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Posted on Mon, Jul 04, 2005 10:14

Hi Bonnie,

Yes to both your questions. And more - if following my heart to be with a guy meant that I could no longer pursue my vocation, I wouldn't do it. I know form experience that having my own job and income, my own projects, achievements and pride in what I do, is a very important factor in my life and without it, I'm miserable and no fun to be with.



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Posted on Fri, Jul 01, 2005 08:27

Wow...another great topic Bonnie. Although the last post was in May - I couldn't help but put a post too this. I relate totally to your theory of being disconnected because of being away from home for so long, to then return to see you have grown to much to fit back in to the same pace. I've been away and technically still am (home is 1 hour from where I live now). My spirit is to want to pick up and move somewheres new & exciting but my responsible side is staying committed to provide a family root system for my children. Seeing a little bit of both sides, I've deciede I want them to have a rooted place and a spirit to fly to adventure knowing they will always have somewhere to return if they fall. As you might sense from this post, I am very devoted to my children and find it a struggle to meet someone who can not only handle that but truly "understand" it. Color



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Posted on Thu, Jun 23, 2005 14:19

I already HAVE relocated to go to school....and I am middle aged....so given that, what's the difference between relocating for love and/or a job? However, I must admit that 30 years ago I relocated for love and lived to regret it....the man used and abused me...and the only good thing I have to show from that relationship are 2 grown, well educated, successful children! But.....don't we all believe that he that has loved and lost lives to love again?

  


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Posted on Sat, Jun 18, 2005 22:49

LTR...can create LTB--Long Term Boredom
..only see and no touch..
becomes a deprived syndrome



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Posted on Fri, Jun 17, 2005 15:22

well, Spanky, I have been thru LDR and it takes alot out of the couple and is the true test of the relationship. Unfortunately email was not invented then, so we landed up writing everyday and when we finally met again, it just did not seem possible. Sadly he never married while I moved on, it takes a diehard romantic to believe in LDR but sometimes out of sight is out of mind and absence does not necessarily make the heart grow fonder..



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Posted on Sun, Jun 05, 2005 09:23

HI Chateau,
I hear what you say about this site and the difficulty of making friends in a new place. From my own experience, having kids or walking your dog here in London is certainly the best way to start making friends.. a hobby that takes you into a group or class of like-minded people...I have pockets of friends from different backgrounds and age groups whom I mix with and that broadens our perspective to life as well. Here on MM is another group that I have not met face to face but certainly daily over the forum. I have also been lucky in making some good friends, male and female from this site and continue to correspond regularly like penpals. I know the ones that you talk about, but don't let a few bad eggs spoil the rest for you. Focus on the nice guys and you will find that having turned enough rocks over, the real ingots will find you..
It takes time to find good friends, don't be shy and never hesitate to make the first move to extend that hand of friendship, you will be amazed how infectious that smile of yours could be, and you have it ..so go enjoy ourself..

  


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Posted on Tue, May 31, 2005 10:47

CUB,
Good on you, the star has shined at last...lol
www. the table has turned , you ahve to be the payer now for CUB's secret service.



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Posted on Tue, May 31, 2005 02:21

www...don't think CUB needs u as a mentor ..just look here , he is being stalked by so many young nubile beauties whom he has been charming all this while behind our backs..you seem to be the one who needs his help...

CUB, go charge www. and teach him some real lessons on courting and flirting and whipping..



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Posted on Tue, May 31, 2005 00:29

It is my duty, as a mentor, to tell him all I know. Esp what fun it is to polish bu*tts. He has been polishing his cars for years, so he should be a natural. Should be able to do 20 per hour, 10 each hand.



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Posted on Mon, May 30, 2005 15:51

Bonnie will never make the grade. Too much drama.

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Im not the whipper nor the whippee...I m the teacher of the whipper..
www... wicked whipper wisher..u ain't gonna tell CUB how to whip or you will be whipped..



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Posted on Mon, May 30, 2005 15:51


Cub39 write:
oops, they found me. I'll just say that I'm sincere with all my matches no matter how far away they live.




when were you lost?? We didnt lose you..we were just to busy having fun to follow you



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Posted on Mon, May 30, 2005 15:48


13Bella13 write:
jade quit bein witchy im sure there are some SINCERE matches here



LOL what did I do now? Ohh you mean because I laughed dont you hehe



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Posted on Sun, May 29, 2005 23:37

jade quit bein witchy im sure there are some SINCERE matches here



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Posted on Sun, May 29, 2005 23:16


13Bella13 write:
wellll
dayyyummmmm!!!!!!!!!!!


omfg

  


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Posted on Sun, May 29, 2005 22:52

wellll
dayyyummmmm!!!!!!!!!!!


omfg



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Posted on Sun, May 29, 2005 19:59

Cub " for this whip. It is the type with the leather"

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Just the hand Cub, just use your hand. Don't let a whip have all the feelie fun. Besides, you have to polish too.

Bonnie will never make the grade. Too much drama.



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Posted on Sun, May 29, 2005 14:50


Cub39 write:
Yawn, I need bare and spread for this whip. It is the type with the leather knob on the end with about eight little leather tassels coming out of it.

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lol..Cub..you are learning fast with me..switch allegiance , www..ain't too good at this game of dominatrix..I have my knee hi-boots on and all the paraphernalia...all the bare necessities you will learn for just 2% spread ...lol



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Posted on Sun, May 29, 2005 02:34


Cub39 write:
I was afraid of that. I know all the sources in this chain. I have the whip out - there are lashes to give.
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whoa..I see mini dictator rearing his little head..like his master slave driver..

I hear no evil, bare no evil and spread no evil and dare no evil and what whip are u using ? the one use on his horse BS?



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Posted on Sat, May 28, 2005 14:27

alittle twitty bird tells me...

  


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Posted on Sat, May 28, 2005 11:20

hmm...Cub did you go visit LUx huh??



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