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Posted on Sat, Nov 26, 2005 18:49

Maayan---

I read your profile/poetry and in my humble opinion it should be required reading for anyone with a heartbeat. You really do touch the heart.

You express yourself magnificantly, a rare gift. You have obviously had to deal with a situation that would break many people or cause bitterness.

Your spirit is motivational, thank you for opening up emotionally, again the gift you have is rare and courageous. May you be blessed

  


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Posted on Sat, Nov 26, 2005 16:58

Great advice, Blondey, I couldn't agree more. I can only speak for myself, but I don't think there were any disingenious guys on this thread looking for a quick roll in the hay.

We are not a flock of 18 year olds looking to score at spring break. There are plenty of other websites and/or clubs that cater to such mentality. I think that we all post pictures and comments we are comfortable with. If a remark or a picture is misinterpeted, one has the right to "put it out there", as BD did.

Since you mentioned it, as earlier stated on the thread BD's smile is just as remarkable as everything else about her. It's all part of her undeniable beauty which was pointed out. During my brief time on here, I've learned that great smiles and beautiful, sensual, desirable women are a staple on this website---just look in the mirror.

Plus, this is FUN! And if it can be fun and reassuring to a person who has misgivings about certain things, all the better I say.

And we do agree on one other point (at least) as well, I don't beleive that sleeping with someone should be part of an initial meeting, ever. For example, I can't tell you how much I enjoy brushing a woman's hair. To me, that is such an intimate act. Cuddling, talking caressing.....it's ROMANCE and it is VERY difficult to find. ANYONE can have sex and it is not difficult to find.

So please don't confuse my compliments or in other cases good natured teasing with being "on the prowl". You are somewhat of a tease yourself (with class, of course!) and I honestly think you do it adorably----plus you are funny, which never hurts.

But I digress, by BD's comments, I think she understands where I am coming from. If I, or any of the other guys on this thread made her blush a bit and/or feel better about herself, I ask, where is the harm?

Now, did you get my plane tickets ;-).

  


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Posted on Fri, Nov 25, 2005 10:37

babydolly write:
Thanks Dave for the beautiful comment. I've never gotten a greating like that before. ( BLUSHING ) I don't want to sound like i'm feeling sorry about my experience but I had to put my comment out there to see if there were real men out here. :-) Thank "Slowmotion" for your comment :-) I want that bundle of joy one day.

be very picky, do not settle for nice words or promises that sound to good to be true, and if they like you, test them some, meet them and don't have sex, you will know what they are after. always settle for what you want, look, style, height, personality, if they are full of abuse, or insecure, RUN GURL, there are freaks out there to who love to play with your heart..so, be very careful and just smile and have fun with this, how about a picx with a big smile, im sure you look even more beautiful...these guys are sweet to say these things...

  


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Posted on Wed, Nov 23, 2005 21:46

Trust me, babydolly, the words came easily. You really are incredible.

Sweetest smile, if you don't mind a guy older than you (no kids, never married BTW) and would like to chat please give me a holler.

And tonight, when your sweet head hits the pillow, take a minute to remind yourself what a glorious person you are

  


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Posted on Tue, Nov 22, 2005 20:14

Thanks Dave for the beautiful comment. I've never gotten a greating like that before. ( BLUSHING ) I don't want to sound like i'm feeling sorry about my experience but I had to put my comment out there to see if there were real men out here. :-) Thank "Slowmotion" for your comment :-) I want that bundle of joy one day.



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Posted on Tue, Nov 22, 2005 17:07

baby doll if i was ten years younger,a buddist and hadn't raised a family yet. you would have to have a base ball bat to beat me away.but now i'm working for my golden years. girl youre fine don't worry.



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Posted on Tue, Nov 22, 2005 02:51

Hey Hi
Where were you when I was In Florida...Damn Just missed you, Now we gonna End with this Long Distance Thing, Ok Ok will Fly, Cant Do Boats takes to long...and I cant swim....lol!1 Really...Been Driving too long. Well I think youre Adorable, And very Much Loveable, You need a little Romance In your Life, Could I romance you Form Here, you did say you
d want to get to know someone before you even decides to meet them did you not?..lol!! I agree so come get me!!
Regards N Laters
Guss
xXXXx

  


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Posted on Mon, Nov 21, 2005 19:28

Hi babydolly,

Other men on the site have apparently fallen on their head causing irreparable brain damage and corresponding blindness!------

You have every attributes of THE PERFECT WOMAN, a wonderful mind, a beautiful soul (I can tell) vulnerable but strong, and breathtaking in your appearance. I would be sooo very proud to be with you anytime, anyplace anywhere.------

Perhaps one reason your luck on here has been less than perfect is that many men may be intimidated by your boundless beauty! I assure you I would not be intimidated by your outer nor inner beauty. Quite the contrary, I would lose myself in your emotional, intellectual and physical charms.------

Again, just speculating but some guys may have conflicting viewpoints about your Religion, let me be assured that is not the case with me.

Connecticut and Florida are not exactly neighboring states but somehow in my heart of hearts, I KNOW true Love will conquer all if we find we are truly meant for each other I am definitely marriage minded. Serious.... very serious.

ONE CAN be sensual and serious, it's part of the process---you dearest angel----if other people don't understand that, their loss. Don't change a thing.

I can't begin to express how beautiful and desirable you are. I'd love to chat with you (I am prety new here and not a paid member, yet---so if you would touch base with your contact information we could take it from there. You are a true PRINCESS my dear, and some unbelievably fortunate man (right now I'm hoping for yours' truly) will win your SweetHeart before you know it.

And just FYI, I have dated African American and mixed race women before and absolutely cherished (just about anyway:)) every moment.

I hope to hear from you, it could be the start of something beautiful.

Have a fantastic evening,

Dave XOXO
My name on the site is "DaveForYou" ;)

  
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Posted on Fri, Nov 18, 2005 15:31

You are beautiful , sexy and sensuous, what a woman should be..I disagree on changing anything about your look or picture..A confident man will have no problem being in your presence, you will be a true asset to him.



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Posted on Tue, Nov 15, 2005 01:46

It is not only the case that from my unique situation in space and time I am able to see things you do not: it is also, and simultaneously, the case that from the vantage of your uniqueness you can see things that I cannot.
I would love to date you and not only that, if we would end up being right for each other I would make you the happiest woman on the face of the earth.

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Posted on Mon, Nov 14, 2005 23:49

what do u mean by empower u? i thought we where to stand beside one another equal



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Posted on Mon, Nov 14, 2005 14:42

Thank you for the comments. I've been dating for a long time. I guess I'm just frustrated at working so hard for a date and only end up with them not really wanting anything serious with me. Not sure if it's because I don't put out to them or not. I'm very nice and I give a lot. But, I do date a lot of white guys and find they do comment a lot that they have not dating a black girl before. That should have been my warning. I feel at this point. It would be a miracle to find a guy just for me. Someone that will empower me and compliment me in everyway.

  


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Posted on Sun, Nov 13, 2005 16:06

just don't let anyone use you, be yourself and color should not even be brought up, and if it keeps being brought up, then that should be a warning sign of some kind...



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Posted on Sat, Nov 12, 2005 23:43

I second webproplusdotcom's comment. You are gorgeous.



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Posted on Fri, Nov 11, 2005 23:20

This is just friendly advice. I think you're beautiful, but if you are truly serious, then your pictures should be. They look very sexual and that's what you're going to attract. Good luck to you Queen.



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Posted on Wed, Nov 09, 2005 11:40

Yes, actually I am. Was of course frustrated with a date I had on the system and changed my add as a result. Not serious about the add for a while because most guys tend to not be serious anyway. I guess out of frustration I changed it but, I have exhaled and will change it again in hopes of meeting someone serious.. really serious.



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Posted on Mon, Oct 24, 2005 16:35

babydolly write:
Are there any guys ont he system that are actually looking for African American women? I seem to keep running into guys who have never dated a black girl before, or who claims to have and just looking for that first time. There is a lot more to African American women than just trying to experience them.
Are there any guys ont he system that are actually looking for African American women? I seem to keep running into guys who have never dated a black girl before, or who claims to have and just looking for that first time. There is a lot more to African American women than just trying to experience them.


yes there is ... but in your case ... you are not looking for anything serious ... so nobody looking for a serious relationship will approach you.



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Posted on Tue, Oct 11, 2005 17:58

I can only answer for myself here. I'm looking for the right woman for me ! If she happens to be African American so be it.Race means nothing to me. I'm sure there are lots of other men here who feel the same way as I do. I can only suggest be patient.



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