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Posted on Fri, Feb 26, 2010 16:55

I don't know. I am looking for a hot looking guy, not a rich one, but I figure I'd try this site anyways. there are less good-looking guys than rich ones unfortunately....sigh.

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Posted on Sun, Feb 21, 2010 06:44

Quoting dannyspl:

Ok Im open to all opinions. I want to know why ladies who are mainly 25 to 45 and are above average in the looks dept., are still single and can't seem to find a guy to settle down with. Many are looking here and other personals sites. From my dating experience they seem to have higher than average expectations for men. Men on the other hand, such as myself tend to avoid these women once they are figured out. I want to know from both sexes what you think these expectations are and why women dont want to accept the character of guys that are attracted to them?



Maybe because she's not attracted to him. It has to work both ways, no? Why won't you accept the charater of women who are attractd to you? Surely there are some?

I am finding out that men tend to assume that if they are interested, and the women must be interested as well. Am I wrong here?



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Posted on Sun, Feb 21, 2010 06:41

Quoting MidnightBlueEyes:

You said they have a higher expectation ... I think they actually *have* expectations - that's the difference lol

As for me: I'd rather be single for the right reasons than be with someone for the wrong ones.



Amen to that!



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Posted on Sat, Feb 20, 2010 10:21

My male friends and I agree that the beauty of a woman may intimidate a man so he doesn't even take a chance on asking a beautiful woman out; which is a shame for both parties.

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Posted on Sat, Feb 13, 2010 07:40

That is the $1 million question that til this day has no one real answer! 

IMHO.. Some men do not appreciate what they have right in front of them until it's too late. It's the guys who reach their "ah ha" moment that hopefully stay to not only appreciate a woman's beauty on the outside, but her other inner qualities & substance that make her an incredibly special gem. Some people get it, others don't until it's too late.

 



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Posted on Wed, Feb 10, 2010 17:15

Beautiful women ... are secure in themselves to know what what they are seeking and are unwilling to settle.  We are just a little older and much wiser!

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Posted on Tue, Feb 02, 2010 16:56

From being a female of 24 in age..it's not that we can't find men..it's the kind of men we find. I am not saying every guy is horrible, but lets be honest most guys don't know how to treat a woman. They don't really know what they want. I think a lot of the issues come with communication. If you can't communicate how are you going to make the relationship work? Most guys seem to bottle up a lot of their emotions and don't know how to express themselves.



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Posted on Mon, Feb 01, 2010 21:16

You said they have a higher expectation ... I think they actually *have* expectations - that's the difference lol

As for me: I'd rather be single for the right reasons than be with someone for the wrong ones.



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Posted on Mon, Feb 01, 2010 13:48

The Matchmaker Man on The Today Show a few days ago stated to Kathly Lee that statistics show: 20% of all married men cheat on a regular basis, weekly (OMG)....60% of all men stray on business out of and in town several times during their marriage and 20% of the rest of what is left over are actually honest and committed.

With "statistics" like this, it is a wonder all of us women do not stay single and never marry...on the other hand why hasn't the statistical bar changed for all us women, if we cheated regularly, we wouldn't really ever give a crap then, would we. How would men feel if we cheated on them all the time?
LOL

Maybe if there were stiffer laws, men wouldn't cheat, there just insn't any punishment for them yet, unless of course we all take the "Lorena Bobbit" mode of fixing them!!!!! The middle east puts cheaters "only women" to death and praises the men, I think the US has the same situation....see "John Edwards, Bill Clinton, and several preachers, etc." Men are conquerers, not nesters, is what I heard from a 58 yr old man many times a few yrs back...he stated to me and my boyfriend at the time "Dan, all men cheat...none of us are nesters, only women are, don't you agree?! I heard that so many times I wanted to slap that doctor's face!

I, myself, am staying single to find the right one, if u just go with anyone, chances are they will cheat, if u find the right one, good chances r, he will never cheat! It does take two!



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Posted on Mon, Feb 01, 2010 09:03

Well, I couldn't possibly tell you why all beautiful women are single. Perhaps I could tell you why I am...

I've had a terrible time with relationships. A lot of the terror I could have avoided now that I reflect on my innocent ignorance. I used to believe that my love could heal all wounds, no matter how deep. Now in my maturity I see that the person must want to help themselves first. I accept that I am powerless to change someone. I want to be with a man who is happy and content with being himself. So far, I have not met that man. This is why I am single.



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Posted on Sun, Jan 31, 2010 22:17

good job. I like your post. :-)



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Posted on Sat, Jan 30, 2010 09:53

I can only speak for myself I have just came out of a six year relationship ...and I truely dont want to do what I have been doing and that is ...when I seen the signs of things going wrong ..instead of saying Im not gonna just settle for this ..I kept thinking things would change ...So Im single with a different outlook and that is finding what I know I deserve ...I want someone real :)

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Posted on Fri, Jan 29, 2010 14:40

I can only say that the beautiful women over 40 that are single today are smarter, savvy and have figured out (especially if previously married) what rocks their world and what does not. We have made choices based on experience and not so much interested in finding any partner to say we have one but rather open to the right partner that is cool to grow old with.
Every woman has their own version on how to respond to this, the reality is....its simple.



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Posted on Tue, Jan 26, 2010 20:40

I had a guy tell me once that I was too pretty to date- when I asked him to clarify what he meant- he told me that I was the girl that when I walked out of the room all eyes were on me.  He said he couldnt stand all the attention and that he'd always feel like he was competing with everyone in the room.  I was told he'd never be able to have a trusting relationship with someone like me.

I would like to think I am a catch- I have a great career, financially stable, educated, fun- but for some guys it can be intimidating I suppose.  A lot of guys want you to need them and are insecure when they realize you don't.

The rest I have found- expect me to be the dumb blonde and hit the door running when I open my mouth and something intelligent comes out.

but honestly- if I knew anything I probably wouldnt still be single myself!!!



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Posted on Mon, Jan 25, 2010 20:42

I don't know what your average expectation is but mine are high and I deliver. Personally, being on my own is preferable to being constantly annoyed. Maturity, at any age, goes a damn long way. Responsible, compassionate, kind - along with the sexy, hot and fun. I tend to find that good-looking men rely on their looks - great - have them.



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Posted on Wed, Jan 20, 2010 19:53

I have been on many other sites and have not found them very good. I did meet someone on eharmony and it lasted 4 years. Which the last year and a half was us tapeing off.My point i am getting to is i totally relate to Texassunshines view. I have lived my life in limbo with the wrong women for so long that i barely recognize myself. It is sad how some of us become on our road to prosperity. So much so, it has effcted my prosperity ontop of my personality. I am ready for the right one. Where are you

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Posted on Sun, Jan 17, 2010 16:39

Moral of the story:

This just goes to show that some beautiful women are not single

Don't go to a boat show thinking you can grab a beautiful gold digger from someone who is NOT wealthier than you...looks do not matter to some when money is the object...


A perfect example: One of the homeliest men in the world, Mick Jagger...nasty face and a teenage boys body. Yet with his fame and fortune he bagged many hotties.



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Posted on Sun, Jan 17, 2010 14:50

Assuming that they need to work more on themselves :)



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Posted on Sat, Jan 16, 2010 13:21

I am still alone because I do not believe in forcing attraction or forcing to make a relationship work just so I can say I am in a relationship. That is unhealthy and both people will end up unhappy in the end and it will end.

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Posted on Thu, Jan 14, 2010 22:00

This is a very good topic to explore...kudos for posting it!

IMO...It takes a very secure man to date a woman "above average in the looks dept". It is a gift to find a man that not only appreciates a beautiful woman but is not threatened by it. A woman beautiful on the outside loves it when a man takes the time to really get to know her inner beauty.

I feel it is best to have realistic expectations (i.e. similar to expectations you hold for yourself). A good rule to live by is treat others how you would like to be treated and expect of others only what you yourself have to offer. Above all be honest and be real.



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