Funny.......Where is Harry??? I think you need to respond to theses folks Harry, oh or did you get the woman of your dreams???? At least make a comment..
DanDaring write: Hey BlueEYZ, i sure wasn't slamming you, your one of the boyz, was more aimed at HarryS, think it unlikely a guy could be so charitable, but i stand to be corrected if the offer has no strings attached. Geeez I'm getting cynical, think you can catch things off the forum?
Thanks Dan, thought I read you right. Use anticeptic when responding on the forums and that cynicism will disappear like magic! Looks like you've got a great attitude and will have little problem finding a worthy partner!
Hey BlueEYZ, i sure wasn't slamming
you, your one of the boyz, was more aimed at HarryS, think it unlikely a guy could be so charitable, but i stand to be corrected if the offer has no strings attached.
Geeez I'm getting cynical, think you can catch things off the forum?
BlueEyz2006 write: Kudos to Harry, kind of. This was a really fun forum to read through. I think that Harry, intentionally or not, did a great job at touching an exposed nerve regarding this site. Some people really are only here for the extramarital (albeit during the throes of a divorce) diversions while others are looking for targets (ostensibly like Harry) and finally, the small minority is truly looking for a match. Harry's "offer" has incited several responses about how people feel about "paying for it" and what you get in return if all you offer is money. This was really interesting but most interesting is the use of "support" to mean financial only. Harry, no judgment, but this could be why you're getting divorced. Most women need a lot more than money to support (and I'm not talking about cars, houses or allowances).
Excellent point, Blue. In my entire life, I have never met or been with a man who sincerely supported me, particularly in my work. (I'm a fine artist, illustrator, writer and author). Now, there are four fields there that a man could get "into" for my sake, but most men just treat me as though I'm a "hobby" painter and writer.
Another kind of support that many people want and need is just for somebody to be on their side when they come home from a hard day! I've known more than my fair share of devil's advocates who, when you tell them how lousy your day has been, reply, "well, maybe they were just having a bad day or you simply over-react!"
Everyone I know comes to me with their rants and kvetches, because I respond with a heart-felt, "They're out of their minds! Don't they see your way is better? What's the matter with the boneheads?? Let's go out and eat until we barf!"
Money is nice, but it's an empty asset. Love, support and caring have to come WITH the money. If you can't find someone who has a heart, then all the money in the world will still make you as lonely as King Midas.
unsnaggedeagle write: So Blue what are you saying????? lmao
I'm saying lots of things here but primarily that paying for a service to meet people isn't a bad thing if you are true to yourself and don't expect to find a sugar daddy (or momma) and if you are looking for that, they're likely to be as exciting and cuddly as a trust fund. Money gives us opportunities but it's how we use them that's important. If a guy thinks all he needs to provide a woman is cash, he's likely to get very little in the way of love as a return on his investment. -- Dan, is the lack of a crutch a compliment? Hope so.
Touche! Right on! But it doesn't just apply to women, it applies to men too. Both genders need more than monetary and material support...emotional needs to be there too.
But if Harry is married...it's unlikely he will ever give emotional support to anyone.
I'm not sure Dan was slamming me but I love your lead in photo - you must get a lot of curious hits. Glad to hear you've got a brain too, women who assume all men care about are boobs, legs and butts learn quickly that the men who do aren't worth having.
unsnaggedeagle write: So Blue what are you saying????? lmao
I'm saying lots of things here but primarily that paying for a service to meet people isn't a bad thing if you are true to yourself and don't expect to find a sugar daddy (or momma) and if you are looking for that, they're likely to be as exciting and cuddly as a trust fund. Money gives us opportunities but it's how we use them that's important. If a guy thinks all he needs to provide a woman is cash, he's likely to get very little in the way of love as a return on his investment. -- Dan, is the lack of a crutch a compliment? Hope so.
BlueEyz2006 write: Kudos to Harry, kind of. This was a really fun forum to read through. I think that Harry, intentionally or not, did a great job at touching an exposed nerve regarding this site. Some people really are only here for the extramarital (albeit during the throes of a divorce) diversions while others are looking for targets (ostensibly like Harry) and finally, the small minority is truly looking for a match. Harry's "offer" has incited several responses about how people feel about "paying for it" and what you get in return if all you offer is money. This was really interesting but most interesting is the use of "support" to mean financial only. Harry, no judgment, but this could be why you're getting divorced. Most women need a lot more than money to support (and I'm not talking about cars, houses or allowances).
Kudos to Harry, kind of. This was a really fun forum to read through. I think that Harry, intentionally or not, did a great job at touching an exposed nerve regarding this site. Some people really are only here for the extramarital (albeit during the throes of a divorce) diversions while others are looking for targets (ostensibly like Harry) and finally, the small minority is truly looking for a match. Harry's "offer" has incited several responses about how people feel about "paying for it" and what you get in return if all you offer is money. This was really interesting but most interesting is the use of "support" to mean financial only. Harry, no judgment, but this could be why you're getting divorced. Most women need a lot more than money to support (and I'm not talking about cars, houses or allowances).
well I have just joined today and i must say the forums make for a very interesting read..What comments i shall make with regard to this guy is at least he says it has it is.. Goodluck if this fulfills your needs
HarryS2001 write: I am looking to completely support one lady in every aspect of her life.Wether it be a car, house, allowance,whatever she wishes.If you would like to contact me, wink me or chat to me.I would love to hear from you
Well Harry how come you have not posted since you started all this, where did you go???
glamourman write: Hi everyone. I really admire the man who wrote the original post. He'll give away anything the girl wants. Wow, that's hot :) That's also very unrealistic. Come on man. Please don't tell me women are so naive. If so, we're doomed.
Ladies. I'm not opposing supporting someone. On the contrary, I'd enjoy doing just that. But there has to be reality in all that. A car, a house? What about a private jet????
Don't be naive. If a man has money (I do) he doesn't need to flash it in order to meet an intelligent and beautiful woman.
Good luck.
Actually I think if you read his profile you will find that he is a married man and looking for a woman to accept that into their relationship...but hey at least he is honest.
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