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Posted on Sun, Oct 09, 2005 20:29


PerfectSpoiler4u write:
A GUYS RESPONSE!!!! I don't understand why some women can get so down on attractive people, or at least people who go out of their way to be attractive. Of course, I like attractive women. But, I want to be an attractive man, as well. I want to look good for my partner. I go to the gym often, and not just to be seen there. I sweat, and hurt, and do all sorts of things to look better and live longer. I eat healthy food because I will be better for it, but also because my healthy lifestyle will shine through. I go to the right hair stylists, manicurists, and dress well. I try to look my best and think it is great if someone thinks me handsome. BUT,I DO WORK AT IT. And, I have a strong attraction to women who do the same things. Attractive people are health people. And, they are often attractive because they put the time and effort into being healthy. And, with few exceptions, anybody can improve their health, and look better and therefor more attractive. Sure, there is a sterotype of the dumb beautiful blonde, after the millionaire, but let me tell you,it takes way more than lots of money to catch and keep a "trophy babe". And there are plenty of those "trophy babes" headed off to the monthly Mensa meetings, or geetting up early, because there is a board meeting, and they are the chairman oooops "Chairperson").


I think that some times this stereo type applies to the wealthy man who chooses to cheat and cash his wife in for a younger model...like first wives syndrome. I have never married so I don't have a platform to speak from, however, I have seen it happen and it is earth shattering for the woman and the man is energized by it....This is something I don't understand,and probally never will. As a matter of fact I don't even want to try. It's a creepy place...I don't like creepy places.



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Posted on Sun, Oct 09, 2005 20:19


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This is exactly why anybody, not just a millionaire, wants a barbie doll. It's because of the stereotype America puts on what women should look like.

If a man looked like Shrek, it would be okay only if he had millions. But a woman can't. We have to look a certain way, talk a certain, walk a certain way and act a certain way--in order to fit into the mole of what a woman is supposed be.

I don't believe that it's all about looks because everyone has physical flaws, and certain defects that can be deemed unattractive. What I think people should look for in a mate, would be the ability to be open minded. They should be able to take constructive criticism and accept change when it's necessary.

The barbie doll is only a barbie doll because those type females either can't get fat or has decided to fit into the mole society has set for us. Once people truly accept that women come in all shapes and sizes then they'll be alright. Women are beautiful--period. Men love all types of women--who said they all had to be barbie dolls. Who's to say all men love sticks and bones?


"Holy currumba people, I will say it if no one else has the guts to...We are ALL going to be older, thinner, heavier, less hair, more hair, teeth go south among other things...it's reality..."POP" oh? Was that the bubble bursting? When it comes down to it you better hope to god at the end of the day you have some true love. That's how people end up alone and unhappy."



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Posted on Thu, Sep 29, 2005 20:04


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weelassy1: is my pic. that mad?(this question is not intended for no one else)I know you will give me an honest opinion and I know you won't be brutal.



I know MissD I'm not Weelassy...she must be just missing this thread for a bit and will stumble upon it soon enough!
I remember taking a picture of myself once...it was hilarious! When we do that holding our arms out, and chin up, we get a very distorted picture of ourselves. I think that's what you have here...it's not really showing a true picture of what you look like. But it still reveals you have nice eyes, and you are cute. As for the lip color...I like a natural look...you've got it. I've always felt make-up is used to enhance one's features, not paint them on. Go girl! :-)



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Posted on Thu, Sep 29, 2005 19:03


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This is a horrible picture. Why would you put a pic like this on the site?

ginga u have to be kidding-- that was not only mean but made no sense sister since u simply have a cartoon of u with a pms headache- show your self then perhaps u can comment geesh

  


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Posted on Thu, Sep 29, 2005 19:02


ginga write:
This is a horrible picture. Why would you put a pic like this on the site?

ginga u have to be kidding-- that was not only mean but made no sense sister since u simply have a cartoon of u with a pms headache- show yourself then perhaps u can comment geesh



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Posted on Sat, Sep 17, 2005 07:53

Missdelightfull:

A word about several women's unsolicited remarks to you....

The nasty and hurtful comments made by these individuals are an unfortunate part of their personalities and probably contribute to their poor overall perception by others.

If a man can allow a woman's physical appearance to excuse this type of conduct, he needs psychological help to cope with his own lack of self esteem.

You're due a very sincere apology, for their completely outrageous conduct.

Best wishes,

Gerry



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Posted on Sat, Sep 17, 2005 07:00

In response to Miss Delightfuls question and responses:

I have been disappointed on this site at "most" of the men's responses and expectations. Yes, I paid my money and I intend to search until my time is up.

But, regarding the topic, I think that the men here, because most of them have status, certainly do expect a VERY attractive woman outside and inside. They, of course, are attracted to the outside initially and I hope that they, as they gain experience, as usually we women do as well, will search sooner the soul of the person they were attracted to initially by appearance.

I think money DOES have something to do with outward appearance as we age. Yes, we can WALK in our neighborhood (if it is favorable for safe walking) and we can "scrub up" and wear clothing which accents the positive "points" of our body if we are not Millionaires or doing well financially. However, those who do have the money are able to join health clubs, have someone cut and/or color their hair, do a wax job, pedicures, manicures, and even a tummy tuck or double chin removal not to mention 100's of other initiatives to enhance the mature body.

Yes, I probably shouldn't have joined this site but it's an amusement in a way as probably many find email dating. I have dated gentlemen (some not) from a couple of Christian sites. They are more interested in bettering their relationship with God and how my soul has developed through the "thick and thin" (She says jesting!!) of life than what I look like.

Yes I'm some overweight and don't work out often at my very costly health club. I love steak and chocolate pie and I CAN COOK! Yes, I want to live as long as I can and am always working at itbut am not obsessive/compusive over it and my body shows it. (There's a teacher who's in her late 30's at my school who is obsessive/compulsive about it though and to me walks quite manly though she has long hair and wears sexy looking clothing. I could introduce you to her! She's quite into the outward beauty thing. She gave up her children to her husband so she would have time for her life and to find a husband! LOL!) By the way used to be skinny and an athlete, even a cheerleader, but life has happened. Oh, let's face it, Joyce, you just got tired of exercising!! Well, we who are not skinny or who were not born with the best physical qualities our parents had but maybe inherited the ears that stick out, the broad hips, the tendency to double chins, a mole here or there, and have scars inside and out from what life has given us probably have the disadvantage here and particularly at a mature age.

But, I do think though we may not be the beauty contest winners or rich and have the money to buy the expensive products and services that you more affluent people can afford, we certainly can take care of ourselves and make the best we can out of our bodies.

I, for selfish reasons, do, however, wish men could be more soul seekers. I have found on most sites that they initially even say they need someone attractive if not beautiful and sensual and "together". They brag on themselves saying they are "hot" or extremely attractive or, this is a funny one, "looking for someone who has respect for herself enough that she's attractive inside and out". Respect my eye! They just want a "looker".

Oh well, such is life! If we are not "lookers", we really shouldn't be on this site in particular and probably not on any site where the emphasis isn't spiritual. Being active in our community, extracurricular activities(clubs, recreation, church) and work. (I teach and there are NO men except for gay guys!No luck here! I met my husband when I was secretary so take note girls!) A therapist friend told me to join "guy" activities like skeet shooting, golf. Well, it all takes money, doesn't it? Finding the right mate is a real quandry.

I don't resent anyone who is handsome looking for gorgeous! I do wish there were ways to meet safely in person sooner though. Wish for social gatherings rather than just showing a photo and trying to be "real" or "cute" or "sensual" or "super attractive" in a profile. As one guy said something like he watched women as they interacted at a party. I am very social and love to help others laugh and am attracted to the same so do wish there was a way for the guys on here and other sites to see what I'm "really" like.

Well good luck to everyone. Hope I haven't stepped on too many toes but at the "almost" age of 60, I'm very open and honest which is probably a hindrance to finding another husband.

To "Miss Delightful", I imagine your photo was made in jest just to see how people would respond. I think it's maybe better to do something fun like you do than to go to an expensive photographer and not even look like you really do and not show your personality. You're probably a really "fun" woman and were trying to show that side. Men on this site may not care about that "side". Try the Christian sites or maybe a site where money isn't the topic.

God bless you all!

  


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Posted on Mon, Sep 12, 2005 23:19


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A GUYS RESPONSE!!!! I don't understand why some women can get so down on attractive people, or at least people who go out of their way to be attractive. Of course, I like attractive women. But, I want to be an attractive man, as well. I want to look good for my partner. I go to the gym often, and not just to be seen there. I sweat, and hurt, and do all sorts of things to look better and live longer. I eat healthy food because I will be better for it, but also because my healthy lifestyle will shine through. I go to the right hair stylists, manicurists, and dress well. I try to look my best and think it is great if someone thinks me handsome. BUT,I DO WORK AT IT. And, I have a strong attraction to women who do the same things. Attractive people are health people. And, they are often attractive because they put the time and effort into being healthy. And, with few exceptions, anybody can improve their health, and look better and therefor more attractive. Sure, there is a sterotype of the dumb beautiful blonde, after the millionaire, but let me tell you,it takes way more than lots of money to catch and keep a "trophy babe". And there are plenty of those "trophy babes" headed off to the monthly Mensa meetings, or geetting up early, because there is a board meeting, and they are the chairman oooops "Chairperson").



quite right ..beauty is skin deep and we sure have pretty thin skin..
It is not difficult to look good..but keeping a regimented program to continue to do so requires lots of will power and determination..and those who do also perform well at other things they do , be it jobs or relationships..it is the effort that matters..



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Posted on Mon, Sep 12, 2005 22:53

A GUYS RESPONSE!!!! I don't understand why some women can get so down on attractive people, or at least people who go out of their way to be attractive. Of course, I like attractive women. But, I want to be an attractive man, as well. I want to look good for my partner. I go to the gym often, and not just to be seen there. I sweat, and hurt, and do all sorts of things to look better and live longer. I eat healthy food because I will be better for it, but also because my healthy lifestyle will shine through. I go to the right hair stylists, manicurists, and dress well. I try to look my best and think it is great if someone thinks me handsome. BUT,I DO WORK AT IT. And, I have a strong attraction to women who do the same things. Attractive people are health people. And, they are often attractive because they put the time and effort into being healthy. And, with few exceptions, anybody can improve their health, and look better and therefor more attractive. Sure, there is a sterotype of the dumb beautiful blonde, after the millionaire, but let me tell you,it takes way more than lots of money to catch and keep a "trophy babe". And there are plenty of those "trophy babes" headed off to the monthly Mensa meetings, or geetting up early, because there is a board meeting, and they are the chairman oooops "Chairperson").



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Posted on Thu, Sep 08, 2005 15:59

thegoodlife2005,

So funny :) ..... and so true. :(



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Posted on Wed, Sep 07, 2005 10:25

So where is the guys responses LOL?



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Posted on Wed, Sep 07, 2005 07:17

oh . . . and to prevent any cat fights . . . by the word "afford" I mean afford in the literal OR figurative sense. A woman might be perfectly beautiful, but if she's a pain in the asz, most men will decide they can't "afford" her, LOL . . .

dang, now I have to post this in 2 other places . . .



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Posted on Wed, Sep 07, 2005 05:25

There is no getting around it: Unless a man is blind and/or under the age of 18, he's a visual creature, and generally needs visual stimulation for sexual enjoyment(if he's under 18, a stiff wind will probably do).

Men everywhere - - - rich and poor - - - want the most beautiful, sexy woman they can afford, to maximize their sexual enjoyment for as long as it suits them. A poor man can only afford so much, but a rich man is like a kid with a trust fund (and no nanny to slap his hand) in a candy store. And blonde, brunette or redhead (he really doesn't care) he'll only chose women who look nubile enough to breed - - - whether or not he actually wants children. The more nubile, the better.

If you want to play this game well, you need to know the rules and make shrewd choices about which rules to follow and which ones to break. You can't break the "nubile" rule and win this game; you just can't, so whatever your age, do everything in your power to appear as nubile as possible; i.e., a good waist-to-hip ratio, a pretty face,
shiny hair (preferably long), and
great skin.

If you nail these things down, men won't care about your actual "age" so much. In fact, in the early stage of attraction they won't even care about your brains, your character, or anything that really matters in the long haul, because in the initial stage of attraction they don't care about the long haul.

It really is all about looks, no matter what they tell you. Your brains and good character are your ace-in-the-hole: what will keep him around AFTER he's gotten his hands on you.

good luck, ladies!



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Posted on Mon, Sep 05, 2005 20:53

JS thanks for the response. Its funny but true. You really made me laugh . . .

But the body repair is not always the option that Ken offers. If Ken don't replace the Barbie Doll for a younger one, he maintains offering the lifestyle to Barbie as long as he is allowed to do CHIC hunting. . .



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Posted on Sun, Sep 04, 2005 23:38

Thanks JS I needed a good laugh. So true!



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Posted on Tue, Aug 30, 2005 18:22

Asianbutterfly asked (What happens to that barbie doll when she grows old and start putting on weigth and when her beauty start wilting like flowers?)


Ken buys her plastic surgery and sends her off to Mexico for the work so he can sleep with Skipper until new and imporved barbie comes out of her new 'eating disorder' included box.


Ok sorry just had to add a little humor to the board.



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Posted on Fri, Aug 26, 2005 23:11

What is a barbie doll, really????? Growing up ...barbie was always Blonde!!!!

I don't think it is really barbie...but someone who actually cares about herself...inside and out! .....and expects the same in return... I am sorry ..It doesn't matter how much money one may have...you must obtain a certain charm...that comes from within....Sooooo, okay... you are successful...you have to love what you are looking at before you can look externally...and the open picture is horrible!!! I tried to find the beauty within...wasn't there....I don't look at this site as a joke,,but you obviously must?????



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Posted on Thu, Aug 25, 2005 20:04

That is a very interesting question.

What happens to that barbie doll when she grows old and start putting on weigth and when her beauty start wilting like flowers?Man will start looking. . .

Most of the women who knows that they are beautiful and looks like a barbie doll usually have an air inside their head. So she migth be just keeping the man for reasons other than love while the man keeps her as a show off trophy. But of course my opinion is not a sweeping generalization though I often observed it that way. If a person really looks for a true love, he or she not only have to see things with an open eye but also with an open heart wherein the visual perspective are magnified in all direction. Seeing someone with a big heart and can love you true with minimal condition can be more satisfying than having a barbie doll. Some millionaire are superficial while others are not . . . where are those that are not superficial?



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Posted on Wed, Aug 24, 2005 02:24

Whats amatter with a barbie doll.. hehe.. But in reality I agree, they do want the barbie doll looking girl. Sad to say but true. I think some men are extremely superficial on this site and then there are men that dont care. But lets face it here, there initially has to be physical attraction.

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Posted on Thu, Aug 18, 2005 12:59

This is exactly why anybody, not just a millionaire, wants a barbie doll. It's because of the stereotype America puts on what women should look like.

If a man looked like Shrek, it would be okay only if he had millions. But a woman can't. We have to look a certain way, talk a certain, walk a certain way and act a certain way--in order to fit into the mole of what a woman is supposed be.

I don't believe that it's all about looks because everyone has physical flaws, and certain defects that can be deemed unattractive. What I think people should look for in a mate, would be the ability to be open minded. They should be able to take constructive criticism and accept change when it's necessary.

The barbie doll is only a barbie doll because those type females either can't get fat or has decided to fit into the mole society has set for us. Once people truly accept that women come in all shapes and sizes then they'll be alright. Women are beautiful--period. Men love all types of women--who said they all had to be barbie dolls. Who's to say all men love sticks and bones?



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