I hate to see it, but I am an expert at long distance relationships. Girls can never get close to me, so every relationship is long distance. This is Bob, reporting from New York and Boston simlutaneously.
Well, my blood pressure is usually low, heart is ok. You are right. I will go for it, unless they are french or belly dancers. Then I think I will just go on vacation. No sense being embarassed and humilitated.
oh come now wwww... I'm sure you are being way too modest here..... *wink*
you can't possibly go from 6 to 1/2!! lol.....
if you descend too rapidly (I won't say dive due to obvious se*xual connotations....) you might do serious damage to your heart or blood pressure....
then again... if you manage six...... we'll still have to call 911....
a cruel dilemma indeed!!
lol... well MoonRay, hmmmm.... before he had 456 also so.. let's see if you add all that up it makes:
.... 21!! So wwww.... what is then? you want 21 women OR a 21-year old who fulfills all your weird and wonderful fantasties??
aha! so THAT'S what all those little wwwwws stand for...!! lol...
I agree with you - it's not really realistic when you can't see what the other person is like on a day-to-day basis. I guess the best way to get around that problem would be to meet for the first time in a neutral setting for a few days (not too long in case one or the other doesn't feel the connection). Then, if both are very attracted and really like each other the next visit should be at the home of one or the other for at least a week if possible. Then you get more of an idea what their day-to-day life is and how they deal with it....
Any other suggestions anyone...??
There is a danger in long distance relationships that I was not really aware of until I "been there, done that". Essentially, both parties are on their best behavor when both have taken the time from their normal duties and job to have fun togather. Since our daily grind is usually not just about fun, but rather about work, stress, running erands, paying bills, etc. These getaway days are not reflective of our daily lives. You have to somehow spend time together when you are not on a "honeymoon" to see how you get along in a day to day situtation. Of course this same thing can happen if you live in the same town and just see each other at "fun times".
ps, my real handle is wwwww
or wild wonderful wonder woman wanted.
I'm curious Katrina/Katie. Ok. What are you going by these days? Inquiring MM members want to know.
Are the voices independent?
Can they talk to each other?
Can you summon them at will?
Do they just pop up and take over?
Do you ever feel lonely with some many friends?
Do you recommend voices to others?
Me. I have a tail. It comes in sooo handy. You know, when you are at the airport and you need to carry your luggage and show your passport at the same time? TAIL!
How about when you are at the local coffee shop? You want to hold your coffee, breakfast, and pay the person behind the counter? TAIL!
How about when you are all alone? Your back itches and it needs scratching. Once again TAIL!
Thanks. Acknowledging me in the group was a nice thing to do. I admire those of you, open to a new non-face. On the topic, I weigh against long term relationships, though I think, as well, that it is partly a function of where you are in life. With a picture posted, I received mail from many older gents, who thought I was just hatched and would jump at the chance to be their new addition. The younger ones thought I might finance a new addition. But I'm still here, sans picture.
I do believe that most men, unsupervised, are like the ostrich with its head in the sand. No one can see their perfidy so it doesn't count. Turn around three times, look from a different angle and think of your experience and all you know about men. Then, really ask yourself if you want to invest time in a ldr that isn't moving really quickly to a lr (local relationship).
Hey, I was born a dreamer but have never been a fool. What I tell my daughter is to build her dream on good sense and risk anaysis, always checking now and then to see if the parameters have changed.
Value yourselves first, ladies. If you don't, who will?