I am actually flattered that one of these fake profiles was posted about me! 1HOTSLUTTYMAMA.....that's fu*king hilarious!! I was beginning to feel left out of the game, but then you bring me right into it!! WhooHoo! Thanks so much.....I can't see what you are posting yet, but I can't WAIT!! You make yourself look worse and worse Ron....I think your mother would be proud (or your dead sister), don't you??! :-)
Thanks for making me more and more popular with the men!!
The EdMoronBoosh is Spoilurotten in disguise ladies....please pay no mind to his rantings. He is starting to feel the pains of Ed and I "kicking his butt" (out of the horses mouth!). He will hang himself soon enough!
Fear not sweet damsels....the devil shall be expunged!
ROBERTS, what you just did with that post is the cause of all this - every bit. You had three choices. Read and keep your mouth shut, read and respond nicely with your opinion or, read and post one that is an attack/smart off remarks. YOU are the one that chose the latter and i am sure if your post is responded to in like manner then, you will do like the others, yell how terrible that person is.All these others did exactly what you just did so, you have not one right to tell someone that responds but, one thing - you shouldnt have made such a post so, you have it coming.Just go away and there will not be another round of fighting with you included. Thats all the others have to do - simple as that.
Wrong application. That was under moses law which was replaced by Christs law of grace and Moses law was never given to anyone but, the Isrealites anyway.Another that thinks they are smarter than solomon and tries to make God a liar when he told solomon he would be the smartest man ever. Those instructions on how to raise kids certainally wasnt meant to be an absolute however, if your kids are like you and you call them good kids then, you are self deceived.
PHONEYBOLOGNA, now, i see you CLAIM to be smarter than God. He doesnt think its abuse so, i believe i will stick with him.I suppose that is what is wrong with you now, someone should have spanked your butt when you were smaller. Actually, you STILL need one.
IB, your government can pass all the laws they want but, Gods superceeds the laws by man. You are ignoring what the smartest man in the world had to say about raising kids and going by your emotions. I will stick with solomon. Are there exceptions? Of course however, i would have to meet them and see for myself what kind of people they really were to agree with any paticular exception. I had a x gf that her little girl was good naturally however, there were a couple of times that all the other options didnt work. Personally, no, i have never met a child in my whole life that didnt need one or more spankings. What i have met was overly emotional mothers that didnt think their kids needed one but, others around her couldnt stand the brats she had raised.
Ok Spoils, the Bible may have one stand on this topic, and that's what you stand by fine.
However like I said, here, the government and the law look at it from the purely physiological and physical view. It is AGAINST THE LAW to spank/hit a child. Period!
So no matter what the Bible says, you can not spank a child here!
Therefore, it's not going to happen, and there will be less angry young men in society causing trouble when they are older because they were punished in such a cruel and inhuman way.
There are many, many beautiful religions on this earth at this time, all of them with their own points of view and opinions, not all of them following the bible per se. I have met many beautiful Jewish people, many beautiful Buddhists, Hindus, Pagans and Mormons. I don't necessarily agree with all that they believe, but they are entitled to follow any path that they desire.
They all go to the same heavenly realm upon passing to spirit. They all go to be with Father God.
IB, a debate or discussion about bibical subjects is useless unless there is a basis of authority. That basis is the bible.Otherwise, people will go by their feelings and emotion and sometimes pre-conceived ideas and argue without any sound foundation to back them up.There has to be proof to back what we say. If you care to check the bible, you will clearly find that Jesus established one church.The real church is one that is structured (organized)exactly like 1 Tim and Titus instructs it should be.Any other way is false teaching by man. If someone put a real twenty dollar bill and a counterfit one in front of most people, they couldnt tell the difference but, give them a magnifying glass and a little teaching about what to look for and then, they could see the counterfit clearly. The same with so called churches. Many look religious, they do some things in the same manner and some of the people really are seeking God however if you knew the scriptures, being religious and sincere will not necessarly get one to heaven. Teaching false doctrine will land one in hell and the bible is very clear about that.
Spoils, me move to a forum I know something about?
Hmmmm? Well I'm a mom of 2 older one married working with 2 kids of his own, doing well, and one in high school. Besides the usual teenage angst, no problems here. So how does that not make me qualified to speak on spanking?
Our provincial government passed with law a few years ago, and actually jailed parents from a strict religious commune and took their kids until they promised to lay off using the strap and other means of corporal punishment on children. They are still checked up on by children's services. They weren't going to return their children if they kept following the old testament, word for word!
I think both sides were a little extreme on this issue but those are the facts.
So as a mother, who did try spanking and time outs, like petite1 I found denying things works alot better than spanking/hitting, showing them who's the boss!
It also didn't help when I gave them a spank I cried more than they did!
Spoil, I'm not only an emotional mom, I'm also an emotional human being. I don't find it hard to show my emotions, especially when it comes to my love for my daughter. I'm her only parent and doing it alone. It's not very easy, and doing it alone wasn't my choice. Her father made that decision to remove himself from her life.
If I weren't an emotional mom, I wouldn't be able to give her enough love to compensate for 2 parents instead of 1. If I weren't an emotional mom, my heart wouldn't be big enough to love her, even when she's misbehaving.
For her, time out works much better than spanking. It hurts her feelings more and is embarrassing to her. Spanking her makes her become more aggressive. That may not be true for another child, but it is true in her case.
But I understand your concerns when it comes to kids and how they become our future. We parents do the best we know how, and love them all we can. You can never go wrong if you give them all your love and give them your time. What they do once they're grown is up to them. We hope for the best, just like all the parents from generations past did.
Petite, spanking teaches violence my rear.Spanking teaches one to have respect for authority. Right after the caneing of the american overseas, a gang member in LA was asked by 20/20 if we had that law here, would he be doing what he was doing. His reply? "no way". I doubt that there would be but a hand full of christians if the fear of what God could do if they werent good people was taken away . If there was no punishment and all the police did was take away something or put the criminals in so called time out, they would run all over us.That fear and knowing it might be used, keeps thousands from committing crime. You dont have to try and convience me, i have seen for myself what school has become and its sickening. Its that way because those unruly kids dont get taught respect for their parents at home, come to school and have none for their teachers because they didnt get their butt beat at home and have no fear of the end results of their behavior. Expel them? Bologna, thats what many of them want anyway. Some punishment. Kids are being raised by overly emotional mothers that think spanking is something that one does to the child instead of being able to see that it is the opposite, its something you do for them. Again, God is smarter than you or anyone else that tries to reason this or let their emotions get in the way of their common sense.
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Spoils, if you weren't being aggressive in a violent way, I'd just throw you and your clothes out the door and change the locks! LOL. What woman could live under the same roof with you? (Don't get all bent out of shape. Learn to laugh a little and don't take all of this so seriously)