HOW ARE WHITE MEN DIFFERENT FROM BLACK MEN IN GENERAL Interracial Relationship Forward to friends

  • View author's info Posted on Sep 18, 2009 at 08:14 AM

    That is so not true! I think you women have just been dealing with the wrong black men! I am I black man that caters to a womens every need esspecially in the bedroom! I enjoy making sure my partner is fully satisfied and I expect the same from her. But its my job to get her there! C
  • View author's info Posted on Aug 16, 2009 at 10:27 AM

    I just wonder why a black man,who was married to a white woman only date white women, any ideas?
  • View author's info Posted on Aug 02, 2009 at 12:57 PM

    In my experience, black me have been threw so much. Many times raised by single mothers, only male role models in some cases are other males they meet on the streets or have grown up with. So I found that they tend to put up a facade. They want to make sure that they are not being played, and you could really be a sincere person. Because you sense this you tend not to be yourself either. With a white man he's ok sharing his feelings (hey I missed you been thinking about you all day)there's know hang ups exspecting for the worse before he even gets to know you. As far as the sex well we all know that white men are far from orally challenged, and again black men hold back because of that facade. I enjoy being with a white man because he loves learning from my culture, my energy, my natural ability to change my look and still be beautiful inside and out.

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  • View author's info Posted on Jul 10, 2009 at 09:53 PM

    I love the stats (lol). I think the whole idea of the best lovers blacks-vs-whites can be a subject that will go on forever. I personally feel the size does not necessarily matter, it is the work that is put in! Anyway, when you truly are "feeling" an individual, if his privates were pencil thin, you would look passed it and fine some sort of enjoyment nonetheless!
  • View author's info Posted on Jun 09, 2009 at 07:19 PM

    Very true!! I've dated a few Black men & I will never make that mistake again! Too much lying & disrespecting women! They are not being raised properly. There is bad & good in every race but seriously something is very wrong with Black Men. It's like they are "wired" to impose an epidemic of cruelty towards ALL women. My friends say it's because of all the disadvantages Black Men face in society. I say whatever, excuses, excuses. When you know better, you do better!
  • View author's info Posted on May 21, 2009 at 07:38 AM

    I believe that because of my personal background (having been left by my black biological father and have a less than father like black step father) I find myself personally looking to stray away from black men. I understand that I cannot use the previous actions of the black men in my life to make judgement on the whole but it a realistic thing happening. But on white men on the whole I believe as a younger black women I feel like and am treated like an exotic treasure when I have dated a white man. I enjoy the fact that they accept the body curves that are natural to a black women. And the previous bloggers are correct size doesnt matter but time does and they seem to spend it where it counts.

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  • View author's info Posted on Apr 24, 2009 at 04:43 PM

    I think there really is no difference in pant size or shoe size. I think white men tend to be more chilvarous because it is bred into them and black men tend to want you to work a little harder for them to be chilvarous. either way.'s really what you are into. I love a guy who is into me sexually and mentally black or white ...but honestly throughout my life I can count on one hand the black men that have attempted to date me and call me "high mantenence" I have been with white guyz who think I am suppose to be the ultimate fantasy. I have yet to meet a man who can accept the fantasy and reality part of me.
  • View author's info Posted on Mar 28, 2009 at 01:35 PM

    You are one smart man! It's not about what's going on It's about how vulnerable to scrutiny you are. I'm white, he's black and he cannot handle any PDA in fear of outsiders reaction. He fears the relationship. It hurts. I hate the limitations.
  • View author's info Posted on Feb 14, 2009 at 04:19 PM

    Quoting Nysweetie25:

    I find a black man to be better in bed. A white man just has a different rhythm and feeling at first. What I find that makes it better are white men are more willing to learn how your body reacts to him . Meanwhile black men are a bit more cocky and hard headed, they think their way is most of the time right,lol.

    what? that is crazy what do u mean white men want to learn how our body reacts to him what are we robots or sex toys? there is no such thing maybe it is u that is uncomfortable with a white man i think there all the same some can some cant that goes for white and black.
  • View author's info Posted on Feb 12, 2009 at 04:33 PM

    I find a black man to be better in bed. A white man just has a different rhythm and feeling at first. What I find that makes it better are white men are more willing to learn how your body reacts to him . Meanwhile black men are a bit more cocky and hard headed, they think their way is most of the time right,lol.

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  • View author's info Posted on Feb 10, 2009 at 06:46 PM

    There is no difference everyguy has it in his mind how they are going to treat the lady and its just more white men that are thoughtful and charming than black men they tend to be quite selfish and size yeh rite there are white guys that can rip u a new one and there are some black guys that u think they have a third pinky and some of them when they are big they dont know what to do with it or cant keep it up paleeeze

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  • View author's info Posted on Nov 24, 2007 at 07:42 PM

    the most disappointing experience i had with and oversized (penis speaking) man was that he did not know how to work it, remember it's not the size of the ship but the motion of the ocean. get it right.
  • View author's info Posted on Nov 18, 2007 at 01:51 PM

    Althought I have dated many diffrent races,I do not beleive that the diffrency is a sexaual nature, atleast for me it's not, the biggest diffrent between many men is they lack experience and are sexually or mentally,challenge, sex starts before foreplay, plus what are you brng to the table in this area. one question can you please yourself in thhis area and others.???
  • View author's info Posted on Nov 10, 2007 at 12:22 PM

    Hmmmm...I know why the clan was so jealous of the black men during the the civil war. lol And still the white men are still jealous.
    Personality, enthusiasm ,dances well humus,Athletically incl inced, very talented.
  • View author's info Posted on Jul 16, 2007 at 11:48 AM

    mzchiquita write:

    I know plenty but it would depend on ur definition of small. 0-6 inches is small, 7-11 is average, anything higher is my opinion. Thickness of the shaft is also a factor. Pencils versus markers.

    Anyways, I got bored and thought I'd speak my piece.


    What tribe have you dated in the passed... lol

    average encompasses all races... including the ones who have less than an inch wich #^$$% up the curve.. but the average african/american is not 5.8... i have 5 brothers and we do not fall into that 5.8 category... trust me, there is a huge difference
  • View author's info Posted on Oct 02, 2006 at 06:01 AM

    You know I am convinced that we conform to whomever we are dealing with. In some cases a black man may not want to be as intimate with a white woman because he doesn't want to get too close. However, if he is not concerned with ethnic scrutiny he will exhibit the passion as he sees fit.

    White women and Black women are out for the same things EVERYTHING! So its a matter of deciding who is worth your ALL!

    As far as size, I think the 5.5 is like avg. Has anyone ever realized that too big is a distraction too. You laugh but think in breast size terms. C's are nice, D's are big, & DD F's etc.. are gaudy (though fun to look at).

    I fully support race mixing because its a self-defeating concept. Enough ppl do it and its a race of its own. So enjoy who you enjoy!!
  • View author's info Posted on Sep 13, 2006 at 02:23 PM

    funny reading....
    now to kill a few myths..

    average penis size is 5.8 inches..which represents 88% of all men.
    blacks tend to be slightly longer when flaccid but same when erect.. go figure.

    As for those who prefer larger, well your limited to about 2.3% of the male populations.. and if you want to discount for gay/bi males (HIV) then you odds are less than 1.25% of all males.

    As for the topic.. Well that really comes down to an individuals preferences and experiences..
  • View author's info Posted on Jul 01, 2006 at 01:47 PM

    Hi! Let me jump in here and say "It's an individual thing!" Its what goes on between the two people and the Race has nothing to do with it BUT us black women are sure getting to like you white brothers!
  • View author's info Posted on Jun 29, 2006 at 03:31 PM

    I'm new to the "White Experience" and am finding that white men are my favorite. I have found them to be more affectionate and attentive in various arenas. ; )
  • View author's info Posted on Jun 01, 2006 at 07:22 PM

    LOL @ this topic. I don't know how I am different from white men personally, because there is no stereotypical white man walking this Earth.

    The day someone comes up with a *uniform* model for how white men are, will be the day I can tell you how different I am from them.
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