Why do the white men here snob black women??? Interracial Relationship

  • View author's info posted on Dec 20, 2009 08:06


    Not sure why there are extra symbols, guess I cannot use certain keys. But for those of you reading, you can still understand what I wrote.

  • View author's info posted on Dec 20, 2009 07:58


    Fortunately, there are a lot of men who do not consider color; however, there are many who do.  The biggest insult is when you see My Match: Caucasian/White; Hispanic/Latino; Asian; Mixed Race; Other.¿ In other words, anything but Black, LOL. Maybe other is a fit, maybe not LOL. Actually, it is not an insult, it is just their preference (and we all have a preference); but when I see this, I chuckle.  It is what it is, and you know not to waste your time, right? Although, this is not always concrete, because many have these options selected on their profiles, and I still receive an email from these same men. Go figure, maybe we are other.

    Many Caucasian men have not dated black women as it is still taboo with some. It is also a comfort level; many black women have never dated white men, they feel more comfortable with black. I've had both sides admit this.

    Ladies, we have to have confidence in ourselves. I am approached by more white men than black. (Keep in mind, you cannot single out the white men; you can include black, Hispanic, on and on.) Race has never been an issue for me or others on this site, but there are still two sides. Some white men may feel as though black women are not interested and are sometimes nervous about approaching. Remember, we are known as having attitudes. Haha, we know this is not the case. We are extremely caring and nurturing (maybe that is why some have attitudes due to being taken advantage of because of their kind hearts).

    I will say when you find that Caucasian man who is color-blind, he normally has a lot of confidence, could care less what people think and will treat you like gold (I am not saying all, just based on my experiences).  Good luck ladies. And make sure your profiles are tight with a nice photo. It starts with you and what is meant to be will, whether white, black, other, etc. Happy searching!

  • View author's info Photo Verified posted on Dec 16, 2009 19:02


    Hello, I'm all white and I Luvvv black ladies !! They are really sexy and truly all woman . John
  • View author's info posted on Nov 26, 2009 06:41


    It is all about one's perspective ... be a lady at all times and the rest will take care of itself.
  • View author's info posted on Nov 25, 2009 18:24


    Quoting easymantolove:

    I dont date women with tattoos... what does that make me? A snob (or snub if your Oxford inclined)? LOL

    Seriously, most men on here are looking for intelligence, kindness, style, grace, charm, beauty etc. and if you're not offering those things then you'll get far far fewer responses than those who are.



    How about both...LOL And I'm not Oxford inclined...Just a lil' ole country gal here who has no trouble getting the White boys...Got no tats either.

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  • View author's info posted on Nov 25, 2009 16:33


    I can proudly say that I am only attracted to white men. It does hurt when I go out to bars and I shoot a guy a smile and he eventually rejects me. It just hurts knowing you have so much love and admiration to give and it is dismissed because my parents were born two shades darker. I really hope to find someone who isn't as closedmineded or worried about what their familiy will say about a faithful woman who happens to be brown. It is all about the approach, and I've got that eloquently down pat. But sticks and stones my ass! It will always hurt when someone dismisses you to no resolve.

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  • View author's info Photo Verified posted on Nov 24, 2009 01:15


    I dont date women with tattoos... what does that make me? A snob (or snub if your Oxford inclined)? LOL

    Seriously, most men on here are looking for intelligence, kindness, style, grace, charm, beauty etc. and if you're not offering those things then you'll get far far fewer responses than those who are.
  • View author's info posted on Nov 22, 2009 21:59


    Quoting Die_Capitalist:

    I'd venture to say that it's because every man on here is wealthy. In order to be wealthy in a capitalist system, you have to be fundamentally willing (or, excited) to participate in a system that inherently spreads white supremacy and patriarchy. It's not a case by case issue, it's a system that has engendered these ideas within the minds of males across the board. It's evident from small instances like this, to the war in Afghanistan. Where capital goes, so goes what you describe.



    That is such an archaic way of viewing the question of White men and Black women in today's society. Comparing interracial relationships between a man and a woman to the war in Afghanistan archaistic that it's on the ridiculous side of the truth. Is white supremacy or patriarchy the reason why you selected the nic that you chose to use on the site? Do you feel superior to the rest of us?
  • View author's info posted on Nov 21, 2009 21:37


    First of all, the word is "snub" not "snob;" something one would expect an Oxford Grad to know. Second, you ask if they think they are rich. Well, this site is under the auspices of MillionaireMatch. It does not matter if they think they are rich or not. They could join one site under that company and show up on another. So, yes they could think they are rich. Third, if you did not think you might possibly meet some rich guy why then are you here? Are you rich and hoping to meet up with some White toy boy? I don't think so. Are you asking the question because you responded to some White men's profiles and they ignored you? Perhaps it might have been your approach and not your race. Why does it have to be about race? If it is about race and you did not approach someone think of this, some White men are hesitant to approach Black women for fear of being rejected. I know this because I have had them tell me so. They had no fear with me because of the way my profile is written. Just some food for thought there rather than imply that White men are "snobbing" (superior, etc.) you.
  • View author's info posted on Nov 07, 2009 21:27


    I'd venture to say that it's because every man on here is wealthy. In order to be wealthy in a capitalist system, you have to be fundamentally willing (or, excited) to participate in a system that inherently spreads white supremacy and patriarchy. It's not a case by case issue, it's a system that has engendered these ideas within the minds of males across the board. It's evident from small instances like this, to the war in Afghanistan. Where capital goes, so goes what you describe.
  • View author's info posted on Nov 04, 2009 15:58


    Quoting Natell:

    Maybe their not snobbing(whatever that is)black women, they could just not be interested in you. I mean men are visual creatures and you have no photo on your profile, also maybe your conversation skills might not be as well as you think. I have never had a problem with any men on here especially white actually white men are all i get responses from.



    Hey, as long as white guys are cool with playing in the dark, I don't mind playing in the snow...and I've dated many a snowman in my day! LOL ...To each his own. I haven't had any problems out here, thus far. If I click on a man's profile that doesn't include "black" as his ethnicity preference, I click the "back" button and move on. You can't fault someone on what/whom they're physically attracted to. They have their reasons. So, when you see a profile of a man that chooses not to date a black woman, sobeit, grow a thicker skin and move on...it's his loss.

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  • View author's info Photo Verified Certified Millionaire in 2009 posted on Oct 31, 2009 08:56


    i read your comment,then looked at your profile.u r just a hypocrite wanting attention.im a white man,very sucessful,no issues,i date many ethnic women with no problem.men want a woman they r compatible with not just anyone.women need to understand more about what men want ,not just what race.just because a white man dont want a black woman doesnt mean its cos shes black,it might b weight,attitude,kids etc.any black women who read this get in touch if u r someone who fits my match.this is my kind act for today.

  • View author's info posted on Oct 26, 2009 16:55


    We all need to love each other
  • View author's info posted on Jan 22, 2008 20:30


    well hopefully they dont think we are "golddiggers" and want them for money...because you are right you can be miserable with alot of money. I'm here for one reason is I cant find an interracial site.
  • View author's info posted on Jan 17, 2008 16:58


    I have no preference at all and make no choice of who to date based on Race,, I make my decision based on all the usual characteristics, character, honesty etc..I think alot of men feel the same way.
    You just haven't run into them.
  • View author's info posted on Jul 16, 2006 04:03


    Just because he wasn't interested, doesn't necessarily mean it was because you are black.... Although, I do know white men who won't even date a white woman that has been with a black guy. These men are an embarrassment to the white race!
  • View author's info posted on Mar 07, 2006 06:29


    Well you have nailed that. I think I feel alot of women.men have alot to offer in a relationship,a man or woman who feels intimidated by another should not be here looking. You are one of the few smart guys lol!!!!
  • View author's info posted on Mar 06, 2006 10:15


    creegan write:
    Just curious why do some white men here snob black women??? Is it that they think they are rich??? money really means nothing you could live in a mansion, miserable and alone? Some of us here are very educated, attractive, successful maybe not millionaires. Equality despite race is more attractive. Just my thought not male bashing here.

    All these posts about white men and black women. I , honestly do not see an existing problem. Maybe it's because I am unique in my racial make-up.
    I have never had problems with white men wanting to date me, or my dating white men. My Ex- husband is white. 99.99% of the responses I get on MM have been from white men ( or any other dating site for that matter). They have all been terrific. Maybe if only, you just let go of what white men are not doing, one will come your way.
    A man black or white if he likes what he sees he will respond!!!!!
    It really is.. just that simple!

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