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  • View author's info Posted on Jul 10, 2006 at 10:41 AM


    Emilio2001 write:
    It would be great to find that special woman...BUT

    I wonder what the odds of these 2 kids, who grew up in a small town and knew each other all their lives, would find their soulmate right next door?

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  • View author's info Posted on Jul 09, 2006 at 02:25 PM


    It would be great to find that special woman...BUT
  • View author's info Posted on Jul 09, 2006 at 10:16 AM


    And here's the happy mother of the bride! (just a little fried from raking the beach for 2 days before, (and up until an hour before i put on this pretty dress) while getting sandblasted and sunburned, and very little sleep in the week before. The tall, dark, handsome fellow behind me, is my son.

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  • View author's info Posted on Jul 09, 2006 at 12:58 AM


    My daughters wedding July 1st.

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  • View author's info Posted on Jul 09, 2006 at 12:37 AM


    Yes she came riding down the beach, on a white horse!

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  • View author's info Posted on Jun 23, 2006 at 03:36 AM


    Eleven years, only two relationships. maybe you just don't want to get married again. Now that was profound
  • View author's info Posted on Dec 13, 2005 at 03:56 PM


    I would love to get married. At 33 I would just loved to be asked!
  • View author's info Posted on Dec 13, 2005 at 02:37 AM


    i have read alot of posts that realy sadden me,how some of you where treated.i hope someday to find my specail love the one who can be true.i know what love is and it don't abuse the other but it builds up and protects each other.hopful still to find the needle in the haystack
  • View author's info Posted on Dec 03, 2005 at 02:10 PM


    For me, marriage is a waste of time. I just cant imagine me wasting my whole life with one person, when there's thousands of pretty girls out there.
  • View author's info Posted on Nov 17, 2005 at 12:54 PM


    I have not forgotten what a makes a good marriage, unconditional love. Similar to that of a child for his parent, the love of Jesus or what I am looking for again, the love of a spouse. So intense she would rather die than live without you. How I wish more people could experience that intensity at least once in their life. Is this why swans will only have one mate? I think once you have had unconditional love and loose it, you want it back in your life even more. I had for over 15 years and she died. I know what I am missing, that is why I am on this site. But then it is only going to take one lady to change everything!
  • View author's info Posted on Nov 09, 2005 at 02:00 PM


    I was married but I was sooo young (19) - well we both were he was 21...the marriage only lasted a year but I learned so much. 17 years later we are still friends and we even went on a trip together to the Catalina Islands a few years ago. He still makes me laugh!

    Would I marry again? If the right guy came along and we knew each other for a few years and we BOTH know and feel it would be right, then yes. But I don't feel marriage is the end all be all...I mean I really feel it's the state of minds of both parties. Look at Kurt Russell and Goldie Hawn, they've been together for like a gazillion years. They're hearts seem to be intertwined. I love happy endings!
  • View author's info Posted on Nov 04, 2005 at 09:20 AM


    Sometimes I think it would be better to have a five year contract with an option to renew........
  • View author's info Posted on Oct 20, 2005 at 04:07 PM


    of course you have the loaded gun, i don't even know how to shoot one, blonde moments,lol
    of course you have the loaded gun, i don't even know how to shoot one, blonde moments,lol
  • View author's info Posted on Oct 20, 2005 at 02:09 PM


    blondeindian write:
    your cute, and i am kidding when i knock things, i am very direct and to the point, read my profile you will see,lol, your honest about what you say, thats good, i may not agree with it all but it is kool, you are funny too, so keep the fingers where they are, i will tell you when to move them again and if get me real mad, lol, you know what other things you can do with those fingers, and i don't mean the peace sign, lollololol
    your cute, and i am kidding when i knock things, i am very direct and to the point, read my profile you will see,lol, your honest about what you say, thats good, i may not agree with it all but it is kool, you are funny too, so keep the fingers where they are, i will tell you when to move them again and if get me real mad, lol, you know what other things you can do with those fingers, and i don't mean the peace sign, lollololol

    LOL, I'm starting to like you....you can be a loaded pistol at times, just be careful where you point you weapon...lol. I'll bet my gun is bigger than yours....and it's always loaded..lol
  • View author's info Posted on Oct 19, 2005 at 10:12 PM


    your cute, and i am kidding when i knock things, i am very direct and to the point, read my profile you will see,lol, your honest about what you say, thats good, i may not agree with it all but it is kool, you are funny too, so keep the fingers where they are, i will tell you when to move them again and if get me real mad, lol, you know what other things you can do with those fingers, and i don't mean the peace sign, lollololol
    your cute, and i am kidding when i knock things, i am very direct and to the point, read my profile you will see,lol, your honest about what you say, thats good, i may not agree with it all but it is kool, you are funny too, so keep the fingers where they are, i will tell you when to move them again and if get me real mad, lol, you know what other things you can do with those fingers, and i don't mean the peace sign, lollololol
  • View author's info Posted on Oct 19, 2005 at 06:31 AM


    blondeindian write:
    your a funny guy, huh...

    ...you think I'm a funny guy on this marriage minded post, but then you want me to make loser signs with my fingers on the other posting....I know what your going to say, just make sure you throw the garbage out and remind you that your hair looks great...lol
  • View author's info Posted on Oct 18, 2005 at 11:52 AM


    your a funny guy, huh...
  • View author's info Posted on Oct 18, 2005 at 09:36 AM


    "I DO"......are you crazy...pull the crack needle from you neck and wake up!

    Marriage.....ahhhh, I love you honey! my attorney once said that marriage is nothing but a legal document for the seperation of assets.......This is why a man will stand at the alter and have tears streaming from his eyes, not because it is the happiest day of his life....because he just lost 50% of his stock portfolio, realestate holdings and that blessed 401K...not counting the legal costs he will incur to protect it or keep it. The typical marriage today has a 38% chance of lasting more than 4 years...

    BEFORE YOU SAY "I DO"

    1. Fall in Love...have fun
    2. Date for one year...have more fun
    3. Live together for 4 years..fun fun
    4. Get engaged...be careful!

    5. Set wedding date..wait 3 more years...and enjoy the time listening to your future mother in law tell you how your going to live your life, and how you should be more responsible. Remember to throw out the garbage on Tuesday...and your snoring is really wearing her out...sleep on couch!

    6. Get married..move assets prior to marriage in other peoples name...go into lock down mode. Be carefull not to have sex with old girlfriends or get caught...lol. Call wife and let her know where you are and remind her you love her...remember to *67 if your calling from girlfriends house. Delete all outgoing calls on your cell phone and remind her that her hair looks great. You begin to have hallway sex....that is when you pass each other in the hallway in the morning and flip each other off and say F!*ck you and she says F!*ck you too

    7. Prior to wedding, sign a prenup that would make holy water boil and every divorce attorney fall to his kness and ask for mercy.

    8. Enjoy your relationship until she/he desides they need to screw his/her co-worker or best freind. I say his or her cause you never know if she is BI..her little secret she has kept all this time..lol

    9. Invite co-worker or friend to a threesome and enjoy life and stop whinning about how depressed you are....lol

    10. Get divorced, begin steps 1-10 again until all your assets have been seized, liquidated, foreclosed, or sold to the highest bidder.

    My final advise:
    * Go out get yourself a young girlfiend, a sportscar, a tattoo on your left shoulder, a black leather jacket and some really nice sunglasses.......don't repeat steps
    1-10. Oh...don't forget to get snipped...last thing you want is a kid running around and paying child support for the next 18 years.....LOL

    I think I'm gonna get alot of feedback on this one..So go ahead, you wanta piece of me...tough guy! Polly...go get the baseball bat!
  • View author's info Posted on Oct 17, 2005 at 10:43 PM


    For the modern women...

    Why do I have to get married???? I didn't do anything wrong....lol...lol
  • View author's info Posted on Oct 17, 2005 at 09:29 PM


    I have never been married. I would like to get married sometime and to the right person. I know that marriage takes work on both parties to make it work. I know that marriage keeps the love going and not the other way around because it is a committment not just a feeling. The flame of romantic love as to be fueled by both parties doing their part to keep it burning bright and high.
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