is it ok to marry a man who is 36 years older than a girl? Long Term Relationship

  • View author's info posted on Nov 24, 2007 20:53


    OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOnly if you really love him.there is a gentelman in my life that 20 yrs older than i'am and it mean nothing to me. i would marry him in a heart beat if he knew I cared that much.
  • View author's info posted on Oct 04, 2007 07:55


    absolute_angel write:
    Angel_Kleo write:
    So, what you think about it?

    Re:




    I'm in love with somebody who is 35 years old than me. If you asked me "Could I fall in love with someone 35 years older than me" before, I'd say NO, but now I know love has no boundaries...My advice, if you're in love, make all possible to keep it., if you don't love him, don't waste your time..Trust me time goes so fast..So try to find that special someone and enjoy your life...

    Re:





    Yeh, I bet it's because he has a shit load of money he's willing to leave behind for you, you vulture.
  • View author's info posted on Sep 02, 2007 14:39


    Dressage1 write:
    I think it's up to the parties involved. I wouldn't do it, remember you're going to have to sleep with him. If love's not involved, it's just prostitution.

    Re:





    If that's the case...
    then perhaps on that note we shouldn't prosecute the 21 year old men who bed and genuinely love some 14-16 year old girls?

    Why, if it was fine 100 years ago... why not today, eh?

    Personally, I find no problem with it.
    Though I believe what you said it's the heart and soul of this website:

    Shameless prostitution for one's gain through a relationship.

    Am I wrong? :-(
  • View author's info posted on Aug 12, 2007 05:39


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  • View author's info posted on Jul 05, 2007 16:28


    Sure...if your name is Anna Nicole...lol
  • View author's info Photo Verified Certified Millionaire in 2015 posted on May 28, 2007 18:08


    In a hundred years will it really matter?
  • View author's info posted on May 26, 2007 23:03


    36 + 24 =...uh, 60.

    Hmmmm, that's a big age difference.
  • View author's info posted on Apr 14, 2007 08:07


    Angel_Kleo write:
    So, what you think about it?

    Re:




    Sounds to me like you're trying to find the easy way out of life.
  • View author's info posted on Apr 09, 2007 14:07


    Age is just a number!
  • View author's info posted on May 04, 2006 23:44


    Hi,
    Thanks for this topic. I would not marry anyone I dont love 100%. If you are able to fall in love with an older man, then go ahead. However, people will still think you married him to gain economically. I would recommend you to live with an older for 2-3 years as if you are married to him to see if that relationship really works for both of you.
  • View author's info posted on Jan 01, 2006 13:19


    I understand why men want a younger gals....and thats fine to a certain level. But I think there comes a threshold point of "respectability" among colleagues, peers, and friends.

    When it goes a bit far.....(age gap gets wider)....people are judgmental, society is judgmental.

    Just have to wish you the best of luck and hope that you dont lose respect from everyone in general (your peers, colleagues, friends and family). Because unless you (young lady) are some sort of prodigy who can stand on your own feet, I hope you can handle the "whispers" in the room and out of the room when you two are out and about.
  • View author's info posted on Dec 29, 2005 17:56


    I think it's ok to be with a man who is older than you are. I like older men. ;))
  • View author's info posted on Dec 29, 2005 05:00


    Angel_Kleo write:
    So, what you think about it?


    Angel_Kleo,

    Follow your heart, I had an aunt 15 years older than her husband, I have another aunt 9 years older than her husband, I have uncles who are 10 to 14 years older than their wives...there is no barrier but what the heart perceives as one. Don't just dream, do the dream then you will know its full richness in true experience, you are on a quest to find true love and true love will only materialize the day you take action to find out its true meaning. Only the true raw experience of life will offer the meaning your heart and soul longs for; otherwise it will stay just an imagination and a dream and perhaps one of the greatest opportunity missed.

    BQ
  • View author's info posted on Dec 23, 2005 08:33


    Angel_Kleo write:
    So, what you think about it?


    What is the age difference between this man and your father/mother? From the theory standpoint, I don't think there is anything wrong at all with an age gap, but I think the practicality of the relationship would be odd...

    My mother was 24 years older than me and my father was 30 years older, that seems like a lot of time for a gap in a romantic relationship.

    But if you and your partner both gain from the relationship what you want, then go for it. Consideration for a long term relationship should be given for where your relationship interaction will be in 5 years, 10 years and 20 years. If you get a satisfactory answer from that, then go for it! Of course, that is just my perspective, since I am looking for a long term partner. If the goal of the couple was perhaps a 6 month fling or a 5 year time period, then a large age gap would not be such a consideration.

    One time during a discussion with a former lover, she had made a few comments to which I rhetorically asked "so in other words, you will hang around as long as they amuse you?"... As the years have passed since then, I ponder how true that seems to be. Should you expect to find your soulmate everytime or do relationships come with a season???

    The important part is that you find someone with whom you share values of life, intellectual plateaus, and physical interactions. In a relationship, look for commication, negotiation, and compromise... from both parties involved regardless of age.

    AK: You are a very good looking woman. There are not many words in your profile on which to review intellectual or emotional natures. 36 years is a big age difference. You at 18, would put him at 54, and the average man only lives 70-75 years. You are still coming to the physical peek time of your life, and male body parts do start to wear with age... If you are shopping, you might want to consider something with a little longer warranty period.
  • View author's info posted on Dec 23, 2005 04:47


    larrye2001 write:
    To: niceguylooking,........
    What I posted about 50/50 is a famous play on words like "Who's on First" introduced by the same 2 people!..

    In the future I'll place a "LOL" for you.
    .
    LOL: Two men went fishing,their boat was anchored under a bridge, A funeral passed over the bridge and one man put his pole down,stood up and placed his hand over his heart.
    .
    After it passed his friend commented on his friends respect by standing up. His friend said it was the least he could do, she was a good wife these last 30 years. LOL.......

    LOL Men: every time a man makes a mistake it is because he did not follow his ladies instructions.LOL........

    LOL At the Rose Bowl a speaker asked the men to form 2 groups on the field, on the left only Hen Pecked men and on the right everyone else.When the dust settled only one man was on the right. Talking to the lone man who was in the Not Hen Pecked section the speaker asked "Why are you the only one here, The man said "I don't know, my wife told me to stand here" LOL........

    niceguylooking your comment was crude, don't be so quick to judge what you do not understand, as a nice guy you can do better.



    Larry, Your right, there is something I'm missing. Please help me to understand. Its way above me, I guess.
  • View author's info posted on Dec 20, 2005 21:01


    To: niceguylooking,........
    What I posted about 50/50 is a famous play on words like "Who's on First" introduced by the same 2 people!..

    In the future I'll place a "LOL" for you.
    .
    LOL: Two men went fishing,their boat was anchored under a bridge, A funeral passed over the bridge and one man put his pole down,stood up and placed his hand over his heart.
    .
    After it passed his friend commented on his friends respect by standing up. His friend said it was the least he could do, she was a good wife these last 30 years. LOL.......

    LOL Men: every time a man makes a mistake it is because he did not follow his ladies instructions.LOL........

    LOL At the Rose Bowl a speaker asked the men to form 2 groups on the field, on the left only Hen Pecked men and on the right everyone else.When the dust settled only one man was on the right. Talking to the lone man who was in the Not Hen Pecked section the speaker asked "Why are you the only one here, The man said "I don't know, my wife told me to stand here" LOL........

    niceguylooking your comment was crude, don't be so quick to judge what you do not understand, as a nice guy you can do better.
  • View author's info posted on Dec 19, 2005 21:34


    Does this work :
    Everything is community property, meaning everything you both own is 50% yours and 50% his. So when he gets something he give you your 50% ,since everything is 50%/50% when you receive yours, you give back 50%.
  • View author's info posted on Dec 19, 2005 16:50


    Angel_Kleo write:
    So, what you think about it?


    A man that would even think about that is way to scarey !

    Run, Girl Run !
  • View author's info posted on Dec 19, 2005 10:46


    GEm, thanks a lot for your advice, i visited your profile and you look AMAZIBGLy!!! really!!!!
    wish you good luck and happiness!!!!
    Sveta
  • View author's info posted on Dec 19, 2005 10:43


    the problem is (or maybe not a problem) that i EXTREMELY LOVE this MAn, and He EXTREMELy LOVES me...
    yes i want to make a great career, he is only agree and ready to help.
    with this peson i feel VERY HAPPY , and ABSOLUTELY don't feel any age difference
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