OK, you won't like this response. Relationships take time. If you're unwilling to make the time right now, then best to let fate take place and not go looking for something that may just annoy both of you if the time factor isn't there.
FREE TIME IS IMPORTANT BUT IF YOU ARE WORKING TO REACH YOUR ULTIMATE PLACE YOU WANNA BE THEN YOUR PARTNER WILL BE UNDERSTANDING AND LET YOUR STAR SHINE BRIGHTLY AND NOT TRY TO COVER IT UP. GOOD THINGS COME TO THOSE WHO WAIT.
YOU SEEM LIKE A GREAT GUY AND YOU HAVE ALMOST COMPLETED YOUR GOAL, STAY FIRM ON YOUR DECISIONS. YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE SUPPORTIVE, I PROMISE. THEN YOU CAN ENJOY THE RETIREMENT TOGETHER. WOULD LOVE TO TALK TO YOU, I LIKE WHO YOU SEEM TO BE AND I LIKE YOUR DETERMINATION!!! KINDNNICE2002
You'll have more than enough time in two years from now.
You sound worried, but you have the answer already, so just wait don't look keep working by the time you find one you probably wish to work even longer...