Long Distance Relationships - your thoughts requested... Friendship

  • View author's info posted on Oct 07, 2005 22:30


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  • View author's info posted on Oct 07, 2005 22:29



    tanamaria write:
    long distance sux, but if ur mature, ur
    bound to make it work
    just rememebr to visit each other often


    Good day!
    I am astonish your photo.
    U be encouraged me. It is gratefully.
    Do U like to ride bike or swim?
    Attention! See my photo!!! )?and write me free?Don?t miss me.
    I glad will write and meet with U.
    All the best!
  • View author's info posted on Sep 22, 2005 22:52


    I have tried a long distance relationship,a man who lived in Hawaii and works in Thailand, and I am clear across the states. I agree it is hard to find true love, believe me, chemistry, balance, the works let alone distance. I know of people who waited 6 years and cut it off then returned to marry. I know that if the partner, in this case for myself if the guy is focused on work or something elsewhere,the time you do spend is more like a vacation and not real. Frequent dating is required - hands down and feeds the heart or moves the relationship one way or another. If one is sitting on the fence, move on. It just isnt their time or stage of maturity/mentality or the other partner isnt a priority. I waited 2 years to meet and dated a man who is multimillionaire before that I was really drawn to, believe me, it isnt about money.
    Their are options if both do their own part. Life is about choices, whether you choose the choice or you let the situation make it for you.
    p.s. Takes two to become one.
    Cordially,

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  • View author's info posted on Jul 22, 2005 16:31


    Just want to say thanks to all of you for your comments. You've given me some additional factors to think about.
    My best to all of you.
  • View author's info posted on Jul 21, 2005 11:25


    you can have a long distance relationship for so long... sooner or later someone should consider relocating... if the realtionship is worth it.
  • View author's info posted on Jul 20, 2005 19:13


    we're all basically wealthy right.

    So whats the big deal of spending money on plane flights.

    I think if your at a dating site like this, odds are he/she will not be in the same city.

    I say, expect a plane fight. Or, say in your profile.

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  • View author's info posted on Jun 21, 2005 14:10


    well they said love crosses boundaries...and i know both of you will find a way soon to be together...that is, if you trully love one another
  • View author's info posted on Jun 21, 2005 14:06


    you're right danish, i agree....we wouldnt like to live with that "what if " in our mind....we do only live once and we have to explore a promising things or opportunities...like true love
  • View author's info posted on Jun 21, 2005 01:12


    No matter how unrealistic the distant relationship is, if there is a hint of love somewhere in the communication process of that connection there is always HOPE , and where there is a will there is a WAY, I will have a photo soon! True love Never gives up!Love is faith not Doubt. The mystery in love is that it keeps us alive looking forward to that next moment, and enduring whatever the costs.
  • View author's info posted on May 30, 2005 01:05


    long distance sux, but if ur mature, ur
    bound to make it work
    just rememebr to visit each other often
  • View author's info posted on May 03, 2005 01:33


    True, but think if you never tried it out, you will always think "what if" and you will never know..... you only live 1 time, so get the best out of it, I hope you will out there :-)

    Have a wonderful day :-)
  • View author's info posted on Apr 23, 2005 02:43


    www..you are in the right category..if you got the libido
    you will be the hottest gigolo
    a harem who will pay as you go
    at anytime IM sex ratio
    will show
    it's 1:4 or more
    in your favor for sure
  • View author's info posted on Apr 22, 2005 20:59


    Bonnie, does this mean I should start my harem now - that the time is right? oh goodie.

    lol
  • View author's info posted on Apr 21, 2005 09:44


    Moon..you are too kind ..thanks for being my fan..
    do you reckon there are more female than male on this site..I wonder if MM officials will reveal the sex ratio..
    LTR and LAT work well too in addressing the imbalance in male/female ratio of certain age groups....it could erase the illegitimacy of polygamy..and softens the stigma of extra marital liaison..mainly because the level of commitment is being revised and continues to be redefined by the individual and the group dynamics
    ...Morality through the ages is a platform that floats in the water of humanity from which we launch and take our dives at life..it continues to be remodelled , chipped, redefined..even rebuilt to accomodate the needs of the survivors. Change is the only constant factor in life..so as people's lifestyles change, so will their needs, emotional and physical and therefore social norms need to be reviewed and revised..to accomodate these changes..I know such advant garde and daring views that I raise will invite outcry and huge debate..but this is what this site should do..to provoke , encourage thought and debate..welcome aboard..this moving platform
  • View author's info posted on Apr 21, 2005 08:12


    Bonnie, as usual... you make so much sense... I love reading your posts.... and in this case, you make it encouraging to have an LTR and LAT... lol

    Panther, I agree with you too and welcome to the Forum...
  • View author's info posted on Apr 04, 2005 02:09


    In this fast shrinking world of global travel and instant communication, LTR is no longer an exception ...distance gives space in relationships..absence makes the heart grow fonder OR it could also be OUt of sight out of mind...chemistry and love should theoretically know no distance..and if at all the distance is the intrigue...and magic..the excuse to meet for that special rendevous and the anticipation of meeting after long hard planning and it means if u really love each other u make that special effort..the real test of true love..
    where is the romance if everything comes in convenient compact packages?
    LAT-Living Apart Together-a FRench concept on the rise works well for two career minded working parties who have their respective careers in different countries but meet for love and romance...so u rarely find time to fight..it is quality time u want...
  • View author's info posted on Apr 02, 2005 03:51


    I had been in some long distant relationship before.I meant really long distant,across the ocean. It was hard at the beginning but I believe in faith and we were end up together. But when we were together. We have more fight than we were apart.My point is a long distant relationship is sometimes doesn't show you the original charaters.It seems all look sweet and lovey duby.
  • View author's info posted on Apr 01, 2005 14:46


    I personaly dont like long distance , its hard enough these days to have a relationship with someone in your own area. But then you never know.......my opinion is find someone local you need to spend time together to get to know each other and build that realtionship, it doesnt happen on the phone or threw emails.......
  • View author's info posted on Mar 30, 2005 00:37


    If you want it to work and she's special enough to make it work, you have no choice but to try....trust me.
  • View author's info posted on Mar 28, 2005 12:21


    Why is there no hopes of moving closer together? perhaps what you should be looking at is the real obstacle in your relationship....

    What is it that could keep two people in love apart from each other?
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