You are one smart man! It's not about what's going on sexually...black/white. It's about how vulnerable to scrutiny you are. I'm white, he's black and he cannot handle any PDA in fear of outsiders reaction. He fears the relationship. It hurts. I hate the limitations.

I find a black man to be better in bed. A white man just has a different rhythm and feeling at first. What I find that makes it better are white men are more willing to learn how your body reacts to him . Meanwhile black men are a bit more cocky and hard headed, they think their way is most of the time right,lol.

the most disappointing experience i had with and oversized (penis speaking) man was that he did not know how to work it, remember it's not the size of the ship but the motion of the ocean. get it right.

Althought I have dated many diffrent races,I do not beleive that the diffrency is a sexaual nature, atleast for me it's not, the biggest diffrent between many men is they lack experience and are sexually or mentally,challenge, sex starts before foreplay, plus what are you brng to the table in this area. one question can you please yourself in thhis area and others.???

HOW Are BLACK DIFFERENT FROM WHITE ?
Hmmmm...I know why the clan was so jealous of the black men during the the civil war. lol And still the white men are still jealous.
Personality, enthusiasm ,dances well humus,Athletically incl inced, very talented.

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What tribe have you dated in the passed... lol

average encompasses all races... including the ones who have less than an inch wich #^$$% up the curve.. but the average african/american is not 5.8... i have 5 brothers and we do not fall into that 5.8 category... trust me, there is a huge difference

You know I am convinced that we conform to whomever we are dealing with. In some cases a black man may not want to be as intimate with a white woman because he doesn't want to get too close. However, if he is not concerned with ethnic scrutiny he will exhibit the passion as he sees fit.

White women and Black women are out for the same things EVERYTHING! So its a matter of deciding who is worth your ALL!

As far as size, I think the 5.5 is like avg. Has anyone ever realized that too big is a distraction too. You laugh but think in breast size terms. C's are nice, D's are big, & DD F's etc.. are gaudy (though fun to look at).

I fully support race mixing because its a self-defeating concept. Enough ppl do it and its a race of its own. So enjoy who you enjoy!!

funny reading....
now to kill a few myths..

average penis size is 5.8 inches..which represents 88% of all men.
blacks tend to be slightly longer when flaccid but same when erect.. go figure.

As for those who prefer larger, well your limited to about 2.3% of the male populations.. and if you want to discount for gay/bi males (HIV) then you odds are less than 1.25% of all males.

As for the topic.. Well that really comes down to an individuals preferences and experiences..

Hi! Let me jump in here and say "It's an individual thing!" Its what goes on between the two people and the Race has nothing to do with it BUT us black women are sure getting to like you white brothers!

I'm new to the "White Experience" and am finding that white men are my favorite. I have found them to be more affectionate and attentive in various arenas. ; )

LOL @ this topic. I don't know how I am different from white men personally, because there is no stereotypical white man walking this Earth.

The day someone comes up with a *uniform* model for how white men are, will be the day I can tell you how different I am from them.

I don't know..

DE DE you poor misguided soul. Please refrain from making absolute statements. No matter how many men you know or have encountered you will never be truly qualified to speak in absolute terms about a particular race of men.

Your statements almost made me have an identity crisis. My mirror says that I'm not a white man, your description says I'm not a black man, so I must be lesbian, huh? lol

Secret don't let them fool you. your problem may be geographic, maybe after graduation you should move north and try some city boys. lol

To all who share this perception I ask you two questions: #1 Where would you be if your Mother had shared your view? #2 Is this what you will teach your sons about their identity?

Altruisticman I have dated a few black men who were very intentive sensual and romantic and it is not fair to generalize I have dated some white men who were into themselves...It is not true that all Black men are endowed as it that all white men are small either..
One of my ex's in Black and he was romantic and sensual....and classy...
People are people not to be judged by skin color it's what is in ones heart,,,and I never judge a book by it's cover good and bad exists in all forms from fat to skinny to beautiful to ugly and from white to black and in between....


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I don't know if I agree with you. I haven't been w/all blk men or white men, but I really do think what men will and will not do depends on the individual man and the type of relationship (ie. long term or one nighter lol).

I do know for me personally it depends on how well connected I feel, how secure I feel w/the other person. Passing out all the party favors at once is never a good idea. ;-)

omg,you are so right artis....blind world out there...

I know plenty but it would depend on ur definition of small. 0-6 inches is small, 7-11 is average, anything higher is big...in my opinion. Thickness of the shaft is also a factor. Pencils versus markers.

Anyways, I got bored and thought I'd speak my piece.

DE DE you poor misguided soul. Please refrain from making absolute statements. No matter how many men you know or have encountered you will never be truly qualified to speak in absolute terms about a particular race of men.

Your statements almost made me have an identity crisis. My mirror says that I'm not a white man, your description says I'm not a black man, so I must be lesbian, huh? lol

Secret don't let them fool you. your problem may be geographic, maybe after graduation you should move north and try some city boys. lol

To all who share this perception I ask you two questions: #1 Where would you be if your Mother had shared your view? #2 Is this what you will teach your sons about their identity?

You really shouldnt be worrying about what is in a mans trousers.....its all so tacky....instead pls concentrate on what he has to offer you in terms of love....commitment and etc......i think that when you concentrate more on the neither regions you are more likely to run into problems.......al men come in all sizes.....just like women....and i bet that you wouldnt like ur bits tralked about the way you are doing just now about men.....take it easy....have some decorum....concentrate on ur finding the right mate for you darl.