I think loneliness affects us all, this is particularly true the older one gets, kids grew up and move away, parents die, and suddenly you've become a loner. the conversation that was overheard was a wonderful tribute to her late and obviously great husband , very touching, those feeling will never be lost, but in truth , how many of us want to live the rest of our lives alone feeding of those memories, i think not many.
This subject is very very , close to my heart. My new sweetheart went thro' watching her dear husband die slowly from a very nasty cancer over many years, she had a very happy marriage, but feels she cant stay in a box for the rest of her days, she,s a vivacious, fun loving, sweet natured girl, full of life and vitality.
She has done her grieving. i said to her, you have lived one life, its like a good book. Close it now , put it on the shelf of memories, and start a new good book, hopefully to be filled with love and fond memories, true friendship, respect and decency. With tenderness and caring from both of us, we hope this will evolve
I'm not afraid of being alone ( I have a good alarm system in my house lol I love to joke)
Yes, I have loved before and it will not carry with me for the rest of my life-because I'm not in love with them anymore!!
I care about them-meaning that I wish them the best in their journey, regardless of what ever obstacles happened>> I am looking for companionship for the reasons that I want to start fresh and share quality time with that to be significant other, I move on and I personally think that the past forever will be.
I am the love of my life.
Yes, I am very afraid of being alone. I have been loved by a wonderful man that I had met after a very painful and hurtful marriage...He loved me as no other before or since, we were engaged to be married only after 10 months and he died of a heartattack...
So, once again, I am alone, afraid, that I will never find another to love me as he...I am ready for love, I have such a big heart, I want to loved and be loved....I am your classic Cinderella Story, I don't have a lot of worldly goods, all I have is myself, my heart, and my soul.
I love faithfully and forever. I love life and doing all kinds of things, I can only hope that my heart does not get played with.