Hello....as most of the threads I am new to this site. I also came to this site wondering if this was a higher quality of men who don't put a "fake" persona. From what I have seen so far I like the idea that others are also here for friendship women/men. I am still not a full member ans being cautious. Thanks Cub for the welcome. Everything I've read about you has been good and you seem like one of the sensible ones...
Hello, I'm new to the site! One thing I've discovered is that, unlike other dating sites, men here actually READ MY PROFILE and when they write to me, they tend to comment thoughtfully on it (I guess that's why so many are successful in business: They like to be prepared!).
Since I took the time to be really clear about who I am and what I'm looking for, I really appreciate it. Thanks, guys!
Jerseydesigner write: Hi there, You had some very nice things to say to Shelly. I seem to be having the same problem. I have winked and emailed and no one seems to respond back after a wink back or 1 email. Any suggestions..I'm ready to give up.. Help..thanks
I was on here for a month last Fall and met someone. Not since, but it might happen. You have to be patient. I actually don't even search anymore, I just play on the forums where I make a few cyber friends and have fun. If by chance I meet someone in the process, I will consider it a bonus!
MM is a difficult place to meet someone unless you are drop dead gorgeous with an hour glass figure. Don't let it get you down. It's the same for everyone, including the men! lol Good luck! BTW...a picture does help.
You had some very nice things to say to Shelly. I seem to be having the same problem. I have winked and emailed and no one seems to respond back after a wink back or 1 email. Any suggestions..I'm ready to give up..
sweetkatiegirl write: see you have a title and people asume you should slide through life. That is what makes me so angry. I am told i am a nurse-smart-college-talent-skill. Yes but they do not have a clue I can't subtract well and divide--forget it. hang an IV-put in a subclavian you got it I am good.Spell--I use other words. I think others assume that if we made it through school we are street wise-can date who we want and a title gets us happiness. Well Doc I admire skill-talent-brains and one who holds life in their hands. I a not needy-don't cling and can function alone. I also can function with you-be there for you and enjoy you teaching me about medicine. I respect your time away from home and enjoy your time here. I only need to know whewe I belong and that if I am with a partner that they love and respect me and plan on forever not just today
Sweetkatiegirl...are you writing this in general? Because it sounds like you are directing it at a doctor you may be dating, and you don't know where you stand with him. I may be reading into it wrongly, others may interpret it differently. Just wondering.
see you have a title and people asume you should slide through life.
That is what makes me so angry.
I am told i am a nurse-smart-college-talent-skill. Yes but they do not have a clue I can't subtract well and divide--forget it. hang an IV-put in a subclavian you got it I am good.Spell--I use other words.
I think others assume that if we made it through school we are street wise-can date who we want and a title gets us happiness.
I admire skill-talent-brains and one who holds life in their hands.
I a not needy-don't cling and can function alone. I also can function with you-be there for you and enjoy you teaching me about medicine. I respect your time away from home and enjoy your time here.
I only need to know whewe I belong and that if I am with a partner that they love and respect me and plan on forever not just today
Hi Kept(smile)..I read your post,and we have share very similer situations when posting a picture online..I just joined this site too,not long ago,but I found it to have some very interesting,friendly,and cool people here.I find this site to be fun..Join in on the forums. I feel I learn more about people in the forums than I would by looking at a picture...I like to know more about the person that is looking at my picture. So I find it better not to post a picture,and sort out all the junk replys that I receive. Believe me,I had some real winners replying just because of the picture..I know I'd like to learn more about you,and when I read your profile I learned we share so much incommon,and share alot of the same interest...I look forward to your post,and your replys to other post.(smile)...J
HeartLandGirl write: I am also new to the site. From what I have seen so far, it's very savory. Finally men with more than two words. You don't see that in Kansas often...
I was born in Kansas, Heart, but escaped to Colorado when I was 9... never thought that might be the cause of my volubility, though. In England, where I lived when I was married, if you're hungry you might be asked whether you fancy something sweet, or something savory. I think both options describe this site pretty well. Best of luck!
Hi, this is nice that you have a place for newcomers. I have had some guys write already but they aren't "preferred" yet they claim to make millions. I think it's a hoot they leave hints for their addresses. If you make millions I think you can afford to pay the whole $19.95. Some of them think because they do have money that we should worship them. But, I'd rather be poor and happy!! I am speaking with some really nice down to earth guys......
Best of Luck to All :)
maayan write: Announcement!!!! Sharpie the Calgary lady is back. Now we know she does not like rainy days and alone. WELCOME back Sharpie. Hey Sharpie you gotta register at the desk .. to be initiated one more time. Here is your tool box, medicine box, s&m box, diamond digging box with wwwww, some left over bandages for your hands ( I think Star has taken the whole supplies out of the store room .. he just came in and is already complaining about carpal tunnel syndrome. Sheesh man ... ). Yup ... new welcoming party on duty, since Lookie is busy starting another fishy doggie business on the other side of the planet ... so I'm here moonlighting
Hahaha! I just saw this Maayan...too funny! Thanks! This is the first time I've checked out this thread. WWPT and Cub tried to pass WWPT off as a newbie today...can't pull the wool over my eyes! lol
keptwoman_69 write: I am also a "newbie". I am reluctant to pay yet another online dating service in fear of let downs and set backs. I have also chosen not to post a picture yet because replies can get overwhelming. (I might add that I am an extremely attractive, fit, educated young divorced mother of two young children). I will deliver a picture upon request, of course. I really thought that on a website like this, I would get absolutely NO REPLIES. On the contrary, I recently received my first inquiry!!!! So, perhaps there actually is hope for me here. Keep them coming men!
Kept, I've been a free or paying member of those guys that send out the cds personals, something like yippee, webdate, singleme, perfectmatch, true, lavalife and severeal others, some of which you had to post a profile to search, and soon as I saw what they had to offer, I split. There's no guarantees anywhere (actually, perfect match guarantees you'll find your perfect match or they'll extend your membership free, for a limited time, but after nearly a year there I don't think I'll bother taking them up on it). This is by far the most interesting and well-planned site of all those I've seen, and $20 (or less) a month is very econonomical, even if I only get entertainment. Your mileage, of course, may vary. If you pay, you can see who has looked at you, and I'm over 120 now, which astounds me. Go for it! (I'd ask for your photo but you're younger than my daughter...)
Cub39 write: You go Wilfred. Da*mn! You're doing better than me! What's your secret??? (ok I'll bu*tt out now so newbies can join in)
I can only conclude that my headline, which instructs the reader to laugh, and get used to laughing, catches their eye. Not many women's profiles don't mention humor or laughing as something they want. Plus, I look at a lot of profiles, so any gold member can see that I've looked. I am the cat curiousity killed, and I haven't met many women who aren't just a little bit curious as well. Frankly, I figured the 100 wouild be low for most guys.
YourDiversion write: One thing I noticed about this site is..you can never be sure what you post will be posted...or who you contact will get your mail. But then life is like that too...
So you mean the women I've written to who didn't respond didn't because they didn't get the message?
Hello, I've been here for a little over 3 weeks, have had over 100 profile views and 4 winks, 3 from local women. This is by far the best dating site I've come across, for sheer entertainment value if nothing else!
This is really Great. A friend at work told me about this site,she said that she has had 3 dates with this wonderful man and she is in love. This prompted me to look up the site because that is exactly what I need in my life right now. LOVE I hope it works for me. So far I have winked at a few guys with no responces. Is there more success if you join?? I haven't done that yet.