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Posted on Thu, Feb 18, 2010 04:50

By the way take a look at some of the geographical location of these men and many of them are in the south. A lot of these men are old and in thier younger day may have been a part of something that you may not have wish to have taken part in to me those men can keep on trucking as well as the ones who have no clue as to how to be men. Could you imagine sitting down and trying to find something in common with these men when some of thier favorite words might be geared toward some ignorance they are use too. I can't imagine that girlfriend. Now I'm not trying to be bold or insulting what I've said I believe to be the truth. So just do you girlfriend. There are many children in this world who go hungry or who just need a voice. Go check them out. They too need love and for someone to care for them. I'm not putting all my eggs in one basket as the old saying goes. If love is here that's great if its not I can move on I don't need a man and his money to make me happy. And besides that who know's maybe the Lord has other plans and other ways for you to meet your Mr. Right.

I wish you peace, love and joy.



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Posted on Sun, Jan 03, 2010 08:00

im sure some white men dont date white women,your point is what,if a white man does not want a black woman its a felony.how about a preference or a choice.im a true certified millionaire,most of my relationships n 1 marriage were black.black women like me n im real comfortable with that.maybe white men just dont like some black chics n like others.personality plays a part,compatibility n chemistry too,but a racial preference has to b real,n dont worry who complains,just sharing an opinion.maybe creegan is just playing the old victim card that so many blacks play if they dont like something.''if u dont like me its cos im black''rich or poor we make choices to better ourseleves,not to better strangers.

 

 



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Posted on Fri, Jan 01, 2010 09:28

I have never dated outside my race, but I HAVE ALWAYS WANTED TO.

Shontia



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Posted on Sun, Dec 27, 2009 22:44

TO EACH IS OWN I AM NOT MAD AY YOU. A PERSON LIKS'S WHAT THEY LIKE. I HAVE NEVER DATE OUTSIDE MY AFRICAN AMERICAN RACE BUT, I AM WILLING TO GIVE IT A TRY YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE THE SKY IS THE LIMIT 'FEEL ME'. I AM ALITTLE SHY ABOUT IT BUT THAT,S ALL GOOD. MY DAD ALWAYS TOUGHT ME THAT BEAUTY IS ONLY SKIN DEEP, AND THE COLOR OF YOUR SKIN DON,T MATTER IT,S WHAT,S INSIDE.JUST WANNA CHILL WITH A COOL DOWN TO EARTH PERSON WITH SOME PERSONALITY AND HUMOROUS,AND SMART AND, WHO AINT SCARED.    WELL HAPPY HOLIDAYS TO EVERY ONE AND MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL.  MISS NITA  'SEXY SISTA'

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Posted on Sun, Dec 27, 2009 22:24

                                                 . I NEVER DATED OUTSIDE MY RACE BUT, I DONT MIND SOMETHING NEW. I LIKE A PERSON ON THE INSIDE, OUTSIDE MEANS NOTHING. I PROMISE U THAT.  THEY SAY MONEY CAN'T MAKE YOU HAPPY. LIKE CEDRIC THE ENTERTAINER SAID, I JUST DON'T KNOW ABOUT THAT BABY GIRL. THERE GOES MY HUMOROUS SIDE COMING OUT. I DID'NT GROW UP RICH BUT, I SURE WOULD'NT MIND BEING RICH U FEEL ME. ON THE REAL, I WOULD HAVE TO LIKE U TO KICK IT WITH U I DON'T CARE HOW MUCH MONEY U GOT.  I LOVE BEING BLACK AND, WOULD NOT CHANGE NOTHING ABOUT THIS BROWN SUGAR. WELL I AM NEW ON THIS SITE I NEVER DID NO STUFF LIKE THIS. IF MY KIDS ONLY KNEW THEY WOULD SAY MOM WHAT'S ALL THAT ABOUT L.O.L. AND, I WOULD SAY MIND YOUR BUSINESS SON... I WILL TRY THIS FOR A MONTH JUST TO SEE HOW IT GOES DOWN. I DONT KNOW....... PEACE I'M OUT... GOD IS GOOD........HAPPY HOLIDAYS TO YOU ALL.. MISS NITA



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Posted on Sat, Dec 26, 2009 19:35

I dont think that at all is going on here..lets face it the more choices you allow yourself the better your chances at happiness!
Dont be silly! Opposites attract! and not to mention differences are fun.



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Posted on Tue, Dec 22, 2009 10:05

Ilovebenme,, you hit the nail on the head with this one line, "Some white men may feel as though black women are not interested "

 

I personally don't have a problem approaching "Black Women",, because I look at all women the same,, if I'm attracted, I'm go'in for it. But it would be nice if they could help us out sometimes by starting the conversation/email (for here),, because maybe we haven't run across your profile yet.

 

One tip as ilovebenme said also holds true here, clean up the profiles and put in some nice pictures !



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Posted on Sun, Dec 20, 2009 17:38

I am hoping everyone finds what they are looking for.



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Posted on Sun, Dec 20, 2009 08:06

Not sure why there are extra symbols, guess I cannot use certain keys. But for those of you reading, you can still understand what I wrote.



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Posted on Sun, Dec 20, 2009 07:58

Fortunately, there are a lot of men who do not consider color; however, there are many who do.  The biggest insult is when you see My Match: Caucasian/White; Hispanic/Latino; Asian; Mixed Race; Other.¿ In other words, anything but Black, LOL. Maybe other is a fit, maybe not LOL. Actually, it is not an insult, it is just their preference (and we all have a preference); but when I see this, I chuckle.  It is what it is, and you know not to waste your time, right? Although, this is not always concrete, because many have these options selected on their profiles, and I still receive an email from these same men. Go figure, maybe we are other.

Many Caucasian men have not dated black women as it is still taboo with some. It is also a comfort level; many black women have never dated white men, they feel more comfortable with black. I've had both sides admit this.

Ladies, we have to have confidence in ourselves. I am approached by more white men than black. (Keep in mind, you cannot single out the white men; you can include black, Hispanic, on and on.) Race has never been an issue for me or others on this site, but there are still two sides. Some white men may feel as though black women are not interested and are sometimes nervous about approaching. Remember, we are known as having attitudes. Haha, we know this is not the case. We are extremely caring and nurturing (maybe that is why some have attitudes due to being taken advantage of because of their kind hearts).

I will say when you find that Caucasian man who is color-blind, he normally has a lot of confidence, could care less what people think and will treat you like gold (I am not saying all, just based on my experiences).  Good luck ladies. And make sure your profiles are tight with a nice photo. It starts with you and what is meant to be will, whether white, black, other, etc. Happy searching!



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Posted on Wed, Dec 16, 2009 19:02

Hello, I'm all white and I Luvvv black ladies !! They are really sexy and truly all woman . John



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Posted on Thu, Nov 26, 2009 06:41

It is all about one's perspective ... be a lady at all times and the rest will take care of itself.



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Posted on Wed, Nov 25, 2009 18:24

Quoting easymantolove:

I dont date women with tattoos... what does that make me? A snob (or snub if your Oxford inclined)? LOL

Seriously, most men on here are looking for intelligence, kindness, style, grace, charm, beauty etc. and if you're not offering those things then you'll get far far fewer responses than those who are.



How about both...LOL And I'm not Oxford inclined...Just a lil' ole country gal here who has no trouble getting the White boys...Got no tats either.

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Posted on Wed, Nov 25, 2009 16:33

I can proudly say that I am only attracted to white men. It does hurt when I go out to bars and I shoot a guy a smile and he eventually rejects me. It just hurts knowing you have so much love and admiration to give and it is dismissed because my parents were born two shades darker. I really hope to find someone who isn't as closedmineded or worried about what their familiy will say about a faithful woman who happens to be brown. It is all about the approach, and I've got that eloquently down pat. But sticks and stones my ass! It will always hurt when someone dismisses you to no resolve.

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Posted on Tue, Nov 24, 2009 01:15

I dont date women with tattoos... what does that make me? A snob (or snub if your Oxford inclined)? LOL

Seriously, most men on here are looking for intelligence, kindness, style, grace, charm, beauty etc. and if you're not offering those things then you'll get far far fewer responses than those who are.



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Posted on Sun, Nov 22, 2009 21:59

Quoting Die_Capitalist:

I'd venture to say that it's because every man on here is wealthy. In order to be wealthy in a capitalist system, you have to be fundamentally willing (or, excited) to participate in a system that inherently spreads white supremacy and patriarchy. It's not a case by case issue, it's a system that has engendered these ideas within the minds of males across the board. It's evident from small instances like this, to the war in Afghanistan. Where capital goes, so goes what you describe.



That is such an archaic way of viewing the question of White men and Black women in today's society. Comparing interracial relationships between a man and a woman to the war in Afghanistan archaistic that it's on the ridiculous side of the truth. Is white supremacy or patriarchy the reason why you selected the nic that you chose to use on the site? Do you feel superior to the rest of us?



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Posted on Sat, Nov 21, 2009 21:37

First of all, the word is "snub" not "snob;" something one would expect an Oxford Grad to know. Second, you ask if they think they are rich. Well, this site is under the auspices of MillionaireMatch. It does not matter if they think they are rich or not. They could join one site under that company and show up on another. So, yes they could think they are rich. Third, if you did not think you might possibly meet some rich guy why then are you here? Are you rich and hoping to meet up with some White toy boy? I don't think so. Are you asking the question because you responded to some White men's profiles and they ignored you? Perhaps it might have been your approach and not your race. Why does it have to be about race? If it is about race and you did not approach someone think of this, some White men are hesitant to approach Black women for fear of being rejected. I know this because I have had them tell me so. They had no fear with me because of the way my profile is written. Just some food for thought there rather than imply that White men are "snobbing" (superior, etc.) you.



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Posted on Sat, Nov 07, 2009 21:27

I'd venture to say that it's because every man on here is wealthy. In order to be wealthy in a capitalist system, you have to be fundamentally willing (or, excited) to participate in a system that inherently spreads white supremacy and patriarchy. It's not a case by case issue, it's a system that has engendered these ideas within the minds of males across the board. It's evident from small instances like this, to the war in Afghanistan. Where capital goes, so goes what you describe.



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Posted on Wed, Nov 04, 2009 15:58

Quoting Natell:

Maybe their not snobbing(whatever that is)black women, they could just not be interested in you. I mean men are visual creatures and you have no photo on your profile, also maybe your conversation skills might not be as well as you think. I have never had a problem with any men on here especially white actually white men are all i get responses from.



Hey, as long as white guys are cool with playing in the dark, I don't mind playing in the snow...and I've dated many a snowman in my day! LOL ...To each his own. I haven't had any problems out here, thus far. If I click on a man's profile that doesn't include "black" as his ethnicity preference, I click the "back" button and move on. You can't fault someone on what/whom they're physically attracted to. They have their reasons. So, when you see a profile of a man that chooses not to date a black woman, sobeit, grow a thicker skin and move on...it's his loss.

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Posted on Sat, Oct 31, 2009 08:56

i read your comment,then looked at your profile.u r just a hypocrite wanting attention.im a white man,very sucessful,no issues,i date many ethnic women with no problem.men want a woman they r compatible with not just anyone.women need to understand more about what men want ,not just what race.just because a white man dont want a black woman doesnt mean its cos shes black,it might b weight,attitude,kids etc.any black women who read this get in touch if u r someone who fits my match.this is my kind act for today.



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