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  • View author's info posted on Jun 26, 2005 01:46


    hi,

    i am marriage minded...only the right man is missing!

    i can relate to being blindly in love...that is exactly what happened with my ex-bf. i was there for him, loved and cared...and for return he just left me without any good reason. should have seen the signs. actions speak, not words.

    i just want an honest man who is marriage minded....is that so hard to find?

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  • View author's info posted on Jun 18, 2005 22:20


    Sounds like the kid who pressed the button of every floor in the elevator...lol

    I just got in , so Im stuck on every floor..
  • View author's info posted on Jun 16, 2005 09:06


    I should have guessed about the ice.

    Well, since ice melts under pressure, you are going to have to forget attached shelves. You will have to build them from the ground up. Free standing. Be sure to make a space for the table saw, the radial arm, the wood planer, big compressor, free standing belt sander, band saw, welder, couple of roll around tool boxes, and lots of space for materials.

    lol
  • View author's info posted on Jun 16, 2005 02:06


    I bet you left out the shelves for the power tools in each room. Some house. Cub, go fix it for her.

    lol
  • View author's info posted on Jun 15, 2005 12:01



    Cub39 write:
    I think I agree with 5w's idea of a mate. I certainly won't marry a woman who is extremely difficult (as he describes his sisters). I don't think of it as "liking the challenge" of that type of woman but more that she must not like herself (or something about her life) for her to act that way on a regular basis.



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    They could probably be described as control freaks and obsessive compulsive. It would drive me nuts.
  • View author's info posted on Jun 15, 2005 09:32


    www..I m sure they will 'murder' you when they hear u say this...lol
    'Difficult' is relative, as one man's meat is another's poison..
  • View author's info posted on Jun 15, 2005 08:38


    Bonnie" to feel all the emotions in a marriage "

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    Yes, I am sure they think about murder a lot. lollol
  • View author's info posted on Jun 15, 2005 02:05



    wwwww123 write:
    I. Happy to say that she is still married, but also admit that she, at times, it must be awful hard to live with her, and that her hubby often deserves a halo. My other brother in law also deserves one. My sisters are not bad or evil, but are difficult people. I can easily see why dreams die, but still don't like it.



    www..you might be too judgmental about your sisters..some men just love women who challenge them , to feel all the emotions in a marriage and not live a lifeless, emotionless existence..maybe they all deserve medals for staying married, happily challenged..they know something that you don't..
  • View author's info posted on Jun 15, 2005 01:44


    I would never want to see anyone stay in a marriage that was bad or loveless, but at the same time, I hate to see a dream die. It is just a shame that people are not good mates.

    When my youngest sister married at age 19, I actually cried because I was already divorced by then and I was so afraid that her marriage would end up the same way. Happy to say that she is still married, but also admit that she, at times, it must be awful hard to live with her, and that her hubby often deserves a halo. My other brother in law also deserves one. My sisters are not bad or evil, but are difficult people. I can easily see why dreams die, but still don't like it.
  • View author's info posted on Jun 14, 2005 22:12



    luckysolucky write:
    I don't think I could ever throw a party and celetrate the divorce....

    I would however have a wake, to mourn the loss of that dream....

    A divorce is a terrible loss of love and dreams.....

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    I absolutely agree. It's sad.

    wwwww

  • View author's info posted on Jun 14, 2005 11:35


    I agree..my divorce was one of the hardest events I have ever been threw. I guess because I am truely a loyal person and partner. I also agree it is a loss of dreams I once had.
  • View author's info posted on Jun 14, 2005 11:27


    realdealru
    I too was married to an emotional and physical abussive man. He didn't show signs until the year after we were married. I loved being married. I am also the marriage type. Everyone has a different opinion and that is fine.
  • View author's info posted on Jun 06, 2005 15:39


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    Madama Butterfly :) I think that women of Asian descent sometimes have advantages over women who are not - in addition to physical beauty, many are beautiful internally!

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    only some Six..I have met some terrible Asian women who could not cook nor do anything that is domestic..but sure know how to take advantage of the men with their feminine wiles...lol ..and get away with lots..

    Angel..I think it is nice that we know how to bring up our sons to respect women. My son is in one of the oldest boarding school here where they are brought up to be real charmers, but he however thinks that he could get away with anything using his impeccable charm and fine manners..!! All my women friends love him to bits and think he could do no wrong, and that is dangerous too...:)
  • View author's info posted on Jun 06, 2005 14:59


    Well said Lucky...
  • View author's info posted on Jun 05, 2005 23:13


    I understand Lucky...divorce for many are as distressing as widowhood..
    but I guess if we see that as a new chapter of our lives, esp for the divorcee who has to fight for his/her freedom from an oppressive relationship then it is a relief from years of pain..a bit like recovering from a terminal disease..you get your life back to repair and rebuild again..
    New chapters in life need lots of rethinking and replanning just as recuperation needs time .
  • View author's info posted on Jun 05, 2005 17:31


    I don't think I could ever throw a party and celetrate the divorce....

    I would however have a wake, to mourn the loss of that dream....

    A divorce is a terrible loss of love and dreams.....
  • View author's info posted on Jun 05, 2005 14:13



    sharp1 write:

    Bonnie88 write:
    ..after all if it fails , am I going to have a divorce party?



    LOL...I went to a "My Divorice is finally through!" party last night! She made a toast with champagne...no not this CP the real, drinkable kind! lol



    That must be fun, to go to a 'Im finally free- divorce decreed absolute!'party... I can see why that calls for more of a celebration than wedding sometimes, when one of the party refuse to sign the papers and the settlement takes forever...lol
    so did they serve half a wedding cake? you know . ..severance cut..lol
  • View author's info posted on Jun 05, 2005 10:25


    With that thought I wish you lived close to So Cal. I prefer a woman who actually states what she wants.
  • View author's info posted on Jun 05, 2005 00:05


    ! I would love to meet someone who believes in relating to long lost customs of a past era when dealing with members of the opposite sex, and I in turn would reciprocate as a true lady should.



    Bravo Six...that is exactly my view too..and luckily most of the men I have met who want to date me seriously have been that..I think there are some great guys still around who are true gentlemen. Lots of them however prefer dating Oriental women because these men feel that they understand them and are far more feminine...lol ,of course that is their ultimate Madam Buterfly dream and the ironic twist to the tale..lol
  • View author's info posted on Jun 03, 2005 22:27


    Marriage is not the "ultimate" position in life that it once was. To me a committment is. Have to many male friends in relationships & married who call their wives at night lying through their teeth. Have heard a couple of them lies through the years. Want a relationship where I can tell the truth & still share love.
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