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Posted on Thu, Jun 09, 2005 12:20

Z,,, well I married him because I was in Love, and very young, and not full of life's experiences yet. I wasnt taught the things that I taught my daughter to look out for, I was raised in a family of 9 children, My father a Cop. they didnt take the time to teach us anything about how to choose a mate, I had 6 older brothers, by the time they got to me and my sisters, they were exhausted, and too mean and hateful to each other to teach anything to anyone. My mother died when I was 16, But my point was that woman are different now. we have learned how to take care ou ourselves, we are able to teach that to out daughters, so they dont fall into the same traps that our age group fell into, and our mothers did as well.

Yes I married him, Love is Blind,,especially when you are 21, but I dont regret anything in my life, I have 2 fantastic kids, who have grown into very smart educated adults.Im not at all bitter about that man, or that marriage, i came out a much wiser woman, and for the first time in my life I really know what i want, and am able to wait for it..Im very patient.

So take that!!!!!

  


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Posted on Thu, Jun 09, 2005 10:06

butterfly, the guy was no good for nothing and you married him? WHY????

I am not picking on you, but that is the problem sometimes. You marry someone thinking; oh, they'll change, but they don't.

And I said "SOME" women, not ALL. And.. I included guys in the equation.

So take that!!!

  


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Posted on Thu, Jun 09, 2005 09:45

well..some women choose not to settle..in that they love different men for different reasons, they have a varying diet of tastes and flavors and they have not found all of what they are looking in one single package..so while that perfect package has not been found,, she thinks it is great to read all the books in the library..why stick to one good book when u could have an entire library to amuse , entertain and inform...
also Cupid might run out of arrows for some..or the moving target is hard to aim at..u need to be a real sharpshooter and Cupid is growing old , shooting arrows ain't trendy today ..
I could think of a million reasons why some women won't settle for second best or compromise especially when they have seen what marriage does not promise..



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Posted on Thu, Jun 09, 2005 09:18

Good looks are nice; accomplishments and intelligence are great; but what really matters the most over the long term and is necessary for real lasting love is character, honesty, ethics, morals, and 50 other "good human" qualities. As you get smarter about relationships, you realize this, and avoid people that do not have these "good human" qualities. This site has a typical representative mix of people and you just have to figure out what is most important to you at your maturity level.

However, just a little warning. Eventually, "good human" qualities with far outweight all other qualities, so you may be changing bed partners a lot until you realize this. It's one out of a million that has it all, so you have to decide what is most important and if you will live long enough to meet that one out of a million.

Now, would that one out of a million please step up and write me. lol

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Posted on Thu, Jun 09, 2005 07:40


Mandalay207 write:
Danny,


To me, it's not just the women but the men as well. There are many men on this site, in the same age range as you described but haven't found the right woman yet.

Settling down with someone in my eyes is just that, settling. Many people have certain criteria that are a "must." I know I certainly have them and I'm sure you do as well. Does it make us picky? Probably so, yes. I'd rather be extremely picky in a potential mate and have that person have the qualities I am looking for than someone who only has 75% of those qualities. The key is to communicate those must have qualities and keep an open mind. Some of the women you describe just may be someone you'd like to date once you find out more about them.

When you say, "they seem to have higher than average expectations for men.", I would disagree with that. I know I have very high expectations about someone's character and personality going into something. Physical attributes are just that, physical. Physical attraction only gets you so far, it's what's beneath that surface is what matters most to me. Show me intelligence, class, dignity, grace, humor and especially trust, the beauty of the individual shines even more brightly.

I completely agree w/everything Mandalay has written...well done my friend.



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Posted on Thu, Jun 09, 2005 06:40

Danny,


To me, it's not just the women but the men as well. There are many men on this site, in the same age range as you described but haven't found the right woman yet.

Settling down with someone in my eyes is just that, settling. Many people have certain criteria that are a "must." I know I certainly have them and I'm sure you do as well. Does it make us picky? Probably so, yes. I'd rather be extremely picky in a potential mate and have that person have the qualities I am looking for than someone who only has 75% of those qualities. The key is to communicate those must have qualities and keep an open mind. Some of the women you describe just may be someone you'd like to date once you find out more about them.

When you say, "they seem to have higher than average expectations for men.", I would disagree with that. I know I have very high expectations about someone's character and personality going into something. Physical attributes are just that, physical. Physical attraction only gets you so far, it's what's beneath that surface is what matters most to me. Show me intelligence, class, dignity, grace, humor and especially trust, the beauty of the individual shines even more brightly.



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Posted on Thu, Jun 09, 2005 06:12

Well I know you don't tolerate that type of thingy either butter girl..so let's just admit it, shall we.



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Posted on Thu, Jun 09, 2005 06:07


petiteone39 write:
Butter, Good for you..children don't need that. Now as far as the statement Z made:
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"Or, they see ooooone little thingy they don't like and throw it all away looking for the absolute perfect man."
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I will agree with that. I don't like little thingys..and will toss it all away if that isn't there.



HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHA.... yeah well,,that too!!!!!!!omg..lmao.....leave it to you.



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Posted on Thu, Jun 09, 2005 05:55


petiteone39 write:
Butter, Good for you..children don't need that. Now as far as the statement Z made:
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"Or, they see ooooone little thingy they don't like and throw it all away looking for the absolute perfect man."
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I will agree with that. I don't like little thingys..and will toss it all away if that isn't there.


LOL...Petite u r great!!!.....LOL



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Posted on Thu, Jun 09, 2005 05:54

Butter, Good for you..children don't need that. Now as far as the statement Z made:
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"Or, they see ooooone little thingy they don't like and throw it all away looking for the absolute perfect man."
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I will agree with that. I don't like little thingys..and will toss it all away if that isn't there.



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Posted on Thu, Jun 09, 2005 05:21

It's simple buddy. SOME, not all, toss men around like dishrags because they have an attitude problem. Or, some just think because they do look good, they can do whatever the he** they want.Or, they see ooooone little thing they don't like and throw it all away looking for the absolute perfect man. Show me a perfect person and I will show you an android. That's why they CAN'T find a man. Any man with any sense wouldn't waste his time with a person like that.

And before you women start ganging up on me, it's the same with SOME men as well.