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Posted on Fri, Jul 17, 2009 18:46

Because men are afraid they won't be able to keep them. Someone else will steel her! Lack of confidence then from men? Sometimes men imagine that these gorgeous women are unapprochable and are afraid to receive a "no" for an answer.



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Posted on Tue, Jul 07, 2009 16:49

your wrong you are gorgeous



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Posted on Thu, Jun 11, 2009 19:10

From my experience, many men are intimidated by beautiful, smart and sexy women. Or, they are not intelligent enough to go after them. The day I joined up w this site and left match and SugarDaddy, I found myself beig pursued by an incredible 26 yr. old. Go figure. The men my age and up have too much baggage in their minds, they really do not know how to treat a woman without passing judgements all the time and being full of themselves and just wanting a hot woman to see if they can work better sexually. What a turnoff! Many are clueless, and how would they know. I say younger men for older women, like me. And for those of you men who decide to get pissy with my opinion, well, eat your heart out!



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Posted on Fri, Nov 07, 2008 05:59

Quoting unsnaggedeagle:

I agree with you! You have to look a little deeper into a person not look at what is just on the outside..



Was it something I said???



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Posted on Mon, Nov 03, 2008 04:37

I agree with you! You have to look a little deeper into a person not look at what is just on the outside..



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Posted on Wed, Jun 04, 2008 21:53

I didn't read many of the other posts, so I'm not sure if I'll be repeating anything, but here's my input...

There's more to a person than simply how they look. In my case, I work at a bar where I have a rule "no dating the customers" so everyone I meet at work is out. I went back to school four years ago after my divorce so everyone I have socialized with in the recent past have been on average ten years younger than me. I dated a few guys in their early 20's because they were who I hung around with. I am now looking for someone closer to my age that has the same goals as I do (relationship and financial wise), but I have no place to really meet these guys - so here I am on the internet.

I am not particularly fond of dating. I don't see it as a sport or something to take up a Friday night. I have to already be pretty interested in someone to even agree to a date so that eliminates a lot of people.

Am I more picky? I don't really know the answer to that. Probably in certain ways, but you're either attracted to someone or you're not. Looks matter as they set the first impression, but there are so many other qualities that will make me like or dislike someone that have nothing to do with whether they are hot, really good looking, good looking, or average. I've met guys that I thought were very attractive yet the most boring people I have ever met. I have met guys that I did not originally find attractive but came to the point where I found myself debating the dating scenario because I truly enjoyed them as people.

If I wanted to just date, I don't think I would have a hard time filling my schedule, but I don't wish to waste my time simply fishing either. I enjoy going out with my friends and doing my own thing. I don't need a guy to fill in my time. Do I want one? Of course, why else would I be here, but I'm willing to sit back and wait. I don't see the need to rush into anything solely due to the fact I'm single.

There are plenty of beautiful women still single, there are plenty of women that are beautiful in their own way still single, and there are plenty of women who are ugly on the inside that are still single. Looks don't signify the likelihood of someone being in a relationship.

Yet, after saying all that, I do find myself wondering what could be wrong with a guy my age that hasn't been taken yet. lol I guess I'm just slightly hypocritical. But at least I can admit it. haha



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Posted on Sat, May 24, 2008 20:35

Thanks for the spell check Mr. Wilson. As recently as last week I see your spelling needs work too, ie: Cat loving men (ACTUALLY not Actaully). Quick! go fix it.
"Those who like to criticize get looked at more critically". How bout commenting on the subject instead of being so negative for the thread.



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Posted on Wed, May 21, 2008 02:56

Quoting txchick1971:

I would like to say that the reason for beautiful single women being single is the same reason why attractive men in the same age category are still single. They both are looking for the wrong thing and refuse to look outside the box. I have a friend that is beautiful and never short a date. But the men she chooses are bad boy losers with tons of baggage. She always thinks they will change for her. Never does that happen and after 6 months or so of dating, she's left heart broken. I on the other hand have chosen to not be co-dependent and will wait for the right one I guess. Not by choice though, mostly because I'm just an average girl looking for true love. Casual dating is over-rated and very stressful. Is so much more fun to make friends and hang out before for moving in for the "kill". Guys & girls, if you sit back and evaluate the cycle that you are currently using and it's not working, change it. You'll be suprised. Just my opinion :o)



It telegraphs your perspective when you use the term "kill" to characterize intimacy. It bothers me that so many women share your frame of mind. There's so much jealousy in this post it's hard to unpack. For the record I spend many months single. Moving in for the "kill" isn't all that important to me.



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Posted on Wed, May 21, 2008 02:45

Quoting dannyspl:

Ok Im open to all opinions. I want to know why ladies who are mainly 25 to 45 and are above average in the looks dept., are still single and can't seem to find a guy to settle down with. Many are looking here and other personals sites. From my dating experience they seem to have higher than average expectations for men. Men on the other hand, such as myself tend to avoid these women once they are figured out. I want to know from both sexes what you think these expectations are and why women dont want to except the character of guys that are attracted to them?



it's "accept" not "except"
figures



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Posted on Thu, May 08, 2008 06:16

I would like to say that the reason for beautiful single women being single is the same reason why attractive men in the same age category are still single. They both are looking for the wrong thing and refuse to look outside the box. I have a friend that is beautiful and never short a date. But the men she chooses are bad boy losers with tons of baggage. She always thinks they will change for her. Never does that happen and after 6 months or so of dating, she's left heart broken. I on the other hand have chosen to not be co-dependent and will wait for the right one I guess. Not by choice though, mostly because I'm just an average girl looking for true love. Casual dating is over-rated and very stressful. Is so much more fun to make friends and hang out before for moving in for the "kill". Guys & girls, if you sit back and evaluate the cycle that you are currently using and it's not working, change it. You'll be suprised. Just my opinion :o)



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Posted on Thu, May 08, 2008 00:58

All women have the possibility to be as smart as they choose. Thats not it at all. I think many women emasculate men to a point as to gain power over them in a relationship. I just met one who after a messy breakup and bitter about it has decided to get pregnant and raise a child without the help of a man. Donor of course. This is why I say many men have lost their balls in relationships.



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Posted on Fri, Nov 30, 2007 13:05

Mariana2OO5 write:
Because we are smart?

;)

haha, best answer yet...

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Posted on Fri, Nov 30, 2007 06:56

Mariana you look smart.... :)



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Posted on Tue, Nov 20, 2007 11:31

Just my opinion here ...
( or possibly babbling .. lol )
Many men see a Beautiful Woman and assume ( right or wrong ) that surely she must have a significant other and simply choose not to go beyond that point .. guilty of that myself .. lol.
And I'd also like to add that any Man with manners is fully aware of the constant "hounding" that a Beautiful must constantly endure. Wolves are plentiful unfortunately. A Gentlemen will most likely give a smile and a quick Hello and leave it at that :)

Happy Thanksgiving Everyone :)



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Posted on Tue, Oct 30, 2007 09:32

when being beautifull...u always have honds dogs all over u, were ever u go...so ur options r always open....i agree with superstar.... there r alot of butt holes out there that dont know how to treat a lady....why is that ? why r alot of men just so forward and cant just try to get to know a gitl?



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Posted on Sat, Oct 20, 2007 06:50

I agree but one thing is important that few have mentioned on here. That is how much women have changed in the last 40 years. They are more empowered and independent now than ever before. Men on the other hand have lost their balls in the relationship.
I came across a book that will be out in hard cover within the year. His name Andey Randead and His ebook is reviewed at (email me for the site)
Most of what he talks about relates to what he calls the ?modern women? or women in their teens, twenties and early thirties.

All of his conclusions are based on facts he solicited from over 100 women in that age group. That combined with statistical information, which is available freely on the Internet regarding marriage, relationships and divorce.

Andeys book is a perspective of the modern woman and her evolution the past 40 years. An amazing read for any man who lost his balls and smart women. Some questions answered include



What do women really think about men and how do they strategize with each other to get what they want from them?

Why are women cheating as much as men?

Why have women become so selfish and feel so entitled?

How have marriage laws become so grossly unfair to men?

How has this led to many of the problems we now face in society?

Why do women push for a commitment then become unhappy once they get one?

Why do they lose interest in sex with you?

Why can they be so hard to get along with?

Why do they become attracted to someone else and start cheating?

Why is it that the better you treat them the worse they treat you?

Why do they blame everything on you, become resentful and angry?

Why do they desperately seek marriage, but become unhappy in marriage?



Why are men not willing to commit?

Why can women seem to justify anything in their own minds?

After reading this book one may understand why beautiful women are still single. Maybe some men dont want to be married because of this.



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Posted on Tue, Sep 25, 2007 21:51

Maybe it's because that real beauty is mostly inside. Good looks alone is not worth anything except to Hollywood.



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Posted on Mon, Sep 17, 2007 10:20

I can't say what one sees as beautiful...but...for my part, men often just 'assume' I am taken and simply do not come up and say hi, I have friends who have told me this. etc. (Yes, I have done the asking before...it would be nice for a change if a man did the asking). I don't know about other women, BUT...some of us simply are like some of the men in here...way too busy to have time to go out and date, etc...so...we try to find a worthwhile site that narrows the field to like minded people. Meeting someone on the internet sometimes is just less of a waste of time, I think.

:)



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Posted on Mon, Sep 10, 2007 14:22

dannyspl write:
Ok Im open to all opinions. I want to know why ladies who are mainly 25 to 45 and are above average in the looks dept., are still single and can't seem to find a guy to settldown with. Many are looking here and other personals sites. From my dating experiance they seem to have higher than average expectations for men. Men on the other hand, such as myself tend to avoid these women once they are figured out. I want to know from both sexes what you think these expectations are and why women dont want to except the character of guys that are attracted to them?

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I have been on and off and for my experience I have met alot of foneys on here...not to mention hot headed jealous chics,ha. It is tuff to meet a kewl, fun guy without baggage and money problems apposed to millions like the site claims... I am not a gold digger, but I also don't want to be scapping to make it when I'm old... To find a man now a days really bits.... I want to get serious and most guys I have met on here are all talk and no action... I have the goods they want, but nothing strong on the relationship side from them...the getting to know you for a while gets old. You know if you want to settle or not???



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Posted on Sat, Aug 25, 2007 22:15

dannyspl write:
Its been awhile cause I moved but I thought I would fire this question up and respond to a couple of ladies here. I love it when you ladies like to tweak a subject by turning it around when the question is made to you. You have all the time you want to discus why men dont want committment or why they get cold feet after 1 year of dating or why they withdrawl cause they are not feeling valued and appreciated. But this thread is why ladies who are exceptionally pretty but single.
I have talked to many and they say among other reasons they are looking for the perfect storm in a guy. Does all the qualities always exist or do they come out at different times during a relationship? In other words he may be the right one for you but its how you react to his faults that make you ladies do an about face. Ladies the perfect storm in a guy or the perfect acting guy doesnt exist and never has. Its the way you react to him that deternines where you two go next. Remember keep it on the subject of why ladies reactand the decisions they make to remain single. Dont keep turning it around. Be accountable for yourselfs just on this thread...

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You assume that 'beautiful single women' would PREFER to be married? Why? Why do you assume that marriage is necessary, or even desirable, especially to women who are not only 'beautiful', but also independent, self-sufficient, self-reliant, self-supporting, professionals? Is this YOUR insecurity speaking? Why are YOU single (you are handsome) at YOUR age? What are YOU waiting for ~ the "perfect" woman (she doesn't exist)? Or maybe, just "perfect for you"?

I don't know that I ever desire to be married again. I would like a life-long committed mutually respectful romantic love affair with the perfect mate for me.

In my opinion, the institution of marriage itself has ruined many a potentially wonderful relationship!



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