Real, you can't blame a cat for putting her best paw forward can you? Not only that but you DO have the edge. You are of the human species. Lets face it, all I can do for him is catch mice, walk figure eights around his legs, and purr. (cleans her paw, deep in thought)
That's a good point Real. I'm not neccesarily looking for marriage, but I AM looking for one man. I'm not a college girl anymore who wants to try out the whole collection.
I want to be held and cared about. You can't do that with a blind date or someone you just met. You need a chance to connect with people on an intellectual level and learn if you're compatible with each other.
And I am rather the opposite from you ... I am so NOT a domestic goddess. I did that for 13 years raising my girl and shutting out all men and relationships so that I could concentrate on giving her all my quality time. I never dated, never entertained, never travelled, never vacationed.... I just did "my job." Now, she's flown the coop and I want to experience new things, be taught stuff I don't know, explore the world I've only ever seen in pictures. I want to paint and illustrate and write more and dive 100% into my creativity. And when I'm not doing that, I want to snuggle at home with my love and watch TV or rent a movie or go for dinner or a walk or .................... fill the hours in other creative ways.
So if there is any man out there who loves to travel but would rather do it with someone fun and upbeat, like a silly little girl being taken to the beach, he would have a riot with me. But he'd have to take me himself because I live to work and work to live right now. I can't meet him halfway, at this time.
But I'm not a bimbo just lookin' for a free ride.... (although I can PLAY that role if it is requested)
"Gasp! Katherine! You tramp!" (i wish my nun personality would pull the stick out and buzz off........)
I am in agreement with realdealru2. I am looking for the same things. I miss the companionship of being with a partner. I too loved being married but picked the wrong man. However, I do have two wonderful children out of that marriage. I would never change that. I am not looking for a father for them just a partner to share my life with. Take care and be safe. Angelpassion
I want a husband, lover, best friend & my everything.it's just finding man who can be all of that isnt easy .i loved being married, just picked wrong. i am a domestic goddess....lol, and need a man who is looking for that.it would be so nice to wake with that man, feeling so at peace & secure and knowing what true love & happiness really is....