Why are beautiful woman still single? Message Board

  • View author's info posted on Aug 17, 2009 14:47


    Many seem to have the same view -of faded beauty. What ever happen to the beauty within. I had it when I was 22 and still am true to others as I was then. I have a few more wrinkles and pounds but still as genuine as years before. I have made many wrong choices and selected and believed in the wrong men. I have waisted the majority of my youth on stupidity7 I belive there are so many beautiful woman who are still single because many lived in limbo, in a fairytale land that never was true. So Ive picked and gambled my life with the wrong men; Im open to finding the real one. Are men still looking for honest, faithful, sweet and good-looking women or are they now looking for illusions as I have seen so many.

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  • View author's info Photo Verified Certified Millionaire in 2009 posted on Jul 21, 2009 08:23


    beautiful women know they r beautiful n rely on their beauty alone.they dont need to develop humility or courtesy while they r young.when they hit 30+ n younger women come along they r still fine looking but not like when they were years ago.now they have fading looks n no personality,beauty becomes a curse.these women think they will always attract men.theres nothing worse than an aging beauty who thinks she is still beautiful for men who want more than just beauty.the pendelum turns quick.
  • View author's info posted on Jul 17, 2009 18:46


    Because men are afraid they won't be able to keep them. Someone else will steel her! Lack of confidence then from men? Sometimes men imagine that these gorgeous women are unapprochable and are afraid to receive a "no" for an answer.
  • View author's info posted on Jul 07, 2009 16:49


    your wrong you are gorgeous
  • View author's info posted on Jun 11, 2009 19:10


    From my experience, many men are intimidated by beautiful, smart and sexy women. Or, they are not intelligent enough to go after them. The day I joined up w this site and left match and SugarDaddy, I found myself beig pursued by an incredible 26 yr. old. Go figure. The men my age and up have too much baggage in their minds, they really do not know how to treat a woman without passing judgements all the time and being full of themselves and just wanting a hot woman to see if they can work better sexually. What a turnoff! Many are clueless, and how would they know. I say younger men for older women, like me. And for those of you men who decide to get pissy with my opinion, well, eat your heart out!
  • View author's info posted on Nov 07, 2008 05:59


    Quoting unsnaggedeagle:

    I agree with you! You have to look a little deeper into a person not look at what is just on the outside..



    Was it something I said???
  • View author's info posted on Nov 03, 2008 04:37


    I agree with you! You have to look a little deeper into a person not look at what is just on the outside..
  • View author's info posted on Jun 04, 2008 21:53


    I didn't read many of the other posts, so I'm not sure if I'll be repeating anything, but here's my input...

    There's more to a person than simply how they look. In my case, I work at a bar where I have a rule "no dating the customers" so everyone I meet at work is out. I went back to school four years ago after my divorce so everyone I have socialized with in the recent past have been on average ten years younger than me. I dated a few guys in their early 20's because they were who I hung around with. I am now looking for someone closer to my age that has the same goals as I do (relationship and financial wise), but I have no place to really meet these guys - so here I am on the internet.

    I am not particularly fond of dating. I don't see it as a sport or something to take up a Friday night. I have to already be pretty interested in someone to even agree to a date so that eliminates a lot of people.

    Am I more picky? I don't really know the answer to that. Probably in certain ways, but you're either attracted to someone or you're not. Looks matter as they set the first impression, but there are so many other qualities that will make me like or dislike someone that have nothing to do with whether they are hot, really good looking, good looking, or average. I've met guys that I thought were very attractive yet the most boring people I have ever met. I have met guys that I did not originally find attractive but came to the point where I found myself debating the dating scenario because I truly enjoyed them as people.

    If I wanted to just date, I don't think I would have a hard time filling my schedule, but I don't wish to waste my time simply fishing either. I enjoy going out with my friends and doing my own thing. I don't need a guy to fill in my time. Do I want one? Of course, why else would I be here, but I'm willing to sit back and wait. I don't see the need to rush into anything solely due to the fact I'm single.

    There are plenty of beautiful women still single, there are plenty of women that are beautiful in their own way still single, and there are plenty of women who are ugly on the inside that are still single. Looks don't signify the likelihood of someone being in a relationship.

    Yet, after saying all that, I do find myself wondering what could be wrong with a guy my age that hasn't been taken yet. lol I guess I'm just slightly hypocritical. But at least I can admit it. haha
  • View author's info posted on May 24, 2008 20:35


    Thanks for the spell check Mr. Wilson. As recently as last week I see your spelling needs work too, ie: Cat loving men (ACTUALLY not Actaully). Quick! go fix it.
    "Those who like to criticize get looked at more critically". How bout commenting on the subject instead of being so negative for the thread.
  • View author's info posted on May 21, 2008 02:56


    Quoting txchick1971:

    I would like to say that the reason for beautiful single women being single is the same reason why attractive men in the same age category are still single. They both are looking for the wrong thing and refuse to look outside the box. I have a friend that is beautiful and never short a date. But the men she chooses are bad boy losers with tons of baggage. She always thinks they will change for her. Never does that happen and after 6 months or so of dating, she's left heart broken. I on the other hand have chosen to not be co-dependent and will wait for the right one I guess. Not by choice though, mostly because I'm just an average girl looking for true love. Casual dating is over-rated and very stressful. Is so much more fun to make friends and hang out before for moving in for the "kill". Guys & girls, if you sit back and evaluate the cycle that you are currently using and it's not working, change it. You'll be suprised. Just my opinion :o)



    It telegraphs your perspective when you use the term "kill" to characterize intimacy. It bothers me that so many women share your frame of mind. There's so much jealousy in this post it's hard to unpack. For the record I spend many months single. Moving in for the "kill" isn't all that important to me.
  • View author's info posted on May 21, 2008 02:45


    Quoting dannyspl:

    Ok Im open to all opinions. I want to know why ladies who are mainly 25 to 45 and are above average in the looks dept., are still single and can't seem to find a guy to settle down with. Many are looking here and other personals sites. From my dating experience they seem to have higher than average expectations for men. Men on the other hand, such as myself tend to avoid these women once they are figured out. I want to know from both sexes what you think these expectations are and why women dont want to except the character of guys that are attracted to them?



    it's "accept" not "except"
    figures
  • View author's info Photo Verified posted on May 08, 2008 06:16


    I would like to say that the reason for beautiful single women being single is the same reason why attractive men in the same age category are still single. They both are looking for the wrong thing and refuse to look outside the box. I have a friend that is beautiful and never short a date. But the men she chooses are bad boy losers with tons of baggage. She always thinks they will change for her. Never does that happen and after 6 months or so of dating, she's left heart broken. I on the other hand have chosen to not be co-dependent and will wait for the right one I guess. Not by choice though, mostly because I'm just an average girl looking for true love. Casual dating is over-rated and very stressful. Is so much more fun to make friends and hang out before for moving in for the "kill". Guys & girls, if you sit back and evaluate the cycle that you are currently using and it's not working, change it. You'll be suprised. Just my opinion :o)
  • View author's info posted on May 08, 2008 00:58


    All women have the possibility to be as smart as they choose. Thats not it at all. I think many women emasculate men to a point as to gain power over them in a relationship. I just met one who after a messy breakup and bitter about it has decided to get pregnant and raise a child without the help of a man. Donor of course. This is why I say many men have lost their balls in relationships.
  • View author's info Photo Verified Certified Millionaire in 2008 posted on Nov 30, 2007 13:05


    Mariana2OO5 write:
    Because we are smart?

    ;)

    haha, best answer yet...

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  • View author's info posted on Nov 30, 2007 06:56


    Mariana you look smart.... :)
  • View author's info posted on Nov 20, 2007 11:31


    Just my opinion here ...
    ( or possibly babbling .. lol )
    Many men see a Beautiful Woman and assume ( right or wrong ) that surely she must have a significant other and simply choose not to go beyond that point .. guilty of that myself .. lol.
    And I'd also like to add that any Man with manners is fully aware of the constant "hounding" that a Beautiful must constantly endure. Wolves are plentiful unfortunately. A Gentlemen will most likely give a smile and a quick Hello and leave it at that :)

    Happy Thanksgiving Everyone :)
  • View author's info posted on Oct 30, 2007 09:32


    when being beautifull...u always have honds dogs all over u, were ever u go...so ur options r always open....i agree with superstar.... there r alot of butt holes out there that dont know how to treat a lady....why is that ? why r alot of men just so forward and cant just try to get to know a gitl?
  • View author's info posted on Oct 20, 2007 06:50


    I agree but one thing is important that few have mentioned on here. That is how much women have changed in the last 40 years. They are more empowered and independent now than ever before. Men on the other hand have lost their balls in the relationship.
    I came across a book that will be out in hard cover within the year. His name Andey Randead and His ebook is reviewed at (email me for the site)
    Most of what he talks about relates to what he calls the ?modern women? or women in their teens, twenties and early thirties.

    All of his conclusions are based on facts he solicited from over 100 women in that age group. That combined with statistical information, which is available freely on the Internet regarding marriage, relationships and divorce.

    Andeys book is a perspective of the modern woman and her evolution the past 40 years. An amazing read for any man who lost his balls and smart women. Some questions answered include



    What do women really think about men and how do they strategize with each other to get what they want from them?

    Why are women cheating as much as men?

    Why have women become so selfish and feel so entitled?

    How have marriage laws become so grossly unfair to men?

    How has this led to many of the problems we now face in society?

    Why do women push for a commitment then become unhappy once they get one?

    Why do they lose interest in sex with you?

    Why can they be so hard to get along with?

    Why do they become attracted to someone else and start cheating?

    Why is it that the better you treat them the worse they treat you?

    Why do they blame everything on you, become resentful and angry?

    Why do they desperately seek marriage, but become unhappy in marriage?



    Why are men not willing to commit?

    Why can women seem to justify anything in their own minds?

    After reading this book one may understand why beautiful women are still single. Maybe some men dont want to be married because of this.
  • View author's info posted on Sep 25, 2007 21:51


    Maybe it's because that real beauty is mostly inside. Good looks alone is not worth anything except to Hollywood.
  • View author's info posted on Sep 17, 2007 10:20


    I can't say what one sees as beautiful...but...for my part, men often just 'assume' I am taken and simply do not come up and say hi, I have friends who have told me this. etc. (Yes, I have done the asking before...it would be nice for a change if a man did the asking). I don't know about other women, BUT...some of us simply are like some of the men in here...way too busy to have time to go out and date, etc...so...we try to find a worthwhile site that narrows the field to like minded people. Meeting someone on the internet sometimes is just less of a waste of time, I think.

    :)
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