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Posted on Wed, Aug 02, 2006 17:48

Hello Healer tnx for reading my opinion here, i hope u too find your abundance..

May God bless you and more power.

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Posted on Wed, Aug 02, 2006 14:43

Hello lovely Phillipino lady. You have a very good mind and attitude! You are correct about race, colour and marriage. Love and not lust is what creates long term success. I hope you find both in abundance! Healer. x



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Posted on Wed, Aug 02, 2006 05:19

I had a mixed relationship and was due to get married. He didnt tell his mum and sisters about me until our wedding was very close. I left him as his family were so bad and against mixed relationships that as much as I loved him I couldnt tolerate what his family done in their bitter and twisted ways. They had other plans for him and expected him to marry a greek gal & they had no concerns at all in their methods of ensuring the wedding didnt go ahead. Love didnt conquer all in my situation. That was 3 years ago.



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Posted on Tue, Aug 01, 2006 19:22

i know "aaaaaaaaaa".



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Posted on Tue, Aug 01, 2006 18:50

races is not the problem in a relationship it's u itself is the problem, if u get married for 3 to 4x then either u is the problem not because girls r black or white or from other races. Me myself as a filipina from philippines alot of americans and europian was married to a filipino woman and most of marriage was successful so i don't think on my opinion races is problem of getting married it is you or her or maybe u start a relationship with only u want is sex not as deep like ur are inlove and attract as Godly not as just physically.

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Posted on Mon, Jul 10, 2006 10:52

I totally agree with 1sweetLove. Seems if you have to talk about the hue of someone's skin you have already not looked beyond it. Why is their an need to label someone by the color or lack of color of someone's skin.

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Posted on Wed, Jul 05, 2006 19:09

How about this: "Once you go white, you'll always be right?" I have been all over the world and feel sorry you have had a bad situation in your varied relationships. But I don't think it is about the color, I think it is about whom you date. If you get to know someone well, instead of diving in head first with blinders on, you will never have a good relationship. You should find someone who loves you no matter what color, what kind of food you eat, what religion you practice, how you smell, etc. Don't look at me and say "Hey, she's cute and I am already in love, let's get married!" (I get that all the time) How can you be interested and want to be with someone forever and not even know them? I mean looks count greatly but it is really the inner self that defines a person. So look for both if that is what you need to do and go slowly and find someone who will love you, treat you good, and show you the respect you so richly deserve. Barbs like the one the ex threw at you...is definitely not true! Believe me, I know.

  


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Posted on Wed, Jul 05, 2006 15:18

Replying to the second paragraph about cultural differences....I would think that a couple would experience these things, such as "having trouble with introducing someone of a different culture, background, ethnicity, etc. to your family" in the beginning of the courtship or dating phase, not when you are married to someone. Come on people, how old are you to not know that everyone may not be as open-minded as you or your family therefore, that should be experienced before marriage is even an option. And as far as these personality traits of the Iranian woman and Barbadian lady, that's exactly what they are, PERSONALITY TRAITS and they have nothing to do with ethnicity. Gold diggers come in all shapes, sizes, ethinicities, backgrounds, and nationalities as well as women who are a little on the crazy side or violent side. So that's my comment. And yeah my ex belives that to be true as well...."Once you go black, you never go back....LOL....I love my caucasian brothers!

  


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Posted on Sun, Jul 02, 2006 15:15

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"Once yo go black you never go back!"

That is just wrong statement, that is not apply to everyone who dated "black" before. I date couple of African American before, and they are lied all the way through their toot for no particular reason. That make me think that I will never go there again.

I dont mean that everyone are like but I never see someone lie like that in my entire life.

Sorry your experience had/has been so bad with blk men, I've had many, many white men lie to me through their tooth for no particular reason. But I just put it done to that individual and my ability to pic losers at times I guess.

Live and learn, and hopefully move on? :)



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Posted on Sun, Jul 02, 2006 07:22

be u and dont color ur self



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Posted on Sat, Jul 01, 2006 13:58

IT WOULD BE REALLY VERY GOOD IF PEOPLE WOULD "THINK" BEFORE THEY SPEAK. tHE SITUATIONS YOU ARE ALL TALKING ABOUT ARE "INDIVIDUAL" NOT GENERIC. YOUR SITUATION "GOOD" OR "BAD" IS NOT THE norm FOR EVERYONE.

cAN WE GET OFF THIS WHOLE NEGATIVE RACIAL THING THAT IS OH SO DEPRESSING AND FOCUS ON "RELATIONSHIPS" BETWEEN "PEOPLE!" wHEN WILL WE LEARN.

CAN WE RETURN TO "SANITY?"

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Posted on Fri, Jun 30, 2006 21:10

I came to this forum because I am a Caucasian woman (one of the whitest I know, actually), dating a Chinese/Thai man and I was curious to see what others had to say. I have to admit I'm a bit disappointed in some of the limited outlooks I see here. The man I am seeing and I are very different, yes, but both of us are willing to learn about and accept each others' cultures and values. That's the key to making any relationship work, interracial or not. If I had been afraid of or unwilling to go to a Buddhist puja class, or eat some unrecognizable Thai delicacy (I still don't know what it was, but it was delicious) then I would have missed out on an incredible human being, one that accepts my need to eat matzoh ball soup every now and again and understands when I cross myself and say a paternoster whenever I see an emergency vehicle (my parents were Catholic and Jewish- I'm Jewthlic!) It's not easy all the time, our families still clash every now and again, as do we, but it's entirely worth it. I view this relationship as a great adventure, just as I did when I dated African-Americans, Hindus, and Caucasians (I enjoy men, what can I say?). I can't lump the men I have loved into one blanket statement or ethnic group, they are all individuals with different life experiences, strengths and weaknesses. There may be some cultural similarities between them, but the bottom line is, they have all been wonderful men, who have appreciated me for who I am, regardless of my color or religious beliefs, as I have done for them. This is just my two cents, but I encourage everyone to stop making it about race, and look for what lies in someone's heart.

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Posted on Fri, Jun 30, 2006 07:22

"Once yo go black you never go back!"

That is just wrong statement, that is not apply to everyone who dated "black" before. I date couple of African American before, and they are lied all the way through their toot for no particular reason. That make me think that I will never go there again.

I dont mean that everyone are like but I never see someone lie like that in my entire life.



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Posted on Mon, Apr 17, 2006 10:22

ThatOnePlayer write:
To me I only date Latino/Hispanic-Americans and Asian-Americans. Becuase, most African-Americans, and Caucasusians don't celerbrate any traditional value, or aren't family oriented. I'm not saying this just to be saying this. I've dated a lot of Caucasusians and African-Americans (Women of course lol, dont get it twisted!). I'm Hispanic by the way. (Just incase people wanted to know.)

Well, I feel sad that you've limited yourself. But I do think at 19 there is so much more to learn about life and women. Your statement is so generalized. As an African and an African American my closest ties are to family. No one else loves you, the individual, like one's family.



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Posted on Sun, Mar 26, 2006 15:46

I find it really sad that in todays world there is still all of this racial talk and whether its right or wrong. It really does make me wonder about humanity. I remember when I left Alaska at the age of 16 I had never even seen a black person and had no idea what racisim was. Of course I moved to Fla. That was 1966. I use to stop at this Howard Johnsons on my way home from work every night and there was this absolutely beautiful african american that worked there and I had the worst crush you could imagine on her. I asked her out many times but she would never give me a real reason why she refused. Of course over the next couple of months I learned why and you know it didn't make any difference to me then and it doesn't now. We dated for about six months then it ended but I will never forget her as long as I live. What a wonderful women she was.



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Posted on Tue, Mar 07, 2006 06:59

Barbadian IS FROM BARBADOS SEXYDAPH..Sometimes called "Bajan" can be white, spanish or black it's a caribbean country I never want a black, WHITE SPANISH BAJAN MAN BARBADIAN EVER AGAIN..I call Barbadian men BARBARIANS...Sorry..I am divorcing a spanish barbadian...oops that conan the Barbarian...atilla the hun caveman..
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okay "barbadian" whatever that is,, is not the same as african-american, maybe if you meet an african american women maybe the statement is true("Once you've had black, you never go back.")! how bout not dating exotic women lolololo for awhile!:) seems thats all you know of. The way your talking you said it like youve tried all the races! try more!



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Posted on Sat, Mar 04, 2006 10:50

Stupo,
Nothing you have stated has anything to do with interracial dating. You have made some very bad choices in the women you chose to date and marry. It had nothing to do with being interracial.Iraninan is not a race it is a nation, Barbadian is not a race it is a nation. What you faced were cultural differences not racial.
And yes you are right!
Once yo go black you never go back!

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Posted on Mon, Feb 27, 2006 19:29

Frankly I dont care about race, but others did interfer when I had them. It can be a pain. I cannot wait until we have true color blind world ... but until then the interacial thing can be one more thing to deal with. I dont think two people who are in love should ever be kept apart but I think everyone should think carefully about every relationship before embarking.



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Posted on Tue, Dec 06, 2005 18:55

To me I only date Latino/Hispanic-Americans and Asian-Americans. Becuase, most African-Americans, and Caucasusians don't celerbrate any traditional value, or aren't family oriented. I'm not saying this just to be saying this. I've dated a lot of Caucasusians and African-Americans (Women of course lol, dont get it twisted!). I'm Hispanic by the way. (Just incase people wanted to know.)



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Posted on Tue, Dec 06, 2005 02:53

people should let people be with who they want to I've had mixed relationships and I've been happy and had a great time with my partner because you have to be in tune to each others cultures and needs and dreams.I would love to be in another mixed relationship.You just treat people how you want to be treated.



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