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Posted on Sat, Jul 16, 2011 13:57

Why are beautiful women still single?  Well, the research shows that people tend to select mates 2 levels above and below what they think their level of beauty is.  This is especially true for women but not as much for men.  If a woman thinks she is a 10, then she will be attracted to men who are 8-10.  If she views herself as a 5 then she will be attracted to (or self-select) a 3-7 male.  This may account for why beautiful woman are still single.  Maybe all the 8-10 men are taken, playing, or not available in some way.  The equalizer for men is money.  If a man earns more he no longer has to be an 8-10 to a 10 woman.



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Posted on Thu, Jul 14, 2011 15:20

Enjoyable both men and women can have high expectations in dating. Men can have a list such as she needs to be model material, slim, fit, hair eyes nose mouth face features to their liking, She needs to be kid free, close in location, not dating anyone steady, good job, house, car, stable or functional family situation etc.

I can go on and on with a list of preferences or expectations. With some men it is all about looks.


I used men cause I dont want women questioning each thing I list. It is just an example here that one man might have all these expectations for his ideal lady. Sounds unrealistic? That is the point. If it seems to be unrealistic then most likely you can say they have high expectations.

Women have a list too and they want it to be right or they would rather stay single until it is.



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Posted on Wed, Jul 13, 2011 14:22

Hoping4Love2000 U "ROCK", as I said, I want you in my foxhole, when the stuff hits the fan, I know I can count on you.

Gloves or no gloves, it was over before it started, and STILL Champion, Princess "Erin B" retains her title.

Another lesson for the contenders and pretenders.

Keep the faith, no retreat, no surrender. Nothing but "Props" for you.



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Posted on Wed, Jul 13, 2011 13:38

What do you consider "high expectations?"



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Posted on Wed, Jul 13, 2011 12:01

LOLOLOL.. @ MAVHEVILLI!!!

*Princess "Erin B" takes MACH's blue gloves and run out to hide them... Gets ready for her "sneak attack!" HeeHeeHee~~



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Posted on Tue, Jul 12, 2011 11:28

Hoping4Love2000, let the games begin. BTW being in trouble for speakings your mind can be a good thing. It suggest to me, a person isn't afraid to say what they think. Fear often takes away your freedom to decide.

There is no doubt the world is a better place with you in it. And at the end of the day I will always be a fan.

With that said, let's get ready to rrrrrrruuuuummmmble. In far corner wearing the pink gloves, Hoping4Love2000 AKA Erin B, in the near corner wearing the blue gloves.......



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Posted on Mon, Jul 11, 2011 10:54

GAME ON MACHEVILLI! (and look.. the princess wears her pink gloves!!)

This may be difficult for some to imagine... BUT MY MOUTH AND THE CANDOR THAT COMES OUT OF IT GETS ME IN A LOTTA TROUBLE!!

IE: I do NOT recommend you tell a cop he is a LIAR after trial.. IT DOESN'T ALWAYS SIT WELL W/ the JUDGE!! Bwhahahahaha! Yep! True story! Perhaps I am related to Erin Broackavich?? I am a lot to handle at times!! :)

LOOK.. I can give people lots of excellent advise on what NOT to do!! At least I am good for something! HeeHee~~



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Posted on Mon, Jul 11, 2011 08:13

Pretty simple. IMO Of course I cannot stereotype every single gorgeous woman; however, I can say this...

Many women have been raised to think very little of themselves. Media in general blasts them almost from birth with unrealistic images of what true beauty is. Airbrushed, perfectly lit, perfectly angled, flattering images.

They are trained to believe that they need to qualify themselves, and "measure up" to an unreal standard. They are taught to cover up blemishes, and accessorize… Even enhance, or surgically improve. As human beings we naturally aspire to perfect ourselves so it feels quite natural to want to be our best selves. Nothing wrong with that. What’s wrong is when a woman feels less than so much so that she fills her closet, make up arsenal, jewelry, cars, homes etc. instead of loving who she is and being the best her. Eat right, exercise, educate herself, love, and live! She will buy pampering, attention, agreement, and creature comforts of all sorts. She becomes entitled.

Getting back to your question… Many grow to feel that if they can check off more of the attraction boxes in terms of having their stuff together it entitles them to a better man. They feel entitled to experience the life that they’ve been accustomed to, being catered to, and accommodated. They’re beautiful people after all!! Why shouldn’t the world cater to them? I’m not mad about it. I’ve been blessed to be constantly surrounded by gorgeous people of all types. I work in the entertainment industries and I find outer beauty quite common. Inner beauty however…

I am so in love with one of my friends. She is beautiful inside and out. Pure perfection. She is happy with herself, and it shows. She is the type of person that lights up a room, and is grateful to be in YOUR presence! Don’t change “L”.



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Posted on Sun, Jul 10, 2011 10:04

Hoping4Love while I consider myself to be smarter than your average bear, I am very aware of my limitations. Having said that I would say if I could pick one person to have in a foxhole watching my back, you would be my first choice.

You candor is quite refreshing, not that I can always handle hearing the truth. I do have a great appreciation for those who remain true themselves inspite of what the rest of the herd is doing.

So, if you will let me win sometimes for the sake of my very fragile ego, I say let the games begin.



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Posted on Sat, Jul 09, 2011 22:53

YO MACHEVILLI.... Come SPAR w/ me!! I think I could take ya on!! Esp. after my 2 day nightmare trying to post my blog on CHEATING!! As if the punches I receive from that BLOG aren't gonna be enough.. Bwahahahahaha!!!

 

It is really only 2 parts.. but looks like 3.. But i always try to appear like I am more to handle than I really am anyways!! HaHa!! It has been a long evening to say the least!! :)

 

And I AGREE with you.. MINKYKEKA made a great observation... I would have to expound upon that and say.. How many of us prefer to be single for what reason? Fear of another FAILURE? Or do we really want to be single? I just single handedly destroyed something I thought was to be very POSITIVE in my life.. Does this mean I WANT to be single? or that I am just another dumbass who messes everything up? I'm not sure.. but I'm gonna take Dianas advice and go hide the shit box in the garage!! LOLOL



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Posted on Sat, Jul 09, 2011 16:31

Quoting minkykeka:

its not just about beautiful women - sorry but thats just a POV - if we are honest with ourselves then we (me included) would come to realise the reason why we are all single is that we choose to be, our sub conscious directs us to this, to be with someone you should first love yourself ( i hear you ) - oh but i do - i really do - but the truth will always be if you love yourself then you will find an avenue to share that love with another..and until you either realise or achieve this state then this www will stay in your heart, which is not that bad a place to be..



You made some very good points, it isn't just about "beautiful women", although the media is obsessed with this image. I am remined of Oscar Wilde who said "To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance."

I do agree that being single is to a large degree is a matter of choice, our sub conscious is merely a construct of our owm making suggesting if we are "truly" honest...

I submit that there are few who know the truth of the answer to the question and I am not one. In my very humble opinion it requires insight, reflection, knowledge, and enlighten that I continue to work on every day.



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Posted on Sat, Jul 09, 2011 15:54

Quoting Hoping4Love2000:

HOPELESSLY..... Everyone has a different take on movies.. What was yours? I see you are new to boards, as am I.. WELCOME... and may you have better fortune in the "Love arena" than I have!! I think I'm trading in my heart for set of boxing gloves now! A man might appreciate the gloves more!! :)



I must say you have a great attitude, and a nice sense of humor. I enjoy hearing your thoughts, comments, wit and wisdom. You really had me cracking up with the boxing gloves.



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Posted on Fri, Jul 08, 2011 00:32

its not just about beautiful women - sorry but thats just a POV - if we are honest with ourselves then we (me included) would come to realise the reason why we are all single is that we choose to be, our sub conscious directs us to this, to be with someone you should first love yourself ( i hear you ) - oh but i do - i really do - but the truth will always be if you love yourself then you will find an avenue to share that love with another..and until you either realise or achieve this state then this www will stay in your heart, which is not that bad a place to be..



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Posted on Thu, Jul 07, 2011 20:52

HOPELESSLY..... Everyone has a different take on movies.. What was yours? I see you are new to boards, as am I.. WELCOME... and may you have better fortune in the "Love arena" than I have!! I think I'm trading in my heart for set of boxing gloves now! A man might appreciate the gloves more!! :)



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Posted on Thu, Jul 07, 2011 16:54

I think that the movie "The Ugly Truth" explains why quite well.



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Posted on Thu, Jul 07, 2011 12:31

"Rib Cracker" here KIWIINGRID! LOL...

So you are sayng you don't want the man in the suit huh?? WELL THEN TAKE IT OFF!! Does wonders I've found!! HeeHee~~ Objects in the mirror may not be as boring as they appear! LOL (but only after you fix his toilet, build him a deck and mow his lawn!!)

BREAK OUT THE DRILL BABY!! There is someone for everyone! LOLOL

 

 



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Posted on Wed, Jul 06, 2011 17:02

Hoping4Love2000....you crack my ribs..lol

I dont have much, so I am not high maintenance, prefer the rough outdoors and extreme sports, mechanics, oil, dirt, building, plumbing....and what - all the millionaires want to spend all day shopping for crap you only want, dont need and like to stay in the suit all DAY, boring!!!
...OK I've got it....no men here for me....whats new!!



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Posted on Thu, Jun 30, 2011 21:37

I dont think this is entirely true, alot of men tell me that i am intimidating.. and i am NOT high maintenance. I am still single ONLY because I choose not to settle. I am not asking for much from a man i just want an honest, respectful man,hardworking man , who can be faithful!! Now if thats alot to ask for then im better off single.LOL.. I just think it depends on the person you cant put ALL woman in the same category as being to high maintenance (picky) or whatever why can a female just be single because she is waiting for the right one?



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Posted on Thu, Jun 23, 2011 20:31

LOL @ U Marieswl!!!!

That's where I stash all the dead bodies when I FINALLY realize they were jerks!! Makes it easier to dispose of them!! :) Bawhahahahaha!!!

 

CRRRRAAASSSSHHHHH!! (yes.. dry sarcasm! It's my second language u know!)



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Posted on Thu, Jun 23, 2011 13:45

Hoping4Love2000... You make a good point.. and even though I am always full of ideas, this never, ever came to my head: MY CAR IS TOO LITTLE!!! I think a dump truck would do it, so it can serve two purposes! ;)



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