posted on Jun 03, 2012 22:48


    why this woman who tries to give you some piece of advice is so much angry and hush on women from ex-USSR?
    the answer is simple she is evil and jealous!!! and judging people using herself as her own example?!
    remember: people are good,bad and different.
    trust the facts: lots of men in Russia are alcoholics.there are many good women there.
    the best is to fly yourself and find out.or if you need any help or advice you could contact me.

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  • View author's info posted on May 24, 2012 04:41


    Quoting Karl123:

    I advise you to stay away from all former soviet women because:

    1. They all search for a better life in a developed country;
    2. Don't believe them when they say there are no men or good men in their country;
    3. They know about the % of preperty settlemkent they will get if they divorce, and they will have the permanent residency of you country. So for them, it is a win-win;
    4. They will tell you they want family, marriage for ever, blah..blah..They just say that to anaethtise you into marrying them and then they will leave you.
    5. According to USA department of Immigration, 82% of Russians/post Soviet women initiate the divorce;
    6. They lack the values we have in theWest and they are "AMORAL". Si leaving you won't make them lose sleep because to them it is all about their self advancement and their life, and not yours!

    Finally, I have travel;led to Russian. Ukrain and several other post-soviet countries. I loived there for a few years. Don't trust them, don't believe them.

    Forget about them!!  Good luck!



    Uhmmm Karl,

    You sound very angry - did this happen to you personally? I am sure there must be some good Russian and post-Soviet women out there that are genuine and loving. They all can't be as you describe, definitely not. If a marriage ends whether it involves Soviet women or not, asset sharing is almost always involved unless of course the couple were penniless. So wouldn't the same be applied to a Russian woman's divorce?

    I guess I am struggling to believe that all the women in Russia and post-Soviet countries set out to deliberately cold-heartedly defraud their unsuspecting, wonderful, loving, men, from the outset! Do you think they have no emotions and have no need for love, care, affection, companionship?

    If a Sovient woman is married to a man who loves her, cares for and about her, cherishes her, why would she want to throw all that away, get 50% of the marital assets and be single and lonely (or alone) for the rest of her life? Are you saying they are this cold-hearted beings who are incapable of returning or having genuine love or affection for a man? Why would anyone divorce someone who makes them absolutely happy and over the moon? That just really doesn't make sense to me. The 82% stat you refer to obviously does not state the grounds of these divorces does it? And as you know it takes two to tangle. How about abuse and domestic violence that some of these women are subjected to in some of these so-called marriages? And the disadvantages they face because of language barrier and cultural difficulties? I think you are only presenting one side of the argument - but then of course you are a lawyer and it would appear it isn't your mission to advocate for the Soviet women.
    As for the original post - yeah, I would be careful with that particular one. Go visit her and see for yourself rather than having her come over. Maintain a long distance relationship with her without splashing out too much money on her and see where things go. If she is genuinely interested in you, it will show and it will endure. If not, she will get impatient and move on quickly! Good luck my dear.

    Liv.

  • View author's info posted on May 24, 2012 04:31


    Quoting Karl123:

    I advise you to stay away from all former soviet women because:

    1. They all search for a better life in a developed country;
    2. Don't believe them when they say there are no men or good men in their country;
    3. They know about the % of preperty settlemkent they will get if they divorce, and they will have the permanent residency of you country. So for them, it is a win-win;
    4. They will tell you they want family, marriage for ever, blah..blah..They just say that to anaethtise you into marrying them and then they will leave you.
    5. According to USA department of Immigration, 82% of Russians/post Soviet women initiate the divorce;
    6. They lack the values we have in theWest and they are "AMORAL". Si leaving you won't make them lose sleep because to them it is all about their self advancement and their life, and not yours!

    Finally, I have travel;led to Russian. Ukrain and several other post-soviet countries. I loived there for a few years. Don't trust them, don't believe them.

    Forget about them!!  Good luck!


    Yes, forget about us and good luck in your home country!  Your post smells nazism and lie.
  • View author's info posted on May 03, 2012 13:39


    wow , that's a big subject:-)
    if you want to meet someone and you are not too lazy and also is not in your hope and asspiration to meet the perfect woman or man to the next corner...then go there and
    meet the person .....or , even better , meet that person in a neutral place , not your country or him , to Paris , for example 
    if that person can't afford a tiket....that can be a big problem and a sign to run....
    plus , for men , do not think only with the head from your paints , if you have 50-60-70 and look only after someone who have no more than 25-35 maxim 40....well , for sure you don't want to meet someone who can be your partner in life but only in bed.....and that will cost you 
    A LOT 
    be realistic and try to look after someone who will be with you in good or bad time 
    if a person is open to "show" you too many in web cam is also dangerous , she or he is used to do this and you need someone who still have shame and respect , if you want a good , respectfull family life you need no such a person 
    and remember...if sound to good to be true...than , for sure it is

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  • View author's info posted on Apr 21, 2012 14:04


    Quoting alwaysu:

    hello.
    I'm Russian but I moved here from Moscow and I'm in the states for over 13 years already and have all my legal papers. I want to tell you Dear that don't do this.If you really want to meet a nice Russian women who is already here you can  find them in  Russian community in ur location. It's so many out there who dodn't need to marry some one for paper work. You can find a real Love and good friend here in US. But if you really like that women just take a brake and go to meet her there so you will see all real things there at her home.Try to meet with her friends and her parents if they still alive.I hope i helped you with understanding about what you were telling here. Sincere Nina
     

    Good advice Nina !!!!
    Unfortunately, some guys do like to go to the Former Soviet Union countries because they looking for a woman who are not istablish american, so they can take control of her, who is very naive and depend on them. After sometime, she will be american anyway and there is nothing he can do about it. But this usually happen with the guys are insecure.
    If a guy is smart guy and he likes russian woman or asian or etc., he will look for her in the US.
  • View author's info posted on Mar 18, 2012 11:17


    I get about 6 proposals a week from Russian girls, they are all beautiful, they say they get my email from an agency (that does not have my permission), but hears a few points to know,
    they all have the same story.
    they are all poor live with their mom, have no phone, use internet cafe.
    (they think all americans are stupid) and doint know they buy photos of models and pass themselves off as the one in the photo.
    ask her for one in a bikini and they say they dont have one because they are very modest.
    (truth) they forgot to buy a photo of the model in bikini. so they dont have a naked photo with a head shot of the same model so they can prove its them.
    they never answere any questions you ask, (act dumb)
    when they ask for money for visa and money to travel to moscow, you find they dont have a bank account, they want you to send cash though western union.
    they dont have a street address.
    their email comes through about six other email providers never direct.
    many email proposals come from within the US pretending to be from russia.
    scammings are so bad, it hurts russian trade, western union is only acepting small amounts now, nobody is buying nothing from russia, now the KBG are throwing these "people" in jail for 20 years, I say people because most are old bubushcas and men, or wives forced to do this by the drunk husband, give them a chance and they will clean you out.
  • View author's info posted on Jan 21, 2011 09:03


    hello.

    I'm Russian but I moved here from Moscow and I'm in the states for over 13 years already and have all my legal papers. I want to tell you Dear that don't do this.If you really want to meet a nice Russian women who is already here you can  find them in  Russian community in ur location. It's so many out there who dodn't need to marry some one for paper work. You can find a real Love and good friend here in US. But if you really like that women just take a brake and go to meet her there so you will see all real things there at her home.Try to meet with her friends and her parents if they still alive.I hope i helped you with understanding about what you were telling here. Sincere Nina

     

  • View author's info posted on Jan 11, 2011 19:13


    She wants or you want?
    You know what, leave Great Russians (Oxford dictionary for stupid) alone, and if you need you next enemy, just look around you. Tip (for stupid in tanks): they look like roaches.
    By the way, for everybody: I see one more negative comment here about Russia or Russians - I'll see you in a court, the right one.
    And if you decide you may use pictures of my law school mates just like that - you're very wrong.
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