Lol Cub, What my family means is why don't I look for love closer to home.
When I was 18 I went to the UK to be with my British boyfriend and I have traveled the world meeting lovely men along the way hehe. I guess I am a bit of an international playgirl..lol
Perhaps it's living where I do and the men that live here that makes me look further afield for love. I would never be satisfied with a man who has never traveled or experienced different cultures. I like a man who's interests are more than go to the bar every night out of boredom.
As for myself I describe my family as a mini United Nations, my son is part African and my daughter is part Turkish...me, well I am Welsh/English/French.
Cub wrote "Question becomes, how do you signal back to the white men that they are Ok also? How do destroy the concept of "once you go black, you never go back"?
I had my daughter after my son so I think that is a pretty good indicator that I don't go for one look or skin color.
My family never had a problem with my dating different ethnicities, just the comment was "why don't you date a nice Canadian fellow?" lol I like men from different cultures than my own that's all.
I have experienced racism when I dated a man of color -from his family... I was apparantly "too white"??? I was good enough to provide a home and food and love for his children when they were unwilling to, but was not good enough to marry when their son managed to get back on his feet...
Okay guys, I have finally got my huge Bulgarian visa, took up an entire page of my passport which will be a pain when I face the US immigration, two Communist regime in a month, they might think Im a spy..lol, so flying out tomorrow morning early, don't think I shall be missed here, in fact it would be a respite for some..to be rid of such a bossy old boot..lol
www..I could see you grinning , get this woman out of my hair...yeah promise will look for beautiful submissive Bulgarian mistress for you..one who is musical too..since I will be checking all 30 gorgeous female musicians to form the orchestra..lol ..so what music do you like..Paganini, Bach, Borodin, Piazolla? Strings or wind? Only 2% cheap cheap...:)
Will send you pics to choose...lol
I m pretty good at tempting ..Champagne ..I will be in London till July 10th and leave for Fareast for a month , return maybe August 10th if I don't decide to go to China or USA via Fareast, depending on job demands, my holiday there maybe cut short..so if u are tempted to go to S. AFrica via London when i m around..do drop me a line..always keen to play host to American friends..
Women have evolved far more in the last 50 years , the feminist movement have left the men rather lost in the sexual equation and they have yet to find a comfortable role to achieve that equilibrium..or to be fair , the both sexes have to work out that final equilibrium..but Champagne you are right on about the fairer sex..we all age so much slower, inspite of being the baby machine..lol..hence I m continually being propositioned by men from 30 to 60..and long may that last!!
cub, no I havn't tried your strategy YET. I was engaged in 92, to a great guy (who happened to be caucasion). We never talked about the color subject. That's why this is so interesting reading the messages on here. I love men PERIOD. It doesn't matter how light or dark your tan is. lol
I'd have to say that we (men) are probably a lot closer to our chest pounding ancestors than women. Somewhere in the evolution from Homo Erectus to Homo Sapien women starting looking a lot more beautiful and we just lost some of our hair ;-) Sorry I am biased towards the female form.
Bonnie, don't tempt me. I may be passing through that way on my way to S. Africa in August
you had better start cracking NOW..if it took NASA that long to shoot upwards,, you will be too old by the time the robot female model is anywhere near completion, suggest you make room for her in your coffin to accompany you to heaven? lol
Geez, to be propositioned by men from 31 to 62 is a truly open market..I must have struck gold today.. Always wanted to be someone's concubine...so which wing of your imperial court am I housed in? Also will send you concubine contract...this is new era of cultured and clever concubine... NO sweat , just my kind of LDR, want me to hand-pick the rest of your harem for you while I travel? My maternal grandma went back to China to pick my grandfather his second wife so that she could bear him a son..so looks like I m continuing tradition...lol
We definitely share the same wavelength to many things..if u are ever in London , call me..sparks might fly..lol
Opportunity knocks on my door constantly and I open many doors for myself as well as for others...doors are an extension of territorial boundaries and opening it is the first step to breaking down artificial barriers to relationships..
WElcome to my borderless world...you have found yourself an eternal friend if not soulmate..