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Posted on Mon, Dec 28, 2009 17:35

Hello

Hands Down, Where's the pen? Always read the fine print, be permitted to add a few pointer(s) and once signed, begin that fab life together!



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Posted on Sun, Dec 27, 2009 18:00

This is so true, whatsupdoc. But in the end they get the lawyers involved and everything else gets muddled and lost in the fray. I don't see that prenujps are necesary but if it makes my lover feel more comfortable then I would sign it.

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Posted on Sat, Dec 26, 2009 19:25

Yes! its only smart



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Posted on Thu, Dec 24, 2009 19:47

I wholeheartedly disagree with the notion that signing a prenuptial agreement as a necessity... When I get married I plan on it being with him for the rest of my life.

However if my partner desires a prenup to quell any reservations that may be felt regarding my intentions then I would sign it.



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Posted on Thu, Dec 24, 2009 19:42

I have no objections to a prenup on assets acquired prior to our relationship.

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Posted on Sun, Dec 13, 2009 05:11

if i got married i wouldnt ask for them to sign one but i would sign one if they asked me to. im not a gold digger so why would i fear signing one?? i wouldnt. il marry for love eventually not for money.



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Posted on Wed, Dec 09, 2009 21:29

Anyone not willing to sign a prenuptial agreement has ulterior motives. Period!



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Posted on Thu, Sep 03, 2009 11:21

I personally want a pre-nup lol¿ But Im successful and retired at 48 whats the big deal about it.¿ You either love for money or love for love.¿ I choose love and keep the money out of the deal.¿ : )

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Posted on Mon, Aug 24, 2009 21:54

Seems cold, but it does protect both parties. It would not cover gains / losses during marriage so make it fair to both. i would not consider a lady unless she was accomplished also.



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Posted on Sat, Aug 08, 2009 02:22

Yes, b/c I have assets I have worked for & the ability to earn income... I have seen how it works in court & it comes to the money baby...For a female that is self motivated, saavy & well heeled...Heck ya I want a pre nup!



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Posted on Sun, Aug 02, 2009 23:42

I would sign a prenuptual agreement no questions asked.
It's the best thing you can do for eachother then move
on to what really matters - your life together.

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Posted on Sun, Aug 02, 2009 07:02

Most definitely. I have had too much taken from me, in the past, and would never want to take something from a man who has worked very hard for what he has. I think his children would deserve it.

Just my opinion.

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Posted on Thu, Jul 23, 2009 14:12

Of course. But then I wouldn't manage my partner's personal funds and grow them exponentially.



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Posted on Tue, Jun 23, 2009 22:23

Hello, sandiegom2000.

So since you agreed that prenuptial agreement is necessary to protect both parties, than there are no worries!

Why is the trust issue stopping you to find some one to marry now? Get married and sign a prenup.



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Posted on Sat, Jun 20, 2009 13:13

I can appreciate everyone's comments on here however if I ever did get married it wouldn't be for anyone's money so if they asked me sign a prenup I wouldn't even batt an eye lid, it really wouldn't bother me!!!

I know ypu're meant to love nad trust someone completely when you marry them and someone asking you to sign a prenup may offend some however I believe that with the way things are nowdays and current divorce statistics it's not showing a lack of trust when asking to sign a prenup it's merely a formality.

If someones worked hard for their money I don't think they should be at risk of losing that for whatever reason, and because I'd like to believe that if i ever get married it would be forever i also belive that the prenup signed means nothing to me at all, I'm in it for love and persuing dreams of having a family and not the money!!



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Posted on Wed, May 20, 2009 00:42

I would prefer one. It is categorically no one's business to come in and take half of what I've accumulated without them (and naturally vice versa).



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Posted on Tue, Apr 28, 2009 12:04

When I was born, I was butt naked and poor. When I die I'll probably be almost naked (in one of those hospital gowns) and money won't mean much to me then .. Love is something that cannot be bought. Yes you can rent some pretend love and kid yourself, but the real thing has nothing to do with money. If I was madly in love with a man, I would sign anything. And if someone looked at me and said I don't love you, I would give them their space and walk away, not expecting anything. All relationships get tested and challenged, simply because all of us have some personal growth to do.



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Posted on Tue, Apr 28, 2009 02:00

I absolutely will. I would not proceeed w/ a wedding without one. It protects current and future assets, AND debts. It also puts in place expectations of how things will proceed should the marraige fail. It's not a pleasant thought, but the reality is marraiges don't always work... for various reasons. I would want to know that I am financially protected. It doesn't mean I don't trust my partner, it's just good common sense.



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Posted on Sun, Jan 11, 2009 18:02

Quoting tarheelman316:

If you think you need a prenup, you shouldn't get married in the first place.



i agree!



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Posted on Sun, Sep 14, 2008 20:31

My belief is that if a couple is older, and both have assets, then the view is not if the marriage should work out, at this stage the more likely would be that one would die before the other, a prenup would prevent the children of the living partner trying to usurp the deceased legal heirs from their inheritance.

However, a younger couple who would be having children together should be building their children's inheritance jointly.



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