I have had the best relationships when involved w/a white man, but dont limit myself to who I can date. I try to stay open minded but must admit that white men really appreciate a beautiful black woman especially if she is natural and not trying to mimic another race. Black men too me have know standards and will be w/a woman 8 to 80 blind crippled, and crazy if she will take care of him and give great head. White men want a woman that they can take anywhere @ anytime and she will be able to mesh.
I like white men as well as other types of men, i think where u r located and what is socially acceptable where u live is also a HUGE factor on whether u find a white man. I think it's all about what's inside, but i do have a problem with white men thinkig that all black women are ghetto, and have no training. FALSE!!! or that we r all freaks and we are willing to try any and everything.
lol Some of the comments I think are a bit harsh. If she like white men SO WHAT! I like them as well. I dont really like black men and I have my reason. I dont date them AT ALL. but calling her names and making assumptions about her past relationships is just wrong. We all bleed the same blood so color should not matter. She has a preference what is wrong with that. Would anyone want to be called nasty names because they prefer muscular men over FAT men? Or Curvy men over skinny? NO so we should not say nasty things because she prefers white men to black its just a prefernce.
I would say you are a traitor to yourself I bet you sound white u look unnatural and a bubble head If i were a white guy i would only want to screw u and take you out somewhere cheap presentation is everything u make us look bad I have only dated white men and can carry myself and a conversation.
I am not one to bite my tongue, but I have to tell you, you look a hot mess. I bet white guys just f*** you, and never call you again. If you love white men so much...have any of them you have dated ask to marry you? Probably not, you know he can creep with you, but not marry you. You know daddy will cut off his trust fund or inheritance if he marries a black woman.
Is this folish woman with the dated pics for real? looks like any man who dated this head case isint "doing it white" or "right" lol iiiim just kiding...sort of?
I dont really di to deep on this...to me its simple...we all have our preferances..some like em big some like them small some lke the green some like them mother of pearl...your attracted to what your attracted to and thats ok by me! WHO CARES? hint: not moi!
You should date whomever makes you happy.
Often people who seem to stick strickly to their own race do so to please others, have no clue that people are people regardless of race, and they truly fear what other people think which in a way is going back to pleasing others.
It's Obvious to me that some non-'white' women prefer 'white' men because of the factors stated earlier in this blog and I also agree that location is a huge factor (i.e.: South vs North East)as also stated. In CA, where I used to be in a band in my early 20's I was the only white guy in the band and typically surrounded by AA women. I found them very passionate as I am and willing to be open and honest with themselves, more than most non AA women.
Again I agree, Love is blind, I don't care what color my partner is. If she is attractive, warm, caring, passionate, etc... I'll make her mine forever under the right circumstances.
The 'right' woman should have no color distinction. If she makes me happy - THAT'S what matters.
(Oh - Built like the perverbial Brick House doesn't hurt either and that is another attribute many AA women have)
There is nothing wrong with knowing what you are looking for in a man. There is nothing wrong with dating white men if that is what you like. I talk from personal experience having been married to a white man for 27 years and have dated mostly white men. I will agree with many who have commented love knows no race. When you find true love it will not be determined by the race of the man but the feelings you both have for each other. Don't limit your possibilities to find love by the color of a man's skin because you might miss the love of your life. Now I need to take my own advice.
Men seem different depending on location. For instance, dating a white male in NYC was relaxed and stress free. Here in the south, it's difficult to date a white male that can handle the public scrutiny.
When dating white men, it feels temporary. I have not been able to, so far, view that as something serious. When dating a black male, it feels more secure and real to me.
I do applaud anyone that stands up for what they believe. Good luck.
I prefer to date white men, and with only two exceptions (and those two were Hispanic, which is still pretty close), everyone I've dated HAS been white. That doesn't mean that ALL a guy has to be is white to have a chance with me. I still wouldn't be interested in him if he was fat, ugly, old enough to be my daddy, dumb, or as someone else said, broke with no chance or motivation for improvement. Just that it's a semi-prerequisite, because I really don't feel any attraction towards men from any of the races I didn't mention. And it has nothing to do with thinking they're not "good enough" or anything, and is more like how a gay man doesn't find other women attractive in "that way." Sometimes you just like what you like, and nothing anyone else says or even your own conscious desire to do so can change that.
I was reading about love and color at 19 i was already dating my future husaband who was white and i said i would never married outside my race it is funny about love it creep up on you before you know it. I don't see any thing wrong with as long as it is for you to many people base there life on just looking for the color of a person face love comes in all color not just the one you search for searching to find it do not make it real letting it find you is so much better rather it is any color or age for that matter.