I think bobsthename got it all wrong. I never said that I don't date white men and have given up. I do still date white men and I don't have a problem attracting men of any ethnicity, creed, nationality because I have dated many men of different ethnicities, but the truth in the matter is that THE US is a country where people are afraid to cross many "racial" lines. If you think this is not so, please get a clue because people have their biases and let stereotypes dictate them more often than not. I know I am an attractive woman and have lots of potential and am doing well for myself, I'm not bitter nor have I given up, I'm just stating mere facts.
I was married twice, once to a Latina and once to a black woman. It isn't easy. Cultural and (in the case of the Latina) language differences make communication difficult in subtle ways. Nevertheless, I still find I am drawn to women of color, just a bit hesitant to go through the same difficulties again. I might do so anyway...
I believe this is part of American culture to stereotype (which is sad) and like the one girl said (I forgot her name), they are afraid of what their friends, family, and society may say, so many of them will sleep with you or date you but anything beyond that.....it's pretty disappointing because I am attracted to caucasian men.
I don't care about the color, that's ridiculous to assume all millionaires don't want black women. We want gorgeous women inside and out. Most of a woman's beauty is how she carries herself and how she takes care of herself. It's that simple. I don't want someone with a layer of blubber around them, that's not attractive to me. I don't want someone skinny either. I do want an hour glass shape and a pretty face.
I have to say that the last 3 women I dated were either black or hispanic. Not that I do not also like white women but it seems that lately women of color seem more interested in us white guys and also tend not to be stuck up. God bless women of ALL colors! ;)
I am really happy with the responses here and would hope for more feedback because I am very curious as to what is going on. I have heard that some men prefer women that they have a bit more control of and I guess many of us (NOT ALL)are too "strong" but for me if I had a man that was able to handle things and take care of me and business then I could step down and not have to always be in control or strong. I would love to have the chance to be submissive but I have not found a man that is strong enough yet so I hope he is out ther and finds me soon
I think a lot of men like black women but still you have peer pressure here in the USA fromd dating outside your race,I think many men want to and see balck women they want to date but are like waht will my friends say I say Love for yourself and get out of the bubble,,,
I am sure many men if they were more confident would date a black female..
and not care thats what my best friend is to me a beautiful black barbie...
Ok I have dated a handsome black man did you know some of my friends had problems gave me hell for it ! How could you? quite easy I am attracted to him,It was mutual attraction we met at Sallys beuty supply he was bald and had white lined on and nice sandals was classy, I asked if he needed help I didn't even work there next thing we had a date LOl
I wasted no time girls..
Not everyone was narrow minded this is what it is!
This man Colin Abrams was in the olympics won a bronze biclying for the US team he was on won it, he was the first black captain for DHL airlines
So I did date me a tall dark handsome gentleman ..He was a sweetie and when we would go out I had men rudely say look at her and I would get remarks I would want to say things Colin hushed me and said this is the ignorance.
he was of peace I cried one night at how ugly racism is ..I saw it when I dated him first hand..
My son is part Brazilian, venezeulan, and peruvian daddy is a hot head south american.
In barbados my son goes to school with children of many colors mixed tons of them..his best friend is black ..
In the caribbean we see children that are mixed many so Bootiful.....I just am amazed green eyes honey skin and even dark beauties , MISS UNIVERSE from TRINADAD Wendy Fitzgerald was a dark black woman not honey skinned but BEAUTIFUL features...amazing I met her on the plane in business class I was like WOW..The attendants asked me If I was a beauty contestant to I was like Oh please as I sit next to Wendy who was Gorgeous.
I said get some glasses would ya...wink
So MEN LOOK AT THESE BEAUTIES>>>AND take a chance..The heart, soul doesn't see color and benfactor I am impressed...You are ahead of the game you set your own rules...
Dianna Ross married a billionairea nd in her 40's ahd kids with him he was from Norway he was in the Bahamas and had to have a island beauty.he didn;t even know she was famous just a pretty exotic beauty he thought and so on and on.
Living in Barbados I see tons of European men loving island beauties...